Why some men prefer Older Woman?
81Older Woman Younger Man Relationships
Older woman with younger man romance or marriage is not a matter of awe anymore. Many men have found love, harmony and happiness with older women. Nowadays age is no more a criteria when it comes to matters of the heart. Earlier that was not the case and the woman involved in such a relationship was considered a ‘cradle snatcher’. Actually what makes guys attracted to older woman? The below mentioned may be some reasons or benefits of having a older woman as partner.
- Maturity and Confidence: The older women bring a sense of maturity and confidence into the relationships. Older Woman has more experience with men and is more stable compared with younger women and men feel more comfortable with them. Young women tend to be more fickle minded compared to mature women. Mature women know what they want and are much responsible in handling relationship. Older women by default bring more life experiences into the relationship and therefore nurture the growth of their partner without trying to be in command of the relationship.
- Older women are taboo: This factor makes young men attracted to them. Our Society is used to see older men and younger woman more than the other way round and thereby offer more acceptance to such relationships. The normal tendency of people is that they want what they cannot have or what is a ‘forbidden fruit’.
- Lesser Competition: Young women may have several men chasing after them. Older women offer an alternative. Also to an older woman a young man feels more attractive and boost to her ego that she tends to shower her attraction on him. Also there are many liberated and attractive older women known colloquially as ‘cougars’ hunting for younger guys in places like the internet or bars looking for some fun life of a single and are easily available.
- Taking Charge: Young men do not have much experience with women and may not know what to expect with women. And it helps to have ‘take charge’ kind of women as a partner who has already been in the same situation earlier. Many people also agree to the fact that sex gets better with age and getting an experienced partner is considered a plus because older women know what they want and they have experience towards pleasing a man. Older Woman also mostly takes care of the fact that they don’t get pregnant by using contraceptive pills to protect them.
- Intelligent and Confident: People gain more confidence as they grow older. Many young men find older woman attractive as tend to be less superficial. A conversation with an older woman can be interesting and intellectual whereas majority of younger woman tend to be silly, immature and sometimes shallow.
- Independence: Majority of Older women is financially independent and has successful careers. Men like it when his partner is self-sufficient and self-supportive and don’t need him to take care of her.
- The need for Mothering: It is said that all males have a child in them. An Older woman can easily fulfill that need in them.
- Attraction and Love: While some may find it odd that some young man surrounded by girls his age would find an older woman attractive. This is because they many older women are attractive and may even find romance or love in them. How many men can resist 40+ women like Uma Thurman or Mimi Rogers or the Indian actress Maduri Dixit?
I may have left out something. Please feel free to add more through comments.
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You're very correct about point number 1, 2, 3!!!! I also like this kind of relationships. Great hub dear.
Totally agree wit you, great hub!
Well one up for the older woman, who according to this comforts the inner child of the man..... hard for a younger woman to do as she expects more from her man, and takes from him, especially when children I young. I think....
Nice tips. I quite agree with you. However, most men that are married to older women do so mainly if the woman is financially empowered.
YOU CYNIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You might want to check out Ben Franklin's essay (1745), "Advice to a young man on the choice of a Mistress." It makes for interesting reading ... BTW he gives 8 reasons for choosing an older woman.
you are right I agree with the point that there is one child inside every man and the older woman can easily fulfill his need, you forgot to mention one famous celebrity NBA star Tony Parker and Desparate Housewife star Eva Longoria.
well are these the reason too why most younger men like me? lols maybe there are still some other reason that only the guy can tell.
Totally agree.
I guess experience, maturity is what they are looking for :)
So many celebrity couples! If i am right the age difference between Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore is 15 years and they seem to be so much in love. Our own Indian Beauty Aishwarya Rai is older than the Junior B. Nice Article!
Perter Dickinson,shamelabboush, Princessa, Brenda scully, John Chancellor, beautyrose and sherly_hello for your comments.
Philipo : Yes, you are right. Most younger men look for relationships without responsibility.
Kunika : This Hub is the answer to your request. As you can see i have added pictures of several older woman - younger men couples including the couple you have mentioned.
Saurabh : You are right about Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore. Yes, Aishwarya is the older one. Thanks for the nice comments.
it is quite interesting the points you have made but personally i beg to differ and if you must know why then you are invited to visit my hubpage and read my hub titled Position--it is an eye opening. that fact that there a million nice or seemingly nice people doing it doesnt make right; and here it's about right or wrong and not who or how many people is doing it.
Thanks for the Opinion A mc.
Thanks for the ideas as I have had two much younger men in long term relationships and am looking at my third instead of resisting as we have been friends 13 years. I like the idea that older women are taboo! I thought almost all men hated wrinkles-- do you have examples of couples other than movie stars who can afford to have a lot of plastic surgery etc.
