Why Old Americans like young Pinays?
70In the eyes of many pinays are having unique exotic looks, and that makes pinays attractive, compared to most commonly seen white women looks. Pinays are very kind,respectful and a perfect companion for handling a sure lasting relationship, thus includes the men too. There are so many comments from many regarding this issue and some would say that Americans are becoming blind in looking for a pinay because they've got the ugliest of them all.
like this funny comment from yahoo answers:
"Foreigners liking Filipina women: Japanese men like Filipinas who look like gays while Americans like those who look like nannies/housemaids/helpers (most Filipinos look down to people whose jobs are any of those)."
"Filipinas are lucky enough to find a foreigner who will in most cases give them and their families a chance to improve their lives."
"They like them more exotic looking rather than western looking. Just the same as Filipinos falling for Americans that look all white and ugly. To each their own taste."
According to Filipinas:
"its because we are tired of seeing the same brown skinned guys and we are attracted to white people... that's just the same with Foreigners, they like cute, sexy and morena skinned girls because they find us attractive... the grass is always greener on the other side..."
Funny and stupid answers!
Lets get straight to the point! Let us not denying the reality that is seen by many and realized by many, especially to the Filipinos.
First let us talk about love and truthfulness:
Filipinos are very loving and caring, whether they look beautiful nor ugly, it is in the blood stream of every Filipino, they are born that way and nothing can change them from acting that way. And that is one good reason why in the Philippines they valued marriage and family a lot!
Americans are different they valued a lot more on civil rights than family and marriage, and look what happen there are so many 60 year old to dying Americans in the world seeking companionship, some are lucky cause they have found Pinays who are willing to accept them, even these filipinas are looking for greener pastures only.
Well talking about the issue of Greener Pasture, it is indeed an issue that we must consider. 90% of Professional Filipinas are not interested in having a relationship for the sake of his mates possession. According to many professional Filipinas getting married to grumpy Americans just to become a US citizen and to become rich is a big insult to their profession and an embarrassment to their Filipina culture and womanhood.
If Grumpy Americans wants Pinay why the young ones?:
Americans are not blind even when they are old, though their sharp blue and gray eyes are getting weaker, still they are not blind. They can still identify whats beauty and hot. And I would say that is negative part of their manhood because even at their old stage they are still craving for it.
You will notice that in the Philippines most pinays married by old Americans are always trying hard to keep their looks sexy even they look scary of doing it. Americans preferred that way, most Americans like the outer side of a woman, they like them to look sexy, hot and horny. If these old Americans wanted to have companionship, they could find that perfectly from 30 year old single pinays, which i would say compatible to their age. But again their crave for sexual stuff matters also in choosing their mate. Furthermore it is easy to deceive a young Poor Pinays.
When these grumpy Americans were still young, Did they look for Pinays? If you visit Philippines its hard for you to see a young American (age 20 - 25) with a Pinay Girlfriend, If you could see one that girl looks like a Latina and with great body in other words, beautiful but not exotic!
That is simply to explain that Americans when they are young they after for what is hot in their eyes and they love to sex there and everywhere.
Because of these, there are many grumpy Americans fooled many young girls, promising them of marriage and U.S citizenship. There is nothing wrong of loving a young Pinay as long they swore for commitment and not for sexual desires, which affects the good relationship of America and the Philippines. I do believe that there are many good grumpy Americans out there and in the Philippines. They should respect pinays as what Filipinos are doing giving them 100% respect.
You notice that there are many rape cases committed by Americans in the Philippines, their desire is out from our culture and it affects the society. Some Pinays they look like whores because their grumpy husbands wanted them to look hot always.
Does Pinays were deceived?
It is just Poverty in the Philippines contributes a lot, why they marry grumpy Americans. Many un educated Pinays think that America is like heaven, that if you are there you are rich and live in big house and has a car, hahahahaha funny! In reality Pinays preferred pinoy, because nothing compares to pinoy's way of taking care their partners, but the problem is how can a pinoy take care his family if he is poor and no stable job?
Pinays were not totally Deceived, they were just doing a practical and smart way of saving their asses from poverty! That's how smart-dumb they are. They gave up their womanhood and love, for the sake of U.S Citizenship and a grumpy old man. Many Pinays are now hooking to the internet looking for Americans and they are willing to give-up everything just to lure an american to offer her marriage.
There are some Pinays also who are liking the American Culture and willing to marry a grumpy just to become a U.S. Citizen. Oh well, what ever their thinking, but in the eyes of most Americnas and Western countries we are different and be discriminated just like what they did to other nationalities.
