It is rare when you meet someone and you are instantly drawn to them. The chemistry is so strong that the sight of them, the sound of their voice, and to look in their eyes fills you with desire. The attraction is so strong that there is an overwhelming urge to kiss them. There is an instant affinity as if you've known them before.

It is when you meet someone like this that it is easy to be uninhibited. There is an unusual underlying, unspoken trust that exists. It is inexplicable, yet deep down you know that this person is straightforward and honest, just like you. They are open-minded, yet governed by principles. However, this does not make them stern or rigid. In fact, it allows them to be complex and multi-faceted; more of a split-brain type (like you) consisting of both a creative, as well as an analytical mind.

At first there was a chance that the relationship could have been based entirely on sex. Although sex was a component, lust was not the single motivator. Lust takes place generally below the waist and is lewd. What happened between these two took place throughout the whole body, mind, and spirit. It had great depth and breadth. It exuded a comfortable intimacy that felt common, safe, and secure.

The first night began with a phone message. She was out at a singles function at a restaurant and bar in the Design District. When she got home she noticed that there was a voicemail. When she checked the messages, it was him. She had given him her number, but was actually surprised he had called because she thought that they would have made some type of plans actually by e-mail the day before and was a bit disappointed because it had not happened. When she listened to the voicemail, she was really excited to finally hear his voice for the first time.

She called him back and the conversation went very quickly, because afterall, they had been flirting since June or July and it was already the end of September, so it was not like it was so new. She invited him over and he got the address. She had already began undressing and getting ready for bed, but when she found out he was coming over, began putting her clothes back on and getting ready for his visit. She selected some music and lit some candles.

He called her from the car. He had passed her building and was next door. She gave him directions. Her heart pounded with anticipation. Soon the doorman called to announce he was downstairs. She paced as she waited to hear the elevator and his steps approaching the door. She approached the door as he knocked. She opened the door and he stepped in and they made their introductions as they looked into eachother's eyes and their lips met.