Well firstly this is an answer to a request. The other point is I have not read anyone elses hubs on this subject so this is entirely my own work! Well firstly men are way different to us women. I don't think they actually spent to much time worrying about the consequences of their actions or else maybe they have to much time to think about their actions. Perhaps once again they are ruled not by the heart and do not have the same reaction to things that we have. We normally are the more causes of the male and female species. We have our children to consider and most of us maybe being mom's this does become a factor that counts. We also don't get the same amount of opportunity as men do as we are not as free to come and go and are far busier then men are. I am told that most men spent most of their day thinking about sex whereas us women that probably is the last thing we are thinking about. We are more consumed with daily living and work then most other things. When women get together we chat about most things in life, however very rarely is the subject sex. But add a couple of drink into the equation and then and only then will we revert to sex talk. However I don't feel that for most men that the subject of sex is nearly always one of their top topics. Sport is the main one.

However sometime one does not even set out to cheat it just happens. Ok you may say no it cannot however I know it can. It sometime just take a look or a work at a time when one is down and in need of a little TLC to start a little spark of interest. What one does with that interest once again is your choice. Sometime it takes a fight between a couple to spark it or some guy "say" they are staying with their wives for the sake of the children. I must admit always tell them they are not doing anyone any favours. Kids know what is going on. Maybe they have an over high sex drive that cannot be satisfied by their partner. Sometime you find men work away from home for long period and if things are not rosy at home they are going to take any chance they can get. You will find and maybe I should be shot here.... that most guys if you hand it to them on a platter they are going to take it. I am told that men are hunters and they also get bored with their partners. Sometime its adventure they are looking for. Some feel that they cannot ask their partners about their fantasies ect. Some do it because they drink to much and then they loose perspective on life and some I think 'just don't think"

I feel that if you did a survey and actually asked men why they do it you will get a different answer from each and every one of them. Some will answer that it was the biggest mistake of their lives because they did not stop to appriate what they actually had and now have lost it. There is no accounting for men I am afraid. Cannot live without them and can't live with them.

As we all know that with everything in life there are no guarantee's