Age difference should not be criteria to those who mutually respect and enjoy each other’s company. Thanks for your comment spiritdancerocean. Yes, I have seen several normal women who never had any plastic surgery involved in such relationships too.
You must be right Anamika - my husband's a year younger than I am :D
That applies to me too. Thanks for the comment Shalini.
Right on target! My own sweet man of three years is fourteen years my junior and I couldn't ask for a better mate!
BJC : I am happy to know that you are happy. All the Best for a happy life.
Thanks. Interesting article.
Hi:
On another note which I didn't mention, I don't believe that a 1 or 2 year difference counts. Let's make it 6 or more years difference. 1 to 5 year difference isn't that great.
Older women enjoy knowing they can still interest a younger man. I think younger men like the fact older women can accept things for what they are. I've also seen some older women behave very immaturely, much like a teenager.
A mc: Its not about "right" or "wrong", unless someone's a minor or married,etc... Its simply about two ADULTS engaging in a relationship, rather sexual or long-term/serious.
Love does not see age as a hindrance.If you're truly in love you'll be blind to see the age difference.
My wife is older than me.
Great Hub, I'm often dating younger men, and haven't thought much into it before. I thought they just found me nice, and attractive and so the age just didn't matter.
True in every word, but most importantly I want to believe that men get involved with older women because of love.
I AM 20 YEARS OLDER THAN MY BOYFRIEND BUT IT SEEMS AS IF THERE IS NO AGE DIFFERNCE. WE GET ALONG SWIMMINGLY. HE IS DROPDEAD GORGOUS AND I AM A WOMAN THAT TOOK CARE OF MYSELF I ALWAY LOOK BEAUITFUL. I HAVE A BETTER FIGURE THAM MOST GIRLS IN THEIR 20S. I KEEP UP TO STYLE AND I LIKE THE SAME TYPE OF MUSIC MY CHILDREN LIKE. I HAD BEEN MARRIED BEFORE TO A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER THAN ME, AND I ALWAYS FELT LIKE I WAS HIS DAUGHTER, PEOPLE WOULD ASK IF I WAS HIS DAUGHTER. IALWAYS LOOKED YOUNGER THAN ALL OF MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS BUT I AM THE OLDEST. I AM SUCCESSFUL I OWN SEVERAL HOMES AND DRIVE BEAUTIFUL CARS. MY MAN DO NOT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING IF HE DOES NOT WANT TO. MY MAN KNOW THAT I WILL BE BY HIS SIDE THROUGH THICK AND THINK. HE HAD BEEN IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH MANY MANY YOUNG WOMAN BUT THEY TOOK HIM FOR GRANTED AND DISRESPECTED HIM. MANY OF THEM ARE IMATURE AND ARE GOLDDIGGERS, THEY DON'T CARE HOW HE GETS THE MONEY JUST AS LONG AS HE GETS IT. THEY ARE SELFISH AND SELF CENTERED. I TREAT MY MAN LIKE A KING, AND DO WHATEVER I HAVE TO TO MAKE HIM HAPPY. I NEVER THROW UP IN HIS FACE THAT HE HAS MADE A MISTAKE OR TALK ABOUT WHAT I DO FOR HIM. WHAT IS MINES IS HIS. THIS IS SOME OF THE REASONS WHY YOUNGER MEN ARE FLOCKING TO OLDER WOMEN.
Im 35, and my lady is 40. I have never felt love like I have now. I am very pleased in all areas. And I dont want to cheat on her. It is the best relationship I have ever been in. SO it works for me.
As women get older,they gain more experience and confidence in themselves. They feel more attractive and are able to find understanding with younger man and have fun with them. It is always a pleasure to read your interesting hubs. Thanks.
Your hub is very accurate in most respects. However, I believe that for the most part, younger men are not interested in marrying older women. For young men, older women offer more maturity, experience, and are often more open sexually. The most important thing that you left out is that older women are either not interested in marriage or are no longer in a rush to get married. For young men, this is one of the most important draws.
I also forgot to mention that the media and pop culture have a huge influence the prevalence of this phenomenon. Due to all the high profile older woman/younger man relationships, (J.Timberlake/Janet Jackson and Ashton/Demi) culturally, this has become more acceptable. I actually just wrote a hub about how pop culture and the media influence our perceptions: http://hubpages.com/_2vwejfq5t73dt/hub/Hot-to-Trot
You guys should check it out and let me know what you think.
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Age has never been an issue with me. It is all about the attraction. Thank you for the hub.