For the more useful and sound advice I can give on relationships, it is this issue: be careful how much you think of something that may not be or chances are it will come to fruition against your better judgement. Take a relationship between two mature individuals who are in love with one another but have other pressing committments that cannot be taken away from.

If either of those two people start thinking the other committments are more important, that the person they love should be more concerned with those other committments, the more thought that is given into being without this person becomes evident even if not clear, by pushing toward something else, you push them right out of your life and it happens right before your eyes. Every time a thought is given that takes you away from your beloved, does a little more. If they stay away you have only successfully pushed them away.

If not given the chance to have a face-to-face discussion with your beloved, then all you must remain in control of doing is making every thought one that will manifest in bringing your relationship to the forefront as the most important connection in your life . . . if that is what you want. If provided the opportunity to speak, do so from the heart very gentle and assertively not aggressively. Men appreciate a woman that speaks softly but confidantly and hypnotizes or cajoles the security in that disclosure of her rawest self is requested, acknowledged and loved in reciprocative effort.

Now it does take two to tango as they say, but more importantly if distance can make the heart grow fonder, nurture that belief and make yourself part of something good existing in the 'rafters for now' between you two again, bringing it to center stage because essentially if you think of yourself with this person, it too will happen as long as it is a continuous thread of thoughts that serve your couplehood with him and not their couplehood to or with something or someone else.

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'till next time, the Enlightenment Advisor cautions you to be careful in what you wish for for it does happen