What are EMOTIONS?
65The soul has been labeled as that part of us that embodies emotion. And so it does. But what is not explained in more detail is that the soul is a massive part of us that gives us the potential to be a creative force in our human condition. (In some models of teachings the soul encompasses thoughts as well as emotion, as the two are difficult to separate).
It would not be unwarranted to split the term soul into two levels, that of lower mode and a higher mode.
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Emotions are reactions and are triggered by an event that is usually cause for trauma, whether that trauma be dramatic or a small pull of unease. You may have heard the saying Emotion = energy in motion. If you hold onto a trauma, ie it remains unresolved, then energy is caught, and the flow of energy is stopped. That's a very simple concept to understand.
If traumas remain trapped it's because you did not have the mechanisms or know how to deal with them, you can become embittered in some form and the result is a continual reaction. The emotion can remain dormant until someone comes along and triggers the same trauma and off you go again with another reaction. It becomes a circle and in time the initial reason is usually long forgotten, your trauma becomes an unconscious part of your soul, an unresolved issue if you will. Unresolved traumas create a grasping in your body and can result in a tactile feeling of pain.
The feeling of compassion is often overtaken by emotion. Say a friend lost their mother, for example, you stand with your friend during her time of loss. If you get drawn into the grief, then this is no longer compassion. You have become emotional for your own reasons. You have gone from a feeling of holding your friend in a state of compassion, to having an emotional reaction. You think you are crying for your friend, poor thing, losing her mother, how sad. In fact you are crying for your own sense of loss. Even if you have not lost your mother, you react as if you have. The mind gets involved and gives a distorted perception of what it would be like to actually lose your mother. It's a reaction, it's an emotion. There is a clear difference between a feeling of compassion, and an emotional reaction to loss.
A way of helping to discern between an Emotion and a Feeling is to watch the mechanisms. Emotions have an action, they are volatile, like anger and jealousy, passionate love is an emotion, sadness, grief, even uncontrollable laughter is an emotion. It is the result of an action.
A feeling is a state of Being. Joy is a state of being, (not to be mixed up with pleasure as a result of deeds). Enthusiasm is another feeling. Higher love is a feeling. A feeling is not conditional. No wantings, no expectations, just a state of being.
Emotions being reactions can get out of control. So much so that your perception of reality becomes clouded. That serves no one, particularly you. It's unrealistic to walk on this lovely planet without becoming subject to emotions, either yours or someone elses. But how you take your soul into a higher state is to not get dragged into the emotional pit, but find ways to hold yourself through the human journey without being blown to the four winds. No easy feat for many of us.
The higher level of the soul would be reserved for that state where emotions do not sway decisions. You remain centered no matter what. You feel and deal with whatever sensations and situations come your way.
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Grasped emotions are the basis of a person's neurosis. It pays, therefore not to be emotional for too long.
Yes, I believe it is valuable to one's health to understand the difference between one's emotional life and one's feeling life. Knowing how emotions arise from the mental process, and are therefore subject to evaluation and transformation, offers one the freedom to grow and become united with one's heart felt feelings, which are expressions of the soul. Thank you for you discourse.
Most welcome vitaeb, thank you for your comments.
This post really helped me find my way. I can feel the transfer of energy, from when I let go of the bad to seeing who picks up on it as well. It's interesting. I am now learning how to cope with my true feelings, instead of the mess that comes from following emotions. Thank you for sharing your extremely valuable information. Even when you say it's an easy concept to understand, you'd be surprised how confusing it can be and how much you've helped by pointing it out.
Paulina, you're giving me goosebumps. Wonderful this hub helped you and thank you for your feedback.
Thank-you for this jewels I really enjoyed it, gave me lot's to think about and gave me a better understanding of emotions and how to deal with them.
Thanks from dropping in wrenfrost56, glad it helped.
Love this break-down (no pun intended!) and clarification-thanks...
Hi lorlie6, you are most welcome. Feelings and emotions often get mixed up, often not separated at all. Glad you came to visit.
This hub is amazing!
Hello Disturbia, wonderful you dropped by.
Fascinating. This is indeed a very useful way to think of feelings and emotions. Thanks for writing it, Jewels! :)
Hi Jess. Thanks, yes we need to always be able to feel, yet it's the emotions we need to get more control over. They often get mixed up.
well said well said....focus on the feeling of the emotion ...yes!
Hi Lee. Absolutely - feeling it prevents blocking = flow.
Hello Jewels! Have been missing you and decided to come and visit you! WOW! What a GREAT HUB!!! Thank you! Blessings!!! Come and visit me when you get a chance. Luv Luv












Howhigh says:
2 years ago
emotions allow one to grasp. A concept (trauma) or a good deed, its a way of processing information. In its grasping though, it is bound. Your emotions cannot teach you how to feel.
on the other hand, feelings allow one to let go, it is an different way of accepting reality that comes from a deeper place within the soul.
Emotions are feelings that are being outsourced to understand something shocking good or bad. Getting caught up in one's emotional response and then preventing or seeking these emotions insulates yourself from your true feelings. In a sense someone who follows their emotions will live in a different world than those who follow their feelings. The emotional getting more and more detached and in their own world.
great post jewels.