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Why do some single women actively seek married men?

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By bevy400


Why do single women actively seek out married men?There are so many reasons for this and i guess each singleton has there own reason.For me the main one that comes to mind is the fact that it is safe.This means that the single lady can remain so but have a bit of security along the way(and a bit of saucy fun lol).

Married men are only looking for extra marital sport not a long term commitment.Often these chaps are willing to be extra generous in their pursuit of a bit of slap and tickle.Personally i have always thought that being a mistress can be more rewarding than being a wife.Why? Simple,you get all the fun and treats with out having to do his dirty laundry and cook his tea. Admit it ladies,you would much rather peel of their clothes than pick them up off the floor to load the washer.I mean,dirty socks,yuck,not very sexy is it.

In this ever increasing modern society women are becoming more independant.Financially they are moulding good careers for them selves and have better social lives.Single men can become rather cave manish,objecting to their girlfriends activities and demanding they spend more time doing couply things.Yes this can be very romantic if it is what both parties want.If it isn't it can be draining and possesive.

Married men are not in a position to lay down the law after all they have a wife at home .Single ladies are very much in control of the relationship they have enrolled in to and this adds to their already strong independant streak.The benefits of being a mistress comes in many forms ranging from the finacial aspect to the controling side.

Also wives do tend to get rather over shadowed by the children and other house hold responsabilities.A mistress is like a goddess of love to be worshipped and spoilt rotten.This in mind,isn't it obvious why most single women choose married men over single ones.I am nearly tempted my self (don't tell my boyfriend though lol).

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Triplet Mom  says:
11 months ago

bevy400 - Thank you for answering my request. Interesting perspective you have on the situation. I have often wondered why this is the case and I think you are right it varies depending on the person.

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LondonGirl  says:
11 months ago

".Personally i have always thought that being a mistress can be more rewarding than being a wife.Why? Simple,you get all the fun and treats with out having to do his dirty laundry and cook his tea. Admit it ladies,you would much rather peel of their clothes than pick them up off the floor to load the washer.I mean,dirty socks,yuck,not very sexy is it."

That assumes the kind of long-term relationship I wouldn't be in anyway!

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bevy400  says:
11 months ago

not all men are too lazy to do their own washing i guess as my guy would happily do his own but for some ladies any house work for a guy is boring so afffairs are easier for them to cope with lol.

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sixtyorso  says:
11 months ago

Interesting take. where Do I sign up? PS dont let my wife see this hub! (LOL)

I am curious I would be interested in this topic from the maried men's point of view when his wife has an affair a la Shirley Valentine!

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bevy400  says:
11 months ago

I will tell you later lol and i wont inform the missus. my boyfriends wife had an affair hence them divorcing...i will chat to him and perphaps tackle this subject so watch my space.xxxx

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