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WOW! I was very impressed about your comment Paul. I greatly agree with your opinion regarding this matter. I am a filipina, 20 years old. I am a professional teacher and I'm getting married to a 51 year old american guy. I know we can not prevent other people from judging us because of marrying other person, who is totally different from our race and totally of high age gap. PLS guys don't judge us about our own preferences in life. I am marrying my fiancee not because of his money, nor the opportunity that awaits me. I simply marry him because he's my everything. He has shown me the ideal guy I'm looking for. I don't marry him to take advantage and to make him my financial provider-- infact, I am working. We are working together for our future.
Wow paul im also impressed about your comment....
Filipina are most sexiest and attractive girls on earth
wow paul... you thinked possitive. this the only i can say to everybody who judged person "dogs never bark if they know you".. guys i am 23 have 42 old canadian bf indeed i love him so much. not for money, sex or stuff hell they thinked but because he is a great person.love is not stuff or whatever but it is simply acceptanced that no one is perfect.. the reality is we found true love in older person. i know somebody will against in our both side if i am going to marry my bf but i m ready to take the risky things just to be with my love. guys everything u share was really good values. thank god i am not only one who truly in love to older man. plea everybody dont think negative thoughts toward an old and young pinay relationships.
After 6 years here and looking for that special one I will have to say it's a failure in finding. professional or other wise. Most all the relationships started great then the controlling whining comparing you to others who may be rich start. As far as loyalty I will say this and it's true and observed a number of times . If the cat away the mouse will play. About family I again disagree. Most hate the idea of supporting family and wish to get away from them. I decided to have a blog site soon and give actuals. Now I will base it on facts and at least 3 exposures to what I claim and with pic if possible. Are there success rate yes for sure but don't be fooled to think it's a high percentage in fact very low. This culture is strictly money motivated. The women will set a double standard real fast. Example they will txt but lord help you if you do. It's ok for them to go shopping alone but try it alone yourself some time and the attitude hits. Ok enuff of this. For all those who want to believe WOW fantastic. Go ahead but try and live here and it will be understood. I know this is far from what alot post here. But I also believe what I read before I came here and learned the hard way. That will be my intent to say the facts and no it will not be Filipino bashing. It will be on fact only and the culture and views of the Filipino society.
You are so wrong on the below statment.
You notice that there are many rape cases committed by Americans in the Philippines, their desire is out from our culture and it affects the society. Some Pinays they look like hoars because their grumpy husbands wanted them to look hot always. The correct spelling is Whores
I have to say do your home work. In 6 years I been here I only saw one accused rape case against a American and it was a setup. After about 4 years she got her money and free ticket with immigration status to America. I am sure most will know of the case I am talking about. If most want to know what is happening in a area and I do not approve of that place but I will give the guy credit for exposing alot and still alive. Check Harry the Horse on the net.
Back to rape. Middle eastern men, and other Asian Nationalities and a high percentage of Filipino men have the highest rape and abuse cases filed. Americans Australians UK and Canadians have the lowest incidents and more the any other nationalities in becoming involved in any unlawful act be it what-so-ever.
I am a latina (real one from latin america) married to an american man i met in Africa while doing volunteer work. My marriage nearly got broken by a filipina, Ayen Rose Encio, a student of 21 in university, posting herself on the filipina heart web, when I confronted her over the phone and threaten her she told me "Your husband loves you, it was only an exchange, he gives me money, I give him sex" I said you are a hooker and she got really offended because according to her, it was not wrong. I realized that a lot of fillipinas look for men on the net, hoping to land a guy, but in the mean time they will sleep with whoever to make money and go shopping, while all the time pretending to be "good sweet girl" I have known filipinas married with Australian, they curse them under their breath, but when the man turns is all smiles and affection. I am sorry for the many old man, who thinks he is getting a deal, with an 18 year old, I am sorry for her also, mostly because she will have to become a shadow of the narcissistic who she'll married, all I am saying men out there lock your doors and windows and be careful she doesn't slip you a sleeping pill so she can go and f....k someone her age, because lets get real what is going to happen in 10 years when she still beautiful and the men will have droopy balls mmmm.....If it is love, how come her family is asking for money, there is always a problem, someone dies every year, money, money, money if she loves you, how come is not for free?
Maybe at certain age, men don't know how to or want to please a woman and look for this teenagers that want to please.... for now...for how long? I wish you all old man, even when you don't want to admit it you, nothing makes you look older than a man walking next to a child, it is pathetic. The rich man can afford marring stunning well educated women, the rest find them online, pretty , cheaper sex with a smile and a curse under their breath.
Maybe this is a match made in heaven, they are both deceiving each other, they deserve each other, so who are we to judge? I for one know exactly what this creatures are capable of. So good luck, for your bargain.
