Who is Your Ketchup? People Who Make a Difference

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By sschilke


 

A couple of years ago, after a somewhat trying day at work, I pulled into my drive way and reached for the groceries in the back seat. When I turned to get out of the car, my children bolted out of the house shouting "Daddy's home, Daddy's home." Seeing the joy on their faces me forget all about my troubles at work. It energized me. I walked into the house and yelled "Daddy's home and he's going to cook."

"Thank you," my wife said as she walked into the living room for some well deserved snooze time on the sofa.

"What are you cooking?" my oldest daughter asked.

"Good food, my friend, good food," I opened the door of the refrigerator and grabbed the brussels sprouts.

"Daddy, you say that every time and it's always just stinky old vegetables and cow meat."

"Spoilsport!" I mumbled to myself. I dumped all of the brussels sprouts into a strainer. After washing the brussels sprouts I retrieved some bacon and one large onion from the fridge. In a matter of minutes I had carved up the bacon and onion and shoveled them into a frying pan. As I waited for the water in the steamer to boil, I placed some baking potatoes into the oven and prepared the mushrooms. One hour later I was finished. A veritable feast comprised of steak, twice baked potatoes and brussels sprouts mixed with onion and bacon bits, adorned the dining room table.

"Supper's ready," I yelled. My family stampeded into the dining room. To my surprise, there was one more mouth to feed. Johnny, my son's best friend, had some how appeared out of thin air. "Are you eating with us tonight?" I asked.

"What are you having?" He asked.

"Steak, baked potatoes, and brussels sprouts," I said.

"Brussels what?" Johny said.

"Brussels sprouts," my son quickly said. "And they suck," he added for good measure.

"I'll try them," Johnny said as he sat down. "Besides, we're having fish at my house and I hate that stuff.

"Good for you Johnny," I said. "I like your attitude." I passed out the food and dished out two brussels sprouts onto our brave guest's plate. Everyone watched as Johnny ate the first brussels sprout. At first, he didn't react, but when he did, it was dramatic.

"Water, water," he garbled. I grabbed the picture of water and filled up his cup. He didn't wait for the cup to be filled. In one desperate movement he swept up the cup and guzzled down the water."

"I told you they sucked," my son repeated.

"Well... I'm not saying that they sucked,"Johnny politely said, "I just found the taste different. Do you have any ketchup Mr. Schilke?"

"Sure do," I opened the fridge door and reached for the ketchup. "It's only half full, I hope that will do for your purposes."

"Hopefully," Johnny said as he opened the bottle. With a firm pat to the backside of the ketchup bottle, Johnny emptied all of the ketchup on to the one lonely brussels sprout.

"Holy big bad momma," my son exclaimed. "You can't even see the brussels sprout anymore."

"I know," Johnny said. "And that's just the way I like it. Five minutes later Johnny's plate was clean. He got out of his chair and took the plate to the sink to be washed.

"Did you even taste the brussels sprout?" I asked.

"Sure I did Mr. Schilke, but the ketchup tasted so good I forgot all about the brussels sprout. Johnny returned to his seat and readied himself for dessert. I brought out the chocolate cake and Johnny smiled. "Do you have any ketchup?" He said. Everyone laughed as I heaped a succulent piece of cake into Johnny's bowl.

I look back on the night and it still makes me smile. How could ketchup make such a difference to a kid? I'm still not quite sure, but I do know that for Johnny, the only way brussel sprouts could be made palatable was through the extensive use of copious amounts of ketchup. As trite and simple as the events of that night may seem, I believe that there is a lesson hidden in all that ketchup.

We all have moments in our life that are not palatable. Things, as my son would say, that suck. Johnny's answer was ketchup. That simple addition made everything okay. So, I ask, what is your ketchup? What or who enables you to make it through a tough situation and gives you the strength to find hope in the hopeless. I

If you are lucky enough to have a stash of ketchup, be thankful, for there are plenty of folks who don't. Imagine the results if all of us, at some moment in the day, could be a little ketchup for that person who is staring at their own brussels sprout. It may just be what that person needs, to help them clean off their plate and enjoy a little dessert . So please, keep your eyes open and "Pass the Ketchup."

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spryte profile image

spryte  says:
17 months ago

Sschilke, that was a wonderful hub! I fell in love with Johnny and his adorable solution and humor. And what an incredible way to relate this story to a life lesson. Ketchup. My husband swears by the stuff too.

My ketchup is a little boy named Michael that never got to draw his first breath in this world. Whenever I'm disheartened or grumbling about the unfairness of life...I just remember that I was given an opportunity that he never would and how dare I ever waste it? I just want my son to be proud of his mother.

Your hub is a thumbs up for me...and if I could give you more than one I would. I'll have to check out your other stuff now!

spryte

sschilke profile image

sschilke  says:
17 months ago

spryte,

Thank you for sharing such an honest and thoughtful response.  You have an uplifting view on life.

