Whoop Your Kids Ass

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By Jykeith Comal


 

Lets speak plainly about our youth.

Through out the years I have noticed a horrifying trend when it comes to our youth-- lack of discipline. When I was a kid growing up in the 70's and 80's, we had a thing called "respect". And if you got out of line in a "black" family, you got your ass whooped. But social service and other child protection agencies got involved, parents are afraid to spank their kids, or discipline them. Its like the kid is the parent, and the parent is the kid. As for me, nothing that "I" helped bring into this world is going to disrespect me.....NEVER!

When I was a youth I never talked back, or attempted to hit my mother. If I did, I would be dead. I was never disrespectful, and I did what I was told. Now a days, these parent negotiate, What!? I see children tell the parents, what they are going to do, and what they are not going to do. SHIT!! I wish one of my kids would try to disrespect me. I don't care about child protective service, or any other service. They would have to call the police to get my foot out they ass. Believe it or not that's what the world needs. If parents would be parents and discipline their children, I guarantee you that the world wouldn't be as messed up as it is today. You wouldn't have school shootings, and gang violence. You wouldn't have drug use, and teen pregnancy. Parents are letting the state and the government run their homes. Not me, and not mine.

Its a damn shame my own Grandmother cant walk down the street without the fear of being shot, or robbed by some young knuckle head that wasn't raised right. What is it going to take far the parents , and the state to say "hey we have a problem." Is it going to take more school shootings, or battered parents to say "hey we've messed up." If you ever met my children you would say that my children are well mannered and behaved. Well let me let you in on a little secret. My children now if they get out of line, there is a price to pay. I don't care if you like what I'm saying or not, what I am saying is no one should negotiate will a child. A child is exactly that.... a child, that needs to be taught right from wrong. If you have a disrespectful child, trust me, they will be come disrespectful adults, or worse. But you've seen these soft hearted parents that say " I don't spank Tommy, I just talk to him." SHIT! That's why when Tommy turns thirteen, and you cant control him, then shoots you in your sleep, or someone else. I don't know what the hell these parents are thinking about.

Maybe I'm crazy, but a child that talks back, just makes me want to slap them in the mouth. Is it me or don't you just want to pat a parent on the back when they put their child in check?

My Grandmother taught me allot of things as a child. One of them was respect. For example, I never talked to her, while she was on the phone, or talking with another "grown" person. I always said sir or ma'am. I never talked back, or acted out. You know why? Because I would get my ass whooped.

She taught me to be a gentlemen, and to only speak when spoken to (as a child). She taught me, how to cook and clean. She taught me the value of a good education. She also taught me "spare the rod and spoil the child." That's the issue of today's world....too many spoiled children with no discipline.

What are you teaching your children?

Are you helping them, or hurting them?

Do me a favor.......whoop your kids ass!!!!

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bendz  says:
5 months ago

Hi

Nice post. Parents are the first teacher for their child. You're correct.

:-)

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Jykeith Comal  says:
5 months ago

parents of the world need to unite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whoop some ass!!!

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Julie A. Johnson  says:
5 months ago

Yes, many children are very disrespectful these days (I know, I'm a teacher). I don't believe in beating children into submission, and I do think an effective way to teach is through example and role modeling.

That being said, if respect is taught to a child from the beginning by the parent (starting with teaching manners and insisting that manners be used consistently by everyone in the household), children grow up and act more more respectful.

Thanks Jykeith, for addressing a very important issue in our society!

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Jykeith Comal  says:
5 months ago

thanx for your comments....it is an issue that has been tip toed around for years. I am a fan of education and teachers... keep ya head up!!!!

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Jykeith Comal  says:
5 months ago

When i was in college in the early 90's my major was ele education, i changed my mind because of this subject, so yes this is an issue. people dont want to teach disrespectful kids. parents need to step it up.

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Julie A. Johnson  says:
5 months ago

Jykeith, I agree, parents need to step up. Education about respect begins at home, not when a child starts school. I wish more parents would step up, and not wait for the rest of society to take on this important responsibility.

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lady luck  says:
4 months ago

i still love you even tho ur a cheater!

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Jykeith Comal  says:
4 months ago

Thats ok, i'm writing a hub and your in it lady luck!! LOL

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Jykeith Comal  says:
3 months ago

Let the beatings begin......LOL

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