I'm a 40 year old american man married to a 42 year old Pinay. We met 18 years ago and married shortly thereafter. She is from a well educated family. I also have a friend who is 36 years old. He met a 32 year old Pinay here in Korea who worked abroad to support her family (husband and 2 daughters) in the Philippines because the husband would not work. After working here for three years, she called home one day to find out that her husband had spent all of his money on a live in mistress and had told the two daughters not to tell mom. Imagine how she felt.. she was heartbroken. My friend, met her when she was at the bank, crying in a chair because all of her money was gone. My friend paid to her have married anulled and now he and the girl are married. He has since taken the girls from the ex husband who still has no job. Many americans like Pinays, old and young because Pinays listen to what we have to say... Same with Latinas..they listen to us. There are bad apples out there of all types..both men and women... nothing we can really do about that...
Whoever started this website is obviously a Filipino with money....who came from a wealthy family...because there are many poor folks there who have no way out and the rich folks keep the poor folks down... the government is extremely corrupt and young women are treated like dirt...
Say what you want..but how many girls who work in the bars of Angeles City have Filipino boyfriends? Most of them. The men are too @#$@# lazy to get a job..so they send their women to work for easy money. If the girlfriend gets to close to a customer...then the boyfriend either kills the girl or the foreigner or both. It's sad...true.. Was stationed in the Philippines for three years and saw it with my own eyes. I learned how to speak fluent tagalog and heard it and saw it. Take care of your women..properly and they will not keep looking for a way out....
After reading the comments above, it's easy to see that those who speak from experience, speak with clarity and truth from their standpoint. I have seen many of my older friends, white and black from the states and australia get hooked up with young Pinays who are looking for opportunity. Some are sweet and nice while others are just looking for opportunity. Being fluent in Tagalog, I have heard what the lolaperez is talking about. My friends will be sitting with their girlfriends and there are two conversations going on. One between the entire group and one between the girls. In english, the girls talk about what the men are talkin about. In tagalog, the girls talk about the young guy they will meet later that night for some good hardcore sex after their husband or boyfriend goes to sleep. I also agree with Tom's assessment. He is spot on. I too was stationed in the Philippines when the bases were there and saw the same thing. Funny how things change when you learn the culture and learn how to speak the language or languages as their are several dialects. I also speak three of the main dialects. I am 39 and have been married to a Pinay I met 17 years ago in a bookstore in Manila. Like me, she was an academic and we became friends through a mutual likeness for reading books on mathematics and science. We now have four children and are happy as can be. We both openely speak Tagalog, Visayan and English. To the comment about rape. I still remember very well when that happened. I also remember when the case was the dropped and the Marines were released because the girl (accuser) had moved to the states to marry an american. When she was contacted, she had changed her story and said that it was consent. I'm sure if she had been raped by an American, she would have had a different outlook on the Marine who "raped" her...hmmmm. I would tell all men out there who travel to the Philippines to learn the language. Most of the women there will be speaking Tagalog...so that will really help you. Don't tell them you understand..just listen and you will see that there are two worlds.. Does that mean they deceive... I'm sort of nuetral on this. They are looking for opportunity and a way out of poverty...who can blame them. When the older guys from other countries show up and are eager for any cute young Pinay...why not take advantage....the guys let it happen...and the girls have the best of both worlds...an old sugar daddy and a young lover....
Final point, one of my friends married a Pinay who is 33 years younger than he is. One night, we all went out for a few drinks. My friend got drunk and tired, so his wife took him home. Shortly after, she returned...dressed to kill. Eventually she became drunk and was dancing with some young men in the club...in a very sexually seductive way. My wife confronted her and told her to go home and told the guy to back off. My wife and I took the girl home and told her to forget about what happened and just sleep... she then told us she needed a big "cock" so she could sleep. She did go off to sleep and thanked us the next day. If she had slept with those young men..who knows what would have happened. She was new in the states and it was their first time out together... a train wreck waiting to happen.... oh well...so goes life... life is about choices and some don't make good ones...but we as humans have the ability to make choices...write or wrong...it's ours to make...
As stated earlier some men prefer exotic looking women. I'm half eskimo and get mistaken for eurasian all the time it's funny to me.
As far as the seemy side here are a few answers:
Some men prefer younger women thinking that they will be easier to control.
Some men prefer younger women thinking that they are more virginal and they therefore won't be compared to other men in bed (Hahaha where have they been living for the last 50 years?)
Some men think that having an extremely young wife will give them the illusion of virility (but all I see is a child molester).
Some men have the emotional maturity of a child and need someone thier own age mentally.
Some men think that marrying a person who is poorer than they will give them control (that kind of control ends when those women receive citizenship if she's smart).