Thank you,

sschilke

Constant Walker profile image

Constant Walker  says:
17 months ago

I loved it, too. My "kethcup" is realizing all the gifts I have. Every time I feel like whining about something trivial, or some small thing I find wrong with myself, I remember the people who don't have legs or can't walk, or don't have any family or friends, or who are disfigured in some way, or who have never known the magical thrill of playing music to an audience, who have never experienced a stansing ovation, who are unable to put their thoughts into written words, who are unable to find a job, who are addicted to a deadly drug, who are being abused or tortured.

Who dare I complain? I am blessed. I will never take my gifts, the "simple" and the extraordinary, for granted.

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Maylinda Arons  says:
17 months ago

This is a LOVELY hub! I didn't expect it to turn out the way it did, but you have such a strong point here, it really made me happy. Everybody should have Ketchup! I have several forms of ketchup, in fact, and count myself VERY lucky! My Ketchup: my friends, my boyfriend (who is more than ketchup, he's almost oxygen!), TV (oh yeah), my imagination... Yep, I think I'm VERY lucky! No situation is ever too bad.

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sschilke  says:
17 months ago

Constant Walker,

Thanks for the response. The magical ingredients that make up our lives should never be taken for granted.

Maylinda Arons,

You are entirely correct, no situation is ever too bad. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

sschilke

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cindylangwho  says:
17 months ago

That was so beautiful. The idea is awesome but I also LOVE how you put it all together. Gave me goosebumps.

Super stuff.

sschilke profile image

sschilke  says:
17 months ago

cindylangwho,

Thanks for your kind words.

sschilke

RUTHIE17 profile image

RUTHIE17  says:
17 months ago

Great hub! Great humor piece! Life without "ketchup" would be a dull and sad existence.

sschilke profile image

sschilke  says:
17 months ago

Ruthie17,

I agree 100%.

sschilke

Cole Connection  says:
17 months ago

God is my "ketchup"...life would be one big unedible brussel sprout without His love and grace.

Nicely written...I enjoy your work!

Pete Michner profile image

Pete Michner  says:
17 months ago

A1 sauce is my ketchup, unless I'm eating a hot dog, in which case I only want mustard :) Seriously though, I usually drown out life's bad tasting times with writing in my jounal. Great Hub!

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sschilke  says:
17 months ago

Cole connection,

I agree, grace covers a multitude of my self made messes.

Pete Michner,

I like A1 sauce too.

sschilke

sceptic profile image

sceptic  says:
14 months ago

This hub is awsome really cracked me up!

Uly  says:
12 months ago

How did you prepare the sprouts? I find that when I cook them al dente (weird word to use here, but it fits) with a little bit of lemon and butter (like I'd cook green beans) the nieces eat them up. And everybody devours them when I cook them with bacon and yogurt!

sschilke profile image

sschilke  says:
12 months ago

Uly,

I always cook the sprout with bacon and onions. I fry the bacon and onions first and steam the sprouts. Then I add them to the bacon and onion.They always taste great.

sschilke

Pam Roberson profile image

Pam Roberson  says:
12 months ago

Nice hub! Bacon and onions make everything taste good. :)

My ketchup is my best friend, Lisa, who is the most genuine person I know. She accepts me for who I am, never judges me, always listens, and always makes me laugh even when I'm sad and don't feel like I want to laugh. :D

Thanks for the heart warming hub. :)

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CharlieMine  says:
12 months ago

My boys....my boys are my ketchup. But I don't, like, EAT them or anything! LOL! And karate...and dancing...and karaoke....and my crazy cat, Tasha....and writing....and reading....and watching CSI with my hubby...and.... making people smile. :)

Great post. There's nothin' more attractive, imo, than intelligence and a good sense of humor.

{oo} girl hug!

sschilke profile image

sschilke  says:
12 months ago

Pam,

Sorry for the delay in responding. It's a great thing to have someone as you describe your best friend. Your lucky to have her.

CharlieMine,

Thanks for the response. It sounds like you are surrounded by a great bunch of folks. Thanks for dropping by...

oh yeah... thanks for the girl hug.

sschilke

Kulsum Mehmood profile image

Kulsum Mehmood  says:
12 months ago

Hi sschilke. Terrific. I like your style of writing an article.

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sheenarobins  says:
12 months ago

Very observant daddy who found an insight from a ketchup. I like your hub. My ketchup is my kids. Most of the time we think they are getting strength from us parents so we need to be strong but little did we know it was the other way around.

They pushed us to our limits because we need to take care of them. They inspire us to be better and responsible people because we want the best for them. They make us dream big and make it come true because we need to provide for them.

Great hub and Inspiration.

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