Stop! Rihanna is not the blame, for Chris Brown's behavior !!!
68Will the truth be told on, Febuary 16th?
Chris Browns Father, says that it's two sides to every story!
It's been a hard task, trying to figure out what really happen between Chris and Rihanna. But one thing is very clear, that no man has the right to hit a woman. And if Chris Brown did physically abuse Rihanna you can believe its not the first time, which there are sources that have admitted its not.
But I am very upset that women are saying that its Rihanna fault, as if Chris Brown had the right to abuse Rihanna, which goes to show that the women who are blaming Rihanna are a product of abuse themselves, because they are quickly excusing this man for what he has done to Rihanna.
The Media has documented that Chris Brown admitted to the media that his Step Father(Donnell Hawkin) had abused his Mother. But Hawkins responded by saying that the allegations were false! Although Chris admitted that Hawkins did abuse his mother, Its still not an excuse for Chris Browns actions.
But it does show that our children's future actions, are based on the parents reaction to an abusive situation, and it is crucial that the abused parent remove themselves from the abusive situation, for the benefit of the child if not for themselves. Because if our children are to witness a parent abusing the other, it will often be passed on to the child, who will consider abuse as a way of life.
I often wonder when will parents understand that children, soak up our positive and negative actions, like a sponge. Parents, we are the first teacher of whom our children will adhere. But when we submit our children to abuse, our children are subject to a life time of hardship, and mixed emotions.
Remember ladies and gentlemen, its time for us to stop making excuses for your abusers!! There are abusive men and women in the world.
Both men and women must end their denial, that their mates know what buttons to push them to the point of abuse because, you are responsible for your abusive actions. Whether it be mental or physical, try to remember that you are embedding a footprint into the mind of your, son's and daughters, who will follow in your footsteps as if its a game twister!!
Chris Brown has not only been suspended from wrigles, but a number of radio station have banned his music, which has upset many fans. But if you are a fan you can always go out and buy the CD. Please understand that these are serious allegations, and Chris Brown should have thought of fans and his career first! A fan can only do so much after a artist has caused his own demise.
Chris Brown father Clinton Brown stated in an interview that Chris is home, and he is very remorseful. If he didn't do it, why is he remorseful? Clinton Brown also said that Chris first concerns are about the situation, and his second concerns are to make sure that Rihanna is alright.Wow!!! Why would Chris Brown be worried about if Rihanna is alright? Chris had to do something to have concerns!!!!! Wouldn't you think?!
As a parent, Clinton Brown feels that the altercation is very unfortunate for Chris.and he hopes that his son will get through it all. Clinton Brown also said that all people trip from time to time. But Mr. Brown although this is true, yeah we all do trip and fall sometimes, but we don't hit people doing the process
Chris Browns Father only spoke on behalf of his son, which is understandable but, he should have said something in-reference to the fact of maybe his son needed help. But Clinton Browns was concerned more about his sons short comings,and how unforgiving the music industry is. Which shows that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree!
Never once did Chris Browns father say, that he he had remorse for Rihanna, or her family. Clinton Brown also states that he is proud of his son for his accomplishements although the altercation has taken place, which again is understandable of a parent. But we must sometimes we need to show dissapointment in our children when they have done wrong.
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I agree!
Chris brown had the right 2 hit her she be haten and she should nt had hit hm while he was driving
chris brown suck and is a bad roll model
for the people who like which i do not see why people like him in the
frist place!!!
Rhianna and Chris brown ya were a PERFECT couple and i liked seeing yall smile together. Ever sense Chris brown got that text message i got a little mad!!!!!!!!!! but ya ll were a perfect couple I really hope that ya ll would get back together:(:(:(
I am so sad now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i hate chris brown now
It doesn't matter what Rihanna did, whether she got upset and slapped Chris or what, thats how girls behave. Doesn't mean that she deserves to get her faced pounded. All those people that are saying that Rihanna is to blame are so insensitive. Chris is wrong for doing what he did. Lets see him do that to someone of his own gender.
We all can't say if Chris Brown was right or wrong or if Rihanna was right ow wrong because we wasn't there to see the story are selves. This was a shock to everybody because everyone thought Chris Brown was the sweet teenager and he had a great career.We all thought that Rihannah had it good but we see she may have not.If it is true what Chris Brown did it's ashame but u can't just think of it as Chris Brown fault because as I hear it Rihannah smacked him and thats how it started the big incident.That would get any man heated and want to hit back but if he did hit her he was wrong it was many ways that they could have solved that situation. Rihannah should have not smacked him she could have talked to him or talk to him at the right time. Chris Brown is human and he's no different then no other man if u hit them they will hit you back but all man aren't the same Chris Brown should have walked away or just grabbed and talked it over.They are too young to be risking losng there career over something so stupid they are too young.Fighting or hitting shoulden't even be no where near there minds.This is stupid and if anyone want to talk this up with me hit me up at Tajia_Johnson@yahoo.com or Taytayma06@yahoo.com .Thank you.
fuk rihanna puro chris brow
If this story is true, it just goes to show that the picture that the media paint of celebrities extravagant and perfect lifestyle doesn't exist. Even the strongest women can be subeject to violence, and no woman (or man) deserves to be treated like this.
