When You Die
65My father pasted away on Monday September 1, 2008 and I buried him on Friday. My dad has been with me since my mom died 13 years ago and sometimes he could be a pain in the rear. But I miss him so much already, he would make me coffee in the morning, because he got up at 4 so the coffee would be done when I got up. He would talk to me while I cooked dinner and just be there when Jacob went to his room and wanted to play.
Jacob is my grandson and he has been with me since he has 6 and now he is 11 and he was very use to pappy being here and now he is lost with out him, and he ask me if pappy would go to heaven or the bad place, I never told him a lot about that because I am not sure I believe it myself, I think we go live another live. So I ask him where he heard that and off course it was TV. So I guess I would like to know how other people feel about it is there heaven and hell?
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I am so sorry.I know words really don't do justice in times like these but they are all we've got.
Thanks so much to both of you. And sorry about your mom.
My wife's mother died this past Sunday.
A family death is a grief that is incredibly hard to bear. Time heals but you never really forget. Just the memories get sweeter over time and the pain to turns to whistful longing but never really goes away. My heart goes out to you at this sad time.
thank you both so much
My prayers to you...and the other's also....Death is inevitable..."we all want to go to heaven...but nobody wanna go now.".. words from a western singer Kenny Chessney... and time is a healer... but it takes time....seems like forever sometimes..So sweetie you hang on..and keep doing what you know Pappy would want you to do..especially for Jacob....by the way what a handsome Dad I can see you in him....
Whether there is a heaven or a hell or we just live another life..no one truly knows till the time comes for each of us...."but I do beleive we should always do unto other's as we would have them do to us"......and again my best to you and Jacob and thank you for letting us know you are making it....Bless you my dear...G-Ma :o) hugs
Thank You so much G-Ma your kind words are always so helpful. Hope you and your mother are doing fine?
spryte says:
16 months ago
My condolences on your loss Debby...it's not easy to lose a parent. My mother passed away last month and I'm still coming to terms with it.
I'm not sure if there is a heaven or a hell...or even if it's important to have that answer. I suppose one day I'll find out, but I'm definitely not in a hurry.