On one of what I consider to be the best adult meeting sites in just one day I had three guys be extremely crude and rude all because they did not read.  As many of you may know on adult meeting sites you create a profile.  Now this site is not a pay to be here, dating site where everyone on it is supposed to be serious about meeting that special someone.  No, this is a free place for dating, making friends only, networking your business and trying to find a serious relationship.  It is all up to you and actually I am 95% pleased but these three, this day, were worth discussing talking about.  They are very different but did the same thing.  Did not read my profile prior to making contact with me. 

My profile tells a lot of what I do, all my http://'s and what can be found at them are listed. It clearly states I am here for friends and networking.  It is also very clear that my pics are a part of my advertising.  I use them to show some of what can be expected on my goods that I produce with said images and others.  I tell of my wide array, from calendars to mouse pads and much more.  It states I am a writer and even has the hub http:// on there.  What I am saying is if you read there is no mistaking my intentions or desires on the site.

Well, first one up is a message of 'would I like to hook up?'  Immediately, sarcasm hits me and I respond to what???  He comes back with 'Me!!'  So, I in turn say, "You are married, I do not go there. NOOOOOOO!!!!!"  Just like that.  Would you believe he responds to me again?  with something about being able to come out to play.  Mine is, "Not with me, BYE!"  He tries again saying something about what he could do with me or some sort.  I decide enough and block him and delete messages.

Another is a young man who says he does not want a calendar that I produce and sell, mine are sultry and sexy but not obscene, he wants to take his own pictures.  I explain I do not allow that and that my photos are for my professional use and making specific points in my endeavors about BBW's.  This young man writes me a very rude e of my being to serious and stuck up for him and he says, "Bye."  So, yet another block goes up and I am scratching my head wondering what in the world is going on.

When I get another e somewhere down the line that says he does not wish to offend me but...and goes on to explain what he would like to do with me and his anatomy.  I write back telling him how rude and crude he is and that if he did think it would offend he should not have written it.  This man writes again and several more times about not wanting to offend me and how he wants to be honest but he has recently come out of this bad marriage and is not willing to have a relationship as is what I want but that he wants to be up front and honest.  At this point I have had enough of ignorant men, not all of you are like this thank goodness, but this day was my day for foolish men.  I unleash all on him.  I tell him about my profile and how obviously he did not read it and obviously he was not even paying the least attention nor was he the only or first to go through a bad marriage or relationship and on and on.  I laid it out for him and all the ones prior to him.  This man wrote me all kinds of apologies and how he had now read and saw and understood and blah blah blah and if I ever wanted to go out etc.  All of which, you got it I deleted and then blocked him.

What is my my point?  To the men and yes, the woman too, on any of these sites, READ!!!  It will avoid a lot of unnecesaary confrontation and confusion.  Men bare their chests, arms, thighs and more an it is acceptable but if a lady has on sexy lingerie or pretty and/or again sexy, not whorish (what is that?), but sexy and nicely fitting, forget about reading she is trying to lure you in for some fun.  NO!!!!!  Not always.  So when you join any of these sites read the profiles.  Many not all but many put a lot of time, thought and effort into them and are trying to convey some specific thoughts about themselves, take the time to read their work.  Your experience on the site will be much more rewarding.