What to do if you are Heart Broken
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Love is the driving force to some people people to do wonderful things in their lives, sometimes it is the driving force also that made people do crazy things. We'll that is love, well perhaps when a person is heart broken, how a person would move on and be a the person he used to be? That is really something easy to say for some people when you ask for advice, but the truth is most people who are heart broken could hardly stand and be a man again.
When your talk your concerns to someone you trusted you felt that you have a protector willing to understand you and give you comfort. And when you talk about the reasons of your breakup you have the enormous confident and strenght to face it, but when the good times are being discussed there...your tears will start to fall. Well many would say that ACCEPTANCE is the solution, ok? let's take it but for how long can you accept the fact that the person you love is no longer at your side and here you are a zombie who can't do anything to be happy again.
I have some simple tips for you on how to handle the situation you are experiencing:
I do experienced many times being left out by the woman I love with no good reason.
What I did to overcome it are the following:
1. Love is the reason why you cant forget the person and often times makes you cry, you have to let it go, How? face the fact that he or she left you because you two are not compatible.
2. Think of the things that you hate from her, start from the way she or he did things to you and the way she or he acts towards to you and to the society.
3. Frequent drinking Liquors or taking drugs would not solve the problem, it only removes your depression and frustration for a while then it will come back the time you're awake.
4. Try to avoid looking on the things she or he gave to you, like pictures and among others. Try tear his or her picture it can rip your love to her or to him and it is also best because it can remove that love you have especially if you add it with hatred.
5. Get your phone and call your friends and mingle with them, ask for their advices and solution, it is better if there are many solutions because instead of pain you felt, you feel joy and comfort from them.
6. Make your self busy and focus on more important things in your life at present like work, business and among others that is fruitful. It can help you overcome the situation.
7. Think of the situation as a destiny not a tragedy. Think that there are more better than your x and you are lucky because he or she set you free before thngs get worst.
8. Erase her or him in your memory, if you can't think of your crush and start looking for her or his number. That would sure replace what's on your memory right now.
9. Sleep and Sleep...its peaceful
10. Well I am sure those nine tips will surely remove that love thing and enables you to move on.................But how about give her or him a call lay down all your hatreds, your pride, forget about the troubles and just say SORRY, and I sure you it will make you happy again.
Love is really a mysterious thing in our lives, when you are in it is hard to get out.. Make way to save it if possible because living a life alone is worst than broken hearted.
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i hope this works because i cant live any longer with a broken heart . the man i dedicated my life to for so long has left me for nothing and refuses to even speak to me. so far though, iv'e done PLENTY of sleeping =/
Well i dont know whether it would help others or not bt it cannot help me in anyway cos right now nothing except her can take mind off this thing..........called memories.......all d best for the rest.......althu i have been sleeping a lot.......i got drunk but tht jes kept me away for a while......as soon as the spirit power went off i came back falling to tht same pity world of mine
o.k girls or guys you are all cool and cute,pretty but this is what to me with nick i could not get him off my mind at all i was cyring for at lease 3 to 2 months and i still love him but think about it maybe you guys can be friends again and than see what happens that is what i am doing if it do not work out with him i will just i have to give up all ready o.k i hope this helps and remeber to whach hannah montana the movie bye love ya =]
I appreciate that you're trying to help people get over a relationship, but I would just like to comment that some of your tips are not healthy alternatives. Thinking of all the bad things about a person fills one with anger. Instead of encouraging a person to embrace those things that impacted them and became part of them (like an apprentice), you're giving them extremely emotional experiences that are only temporary in nature.
I am just getting out of a four year relationship, the man that I've lived with for three of those years. I understand that it hurts. But at the same time, I recognize that he was a major part of my life, and he is stamped on my personality. It would not help to think about all the things I despise about him, because it means I would be despising myself.
Also, finding a new crush is not a good idea. You need time to love yourself before you get involved in physical or emotional love with someone else.
MY suggestion is to write two letters. One to your significant other and one to yourself. Fill the one to your significant other with all the things you feel and think about what's happening. All the things you've always wanted to say something about. Fill the letter to you with encouraging words, a list of things you've always wanted to do that you didn't, etc. If you wanted, you could even include a list of things you want to change about yourself. Then, burn the letter to your significant other. Mail the letter to yourself. You'll receive it in a few days or a week and it will put you in the mood to change things.
Good luck.
at least you had a chance of goin out with them..
this guy i liked has liked me back for a while and we were headed towards lovin each other..but we couldnt go out because my mom hated him..
after a meetin with both our parents,his parents decided that they dont want him dating me...
i can never go out with him..
he can never be my boyfriend..not ever..
not even for a tiny bit..
this girl gave me a note and i kept it for about a month but thanks to # 4 im going to rip it up tommorrow in front of her old best friend
my x and i broke up one month ago, it totally brought me down..because the last of 2 and half months we were in long distance. i couldn't even cry when i thought of him...i knew i still love him when he decided to dump me alone. i find the my way to face the fact and accept we were not meant to be together. forgetting about everything happened before no matter how much i loved him. it is now two people's life not a future life for two. it is hard to move on life but still can make it. having a faith in myself and life.
my x and i broke up one month ago, it totally brought me down..because the last of 2 and half months we were in long distance. i couldn't even cry when i thought of him...i knew i still love him when he decided to dump me alone. i find the my way to face the fact and accept we were not meant to be together. forgetting about everything happened before no matter how much i loved him. it is now two people's life not a future life for two. it is hard to move on life but still can make it. having a faith in myself and life.









Nichole says:
13 months ago
Thanks for this advice. I hope it helps cause this guy I really like, he told me he liked me and stuff but, 2 days later I found out that he already has a girlfriend. :( cry cry cry!