I dont think anyone should hit anyone.. If she slapped him (she's an abuser) If he slapped(hit..wtv) her (he's an abuser) their both in the wrong. If she did give him herpes, as rumor goes - and it's not just a ploy to salvage chris brown's sinking career over his hot temper, then he should use some common sense and evaluate what he's pokin at, huh.
btw .. he ugly anyway.. n rhianna looks like a dude w/ that hair. i guess he won't be standing underneath her umbrella for some time.
physical abuse is never the answer-those who resort to it are usually past victims, ardent witnesses, or not deft at controlling their anger. i dug CB's squeaky clean personna - it was nice to see in his field. i hope he gets the counseling he obviously needs. Rihanna is 2 years older than he, and while she may be in love , she needs to love herself justa tad more. i wish them both a better path.
grrrrrrr! ang pangit nman ni cris brown,hwag sya magtyaga dyan......thers a lot of guys in the in the whole world..........just forget cris......
chacho. rhianna aint nuttn but a hater. she shuda never been hittin him if she wasz n e waysz. screw her. chris brown is a great role model nd artist. so wat ever to all u haters out there. rhianna aint no victim.she could go to hell wit that BS. shoot. everyone makes mistakes, so give chris another chance dammit. i know all of you out there fuck up all the time, and aint no body on your azz telling you your career isz over. so get over it and shut da hell up. chris brown has made it this far... y shut him down for one stupid mistake??!
yea i knw chris was wrng but wat they are doin to him is not fair they aint do bobby and whintey or ike and tina like this there personaly life is their life and he does have a life how else wuld he pursit his dreams......now days all women are getn hit you dont see the press acting like this with us its because they famous everybodi shuld get the same respect i still like both of there music this aint make me change the way i feel for they music............
no one is doing anything to CB. he's a grown guy- he's done this to himself. excusing his behavior, or lessening the seriousness of it just enables others to do the same- to think it's okay. CB is not above reproach. his career will only be over to those who no longer support him - look at R. Kelly- still has millions of fans. it's all subjective. america has a short memory. the only person who has to deal with CB, aside from himself, will be Rihanna. she, i hope, knows she does not need to be involved with a man who puts her in a hospital. women have been getting "hit" and hurt forever, as have men and children. it doesn't make it right. whatever happens to CB - he has to deal, and maybe he will learn something. maybe not.
Great hub on a sad story. Chris was raised in a abusive home and he even admited to peeing the bed late in life from this. Hopefully this will be a wake up to his behavior and put a stop to it now. It does not matter at all what Rhianna had done hitting and more oddly biting her is not the answer. Just walk away! You are young and rich, move on.
I CAN'T BELIVE CHRIS BROWN DID DAT..I HATE GUY'S DAT HEAT GURLS NOW I HATE HIM 2..I CAN'T BELIVE HE DID DAT... :(
Whats up ladies??? Dont you think that Chris Brown could have walked away? If Rihanna started it all where is his bruises???? Its called control!!!
No excuses for Chris Brown and his actions!!! Stop blamming Rihanna
why i dont like chris i hope rihanna ok chris you should should have left it alone and she should of told you that nasty.....
So basically a woman can do any and everything to a man and the man has to either sit there and take it or walk away? The man cannot under any circumstances defend himself. If he does take the undesired step of defending himself then it must be in a manner that doesn't physically harm the person who is attempting to physically harm him. I get it now. Sorry about that. That was a memo that I must have missed.
So basically a woman can do any and everything to a man and the man has to either sit there and take it or walk away? The man cannot under any circumstances defend himself. If he does take the undesired step of defending himself then it must be in a manner that doesn't physically harm the person who is attempting to physically harm him. I get it now. Sorry about that. That was a memo that I must have missed.
I THINK HE GONNA BEATING HER AGAIN CUZ IDK Y BUT SHE LIKE BITCH THAT I AM GONNA KNOE=W IF HER GO TO RIGHT TO BEAT AT HER. WAY 2GO CB
I THINK HE GONNA BEATING HER AGAIN CUZ IDK Y BUT SHE LIKE BITCH THAT I AM GONNA KNOE=W IF HER GO TO RIGHT TO BEAT AT HER. WAY 2GO CB
I THINK HE GONNA BEATING HER AGAIN CUZ IDK Y BUT SHE LIKE BITCH THAT I AM GONNA KNOE=W IF HER GO TO RIGHT TO BEAT AT HER. WAY 2GO CB
Well, this is a tough one,
Did he hit her open handed or closed fist? Did she really go thru his phone ? If she did thats a BIG NO-NO, whos the one that started the punching?
WTF !! are all these movie and rap stars serious, defending CB?? he didnt hit her, HE BEAT HER AS, then they defend her, come on , or is it a thing black people do in the hood like jamy fox said when he was defending vick? get real, whoever defends this pos , needs to get his mom, wife or daghter beaten (closed fist) .......
No man or nobody even if you like him has the right to hit you phyicaly or emotionaly no matter how much you love him love should not be controlled in that matter. Rihanna is so stupid to let a gut to hit her if that was me i would dup him on the first attemp that he tried those guys have mental prolbems IT SUCK FOR THEM NOT US WHY SHOULD WE SUFFER IF THEY HAVE THE PROLBEM RIGHT GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If he did hit Rihanna he needs to make amends, but I feel this is between them, and not between them and the paparazzi. The media should allow Chris Brown and Rihanna to live their lives without all this attention.
hehe.. chris u may look younger than me, but u aint gentleman
Year of the Gentlemen <---- my year -_-
LondonGirl says:
11 months ago
I don't know who either is - but domestic violence is a very serious problem, and the victim shouldn't be blamed.