A friend of mine asked me this question the other day and I just shook my head. I think I know the answer far too well, but I wasn't sure if she was ready to hear it. Why do woman like bad boy's? To me the answer lies in something deeply emotional and rooted in our genes. All my life my mother taught me to be a gentlemen. She taught me to open the car door, always let the woman go first in line, and other things like that. Then as I was growing up and started high school, something becamevery clear to me. All of the hottest girls in school were either dating the Athlete or the Gangsters. I thought to myself, good thing I am on the basketball team or I would see no action at all. Even the nerdiest girls seemed to be attracted to thugs, and I never knew why back then. I learned quickly to change my image if I wanted to be more attractive and not get taken advantage of by the opposite sex. I was raised to be a sweet caring guy, but sweet caring guys, in the real world don't always get the girl. I found out the hard way when I got dumped my senior year of high school for being too nice. It was then that I learned I have to become a little rougher around the edges and demand what I want from Women and Life in general.

I changed overnight after that break up, I carried myself with more confidence and a new attitude. Not mean, but that I wasn't going to take crap from any woman again. I had a new bounce in my step, and the girl that dumped me actually asked me back, to go to the prom with her, and I laughed in her face, and told her I already had a date, the top cheerleader on campus, and that we would be taking a limo and that I was paying for everything that night. Was I mean to her? I don't think so, because she left me, for a thug, because she claimed, "I was too nice to her." It made me believe that woman like to be treated all kinds of ways good and bad. They like drama and are very emotional, which makes them think irrational sometimes. I am not saying all woman are like this, just all the ones I have ever met. I think Pimps are popular because of this fact. How does a Pimp make a woman sell her own body then give him all the money? He makes her believe that she needs him to make money and that only he can protect her, and she believes that as true. This is why some women choose the bad boys, they give off the impression that they can protect them from harm and use that to make themselves appealing if its their Athletic Size, Popularity, or the fact that they are so dangerous no one will mess with them. My theory, is that Women enjoy a little danger in their life and if deep down they have a good man they will stick by his side, good or bad. CoryLavel Say's Be Wealthy!

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