What is that strange impulse that leads us to move closer to other women? Why are both in the forbidden pleasure?

Deception is a word which nobody is immune. In regard to the couple, the deception involves a violation of the rules of fidelity. Rules which, once broken, can mark a turning point in the relationship, even though the other part of the couple did not know of the betrayal. From now on, you have five seconds to guess what the main cause of divorce.

Correct. Marital infidelity is on the top. There are other cultures that openly allow a man to have more than one woman, this is the case with Muslims. One of the richest men on the planet today, The Sultan of Brunei, has more than 100 women. However, here in the West, polygamy is not viewed as favorably.

Human beings exist in two planes or levels: the physical and mental. In this regard, we strive to establish a puritanical set of moral rules that contradict our physical desires. This is another one of so many ridiculous hypocrisies people try to impose on themselves and on others.
Instinct and Suppression

If only we were honest with ourselves, we should recognize that we are sexually attracted by more than one person. Of course, this is not a violation of a promise made love to a woman is just instinct. And the instinct is like a computer program preloaded on your brain.

On a purely physical, we all have instinct and hormones constantly influencing our thoughts. This combination comes into play when a man, for example, sees an attractive woman walking down the street. She stimulates his senses. He does not know or is interested in what she is thinking only sees his physical attributes. They make you feel good ...

He has fantasies about what it would be kiss her or feel her body next to yours, how would you love. Seconds later, a second thought, the fault appears on the scene. "I am a married man" or "my girlfriend" or "How could betray so?" Are some of the most recurrent thoughts. However, it is absurd that a man feels guilt for something they can not control, even for something that feels like a punishment.
Media and infidelity

Do not forget movies, television and print media. James Bond, the Don Juan for excellence, is the first to come to mind. And what of those soap operas that millions of women look bolted to their chairs every evening? In truth, the attraction of most of these TV shows is to see the main characters having countless affairs.

Until recently, Fox aired a reality show starring young and eager couples living on an island, called "Temptation Island" (the island of temptation) that really should be called "Sexual Survival." Men and women were separated on opposite sides of the island, while people were attracted by the opposite sex whose sole mission was to break the pact of loyalty these participants engaged.

Where an infidelity was committed, was in charge of a video showing her everything to the other side of the island. Of course, the spreadsheet demonstrated that the audience show was a success.

And what's the news that made front-reel to the White House a couple of years ago. Remember Bill Clinton saying "I have not had sexual relations with that woman"?

With the advent of the Internet, there is a new definition of deception. The affair through the computer, the infidelity of the text. Men can have virtual sex with women and vice versa. Appointments can be arranged through an instant messenger, much less compromising the phone.
Guilt

Here, however, is where you should make a difference. Desire vs physical. emotional betrayal. Which of the two you think is most important? A man can sleep with a prostitute, and after the sexual act is over, turn it into nothing more than a vague memory. Women generally do not have that capacity.

Since the world is world, men and women have fought and have been involved in countless battles that often ended up eroding the relationship. Thus, marriages have collapsed, and too much emotional agony has been wasted in attempts at resuscitation. Today there is a crisis in marriage. The crisis in the fidelity, is something now?

Finally, it should be noted that men continue to feel attracted to other women and, yes, and women continue to feel attracted to other men. When we accept reality, it might begin to be a more mature society. You, what do about it?