It seems as though I had to change the controversial title of this hub with the fact indeed being voiced that "WOMEN" love porn and stripper's just as much as men. Yeah I guess you can say I am one of those sexually adventurous women and I totally agree with the concept of watching porn with your lover etc. I got a lot of insight about why we like porn and exotic dancer's and why some people do not.

Strip-per (n) ~ One who performs a striptease AKA Exotic Dancer

Strip-tease (n) ~ A performance, as in a burlesque act, in which a person slowly removes clothing usually while dancing to music.

Pornography or Porn (adj.) ~ Is the depiction of explicit sexual subject matter for the purpose of sexually exciting the viewer.

Exotic Dancer's face a lot of challenges in the role that they portray no matter how professional the club atmosphere is. There is a lot of jealousy inside the club with the dancer's always trying to uphold the title of "Best Dancer" and most money getter. The men and women who work at these clubs usually are not in the mood for the daily events that they have to endure. The pressure that these dancer's face is tremendous.

Everyone that dances is not out for just a freaked out profession, some are in college or single moms and dads trying to get ahead instead of getting by. I know a few dancer's personally and they all have their very own reason's for why they do what they do including taking care of sick loved one's and more. When it is all said and done, it is up to you if you want to stay in the profession of exotic dancing or take a leap over to the sometimes darkside of tthe porn industry.

People like to go to strip clubs because it is a known fact of the fantasy enviroment it can give you. The women and men are sometimes extremely good looking and sexy with assets you do not see everyday with your usual lovers. Does it mean that you do not find your partner attractive if you have one?? Of course not in some situations.

You do have the few egotistical men and women who will go behind the scene's and cheat with these dancer's for a small fee or a huge one just for a few minutes of pleasure. But most people I have talked to say they just go for fun and a little excitement. Hmmmm... What does that mean?? Does it mean that your wife or husband is not doing the job right?? In some cases that could be the case in other's it is just a innocent night out with your friends.

Some couples are scared to let their partners know that they have a desire to watch videos or go to strip clubs but you would be surprised how many partner's are secretly into these natural desire's. When you are open with your partner, it is easy not to feel as embarassed when you buy a sex tape or tap into a triple X website out of the blue. Secretly stashing your magazines, tapes etc. could lead to a night on the couch and years of mistrust. I personally think that it is very disrespectful to sneak and go to strip clubs because most people have a stereotype about these types of places.

A lot of exotic dancers are not just dancers. Some give up extra favors on the side and it makes all the legit and profesional dancers look bad. Is a lap dance exceptable? Only if you are single to mingle. If you are in a union, you should take your partner's feeling's into consideration and if they do not like you going either do not go or find a new partner. Plain and simple. You would be surprised how many couples go to the strip club together. I guess the point of it all is that we are all human and everyone has a wild side that they can not show regularly so it is not unusual to have desire's to look at exotic dancers or triple X movies.

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