We all know that life is worth more when we find real love.  So why would a man commit adultery though there is disdain for the other woman involved in the triangle of a relationship.  If the rambler is attracted to someone other than the woman he vowed to stay together forever with, why would he stop that chemistry from traveling from  to women to women.  Obviously, the woman married to him may truely be in love and unknowing of his pursuits, while he playfully trot from bedroom to bedroom.Wnen  the other woman is just with the married man for thrills, then he just rides his roller coaster to a variety of different theme parks.  The adultery ball of the man committed adultery just keeps on rolling. 

In the case of Hilary Clinton,  the blue dress was quite scandalous when her husband, Bill decided to have a little fun. She did not try to understand why he commited the act.  She was too much of a woman of purpose to her country to let that incident dampen her resolve to run for public office.  But how many Hilary Clintons do you find outside of the Oval Office? 

The only thing that can stop a man that is on a joy ride to have fun at his wife's cost is for him to make the decision to rededicaate himself to the institution of marriage.  The word institution of marriage sounds archaic when a host of couples are living together without the benefit of marriage but even that relationship is termed as "common law" marriage.  That means that the bonded relationship is recognizable in a court room.

Why does men commit adultery?  For the most part, some women actually seek out married men because they get to experience the better side of a relationship without being saddled together.  Also, just like grandparents babysitting grandchildren, she do not have to keep him around for 24/7.  Rarely would a man say no to an invitation that comes without any strings if he is the type that has the propensity to stray.  All married men do not fall into this category. 

It was in the news today that Bill Cosby has been married for 45 years.  Imagine a couple in show business with that duration of time in a marriage with one partner.  Although Bill Cosby has a stellar reputation for loving children and family life (The Cosby Show) he was in the news not too long ago about seeking greener pastures.  Camille, Bill Cosby's wife must have made light of the accusations because there she was in the Parade Magazine, smiling happily still holding on to a husband for 45 years. 

But what is the allegiance without an engagement ring or a marriage license?  A woman's body is sacred and should not be used for extra marital affairs in any sense of the word. Tracy Ross on a former television show "GirlFriends" said that she would not even kiss a date until the third encounter.  Imagine a wife and mother who has stood the test of time in a relationship and then to find out that her husband committed adultery.  Unless she has the strength of Hilary Clinton or the contentment of Camille Cosby, major damage could have been done to the relationship. 

The reason men commit adultery is just as privvy as why some of them drive Ford trucks and some drive Volkswagens.  Only the man who has committed this offense in a marriage can answer for themselves if need be. And like the the collie mix pictued in a television commercial, he is not going to do any talking. It is the hope of most women that they do not find out about the adultery or that the man is skillful enough to keep his escapades out of the family unless he is looking to be paying alimony and child support payments.Women are stronger today and most have their own means of caring for themselves with or without children.  If you find that you partner has commited adultery, seek professional counselor and follow the advice of the professional.