If a man has to "buy" a wife there's a reason he can't find one at home.
Oh!wow i love this blog..but i dont care what they will say im 30 yrs old, professional and sincerely inlove with my 48 yrs.old American boyfriend..
Well ,sorry for those who are trying to ruin filipina image you are just jealous because you don't have american bf or husband..
you cannot judge anyone.. i am Filipino and i think its okay if Americans hook up with Filipinas (girl filipinos). i think in my opinion the one who wrote this blog is probably uneducated.. he doesn't even know know how to spell some words.
anyway, regarding the arrest of the American soldier who was filed for raping a filipina somewhere in Mindanao... i dont think that is fair.. he has his own family in the states too. and i think that girl just sucks...
anyway, i like it if there are many foreigners here in the Philippines. =)
Paul says:
11 months ago
Hello...
I read your blog and I have to say that I disagree greatly with your point of view on a lot of what you wrote. Firstly I take issue with your grouping of all "Americans" in with white men or "Grumpy" as you call them.
Granted most mixed marriages of Americans and Filipinas are between an older American and a younger Filipina but not all. And certainly not ALL Americans are grumpy.
I will agree that one of the primary reasons that an American male seeks out a foreign bride is because he has grown tired of the same-ol same-ol here in the states. On the other hand some may simply prefer Asian women over American women. By the same token Asian women prefer a change or something different than what they grew up with. I would even go as far as to say that it is not only the American male that find Filipinas exotic however Filipina women also find American men exotic. (not the same as what they are used to).
You made a comment regarding the fact that American men pick Filipinas that are sexy even though the men are old they still do this. My question to you is what’s wrong with that? You seem to deny one of the most basic elements of a relations ship... ATTRACTION. If a man prefers a fat woman then he will seek one out. If a man wants a woman with short hair then he will seek one out. If a Filipina wants a short bald guy with pale skin she will seek one out. If a Filipina wants a tall guy who dresses nice then again she will seek one out. So everyone has a preference even you.
You made comments about whether or not Pinay’s deceive. Well I think you have simply glossed over the facts of life here because the answer to that is absolutely, unequivocally YES they do. How do I know? because I am an intended victim of such deception. You seem to excuse the behavior of the Filipina based on the fact that they are poor and can’t support their families this is just wrong on so many levels. Being poor is not an excuse for deceiving and taking advantage of another person. Integrity in a person lives beyond ones circumstances. If you don’t have it then you simply don’t have it!
Let me digress here for a moment to give you some background on myself. I am 44 years old and my fiancé is 18. Judge if you will but you don’t know either of us so you may want to check yourself before you settle on impressions of age here.
I myself am not a "Grumpy". My beautiful fiancé is not deceitful. I have visited the Philippines 3 times in the past year and met well over 200 Filipinas. Most of them were being deceitful but there were about 10% who were genuine. So there were about 90% of the women that I met that only wanted to take advantage of me somehow. I won’t even get into all the women that tried to take advantage of me while I was there in the Philippines. Some succeeded because of my lack of knowledge with the language. So I paid more than I should have in some situations but I began to learn what was going on and soon I was able prevent from that happening again.
My Fiancé’s family are some of the most wonderful, loving, honest and happy families I have ever met. My fiancé’s mother is very blunt and straight forward. She tells me how she feels and she does not try to take advantage of me or my relationship with my Fiancé. They have treated me like one of the family from our first meet.
Don’t get it wrong however, you may think that they treat me so well because of money or support. Well wrong there because I am not a rich guy. I don’t support my fiancé’s family. They treat me kind because they are good people.
Also I treat them with respect and honor their relationship with my fiancé who is very loving and truthful. She is mature for her age and she is a very impressive person. After meeting and sifting through over 200 women I found my fiancé and let me tell you she is truly one out of hundreds and in my eyes she could never be replaced when comparing her to all the other women I met.
I don’t look my age, in fact I appear to be 25 years old. So that will blow your stereotype of a "Grumpy" right out of the water. I am not white either. I am half black and half Puerto Rican. My fiancé and I are attracted to each other because we both fit the mold of what the other is looking for. She is not trying to use me nor am I trying to use her. She has her own mind and speaks it when she feels the need to. She is not easily manipulated as most young women are. And I am not trying to manipulate her.
I observe from your writing that you are a Filipina woman who may have had a bad relationship with a foreigner or at least you are not happy with the way there is attraction between foreigners and Filipinas. Allow me to give you some advise. Stop being so judgmental. After reading your blog anyone can see that you clearly don’t have all the facts and you don’t know all the sides of the story. You may better serve your readers if you state that you are speaking from your own personal view rather than try to come across as if you are speaking actual fact.
Thank you for taking the time to read my response.