What to Do at the End of the Date

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By MaryElena



So you've got all dressed up, you have on the perfect dress, the hot plus size chemise that makes you feel great underneath, and you've gone out on a date. While the date may have been okay, sometimes it is the end of the date that you may not be sure about, and you may be wondering how to end it. Should you go for a kiss, tell them you're not interested, or let them know that you want to do it again? It can be tough to end a date, so here are some great tips that can help you end a date the right way.

Don't Lead Your Date On

The first thing to remember is that you should never lead your date on. If you didn't have a great time or you don't think that this is going to work out, don't make it worse by pretending. No, you definitely should not be rude about them, but let them kindly know that you don't think it will work out. Pretending to like them more is only going to hurt them even more in the long run. If you don't plan on getting together with them again, then don't act like you will. Sometimes things just don't work out, so just be honest about it.

Guys - Pay the Bill

Guys, you should pay the bill at the end of a date. This is just the polite and chivalrous thing to do. The woman you are with may insist on helping with the bill, and you can decide whether or not to accept. However, you took her out, and you should be willing to lay out the cash for the date, so at the end of the date, pay up instead of starting to split the check, which looks tacky.

Don't Plan Kissing or More

At the end of a date, don't plan on kissing or more. Sure, you may have worn your favorite comfy plus size bodystocking on the date, but that doesn't mean that things are going anywhere. You should be planning on keeping it casual for awhile. Just jumping into things is usually not a good choice. Perhaps a simple kiss on the cheek is a great way to end the date instead of going on to do things you regret the next day.

If You Enjoyed It - Let Them Know

Of course, if you enjoyed the date, let your date know at the end of the date. No, you don't have to come on too strong, but let them know you had a wonderful time and that you'd be open to getting together again. This way you don't pressure them to go on another date, but you at least leave it open for another date in the future. Your date may be wondering if you really enjoyed yourself, so if you did, then vocalize it.


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