For me, the main leading cause of divorce is the lack of communication between the couple. .When the lines communication fails the marriage will be on the rock. How can be a relationship becomes effective if either or both parties won't discuss their feelings, can't talk about both mutual or personal issues, will keep all their resentments simmering under wraps, and expect each other to guess what the whole problem is about. In many instances, some problems that cause divorce have existed in the couple's relationship long before they got married.

The lack of communication on excavating the personality and background of the person you are marrying was not taken into considerations. The problems were either not acknowledged or were ignored in the hoping that the marriage might miraculous work out.

Reading through many articles, I have come up with some of the cause of divorce as follows:

•A) TIME

•B) SEX

•C) MONEY

•D) PERSONALITY TRAITS

•E) LOVE AND RESPECT

It may be categorized specifically depending upon the situation and how you look and view the case:

• Poor or lack of communication of either or both couple
• Lack of commitment to the marriage
• Financial problems
• Dramatic changes in priorities (both personal and career)
• Failed expectations or unmet needs
• Addiction to alcohol and/or substance
• Inability or Lack of conflict resolution skills
• Infidelity / Adultery
• Physical, sexual or emotional abuse
• Abandonment
• Personality Differences or ‘irreconcilable differences'
• Different expectations about having or rearing children
• Interference from parents or in-laws
• Lack of maturity
• Intellectual and Sexual Incompatibility
• Traditions and Cultures which would prevent or won't allow personal growth, cultural and lifestyle differences
• Personal Immaturity and Falling out of love
• Religious conversion or religious beliefs
• Inability to deal with each other's little idiosyncrasies
• Mental Instability or Mental Illness
• Criminal behavior and incarceration for crime

In marriage the balance of nature must be always applied. There must be always the give and take, hot and cold, high and low, etc. scale. If not, chances are marriage will end up. (Lastly, don't ask me if I' m divorced, hehehe).