Men are like the lost treasure when it comes to matters of the heart.  Women love men and it is should with their proclivity to let him make the important decisions about the relationship and how he has the final word in most of the financial decisions.  Dealing with financial decisions is different from dueling with other women over your man.  In the old days men would duel for the woman of their choice and the winner would win the woman’s fancy.  Now with the televised segments of the Jerry Springer show, women will go at it in chick fights over the love of one man.  Most women do not identify with the women on the show but if a wife find a phone number on her husband’s person, more often than not, she will confront the new woman instead of speaking about the incident to her husband.

Why do women in a relationship think that they should confront and fight with a woman over her man liking the company of another.  What is the other woman bringing to the table that the wife or woman in the relationship think that she needs to be confronted.  Surely the constant factor in both relationship is the man involved.  Why not  confront the person who she knows and have some idea of why he is seeing another woman.  The other woman is not the culprit here, the culprit is the man who invited the other woman to share his time and affection.

But that is the first reaction to a wife finding a telephone number that she is not familiar with in the pockets of her husband’s trousers.  The wife will call that number and ask the woman on the other side of the line, why is she seeing her husband.  The logical thing to do is to not call the other woman but to confront her husband and ask for an explanation.  More often than not the response is likely to be untrue because he feels that he has the right to defend himself.  But because of the confrontation, he still may continue to see the other woman but this time on the downlow.  Just because the wife is aware that her husband is seeing another woman does not mean that now he will stay home and only show his affections towards you.  Realistically, it is up to you to get to the bottom of why is your man cheating with the help of an intermediary who may be able to get the truth out of him.

The man in the relationship will not be disturbed by the ruckus of the confrontation because what ever he has in place most likely will remain in place.  Your calling the other woman will not dissolve her to stop seeing your man either.  It will be up to him to break off the relationship and he is not going to get rid of someone who he finds pleasurable to be with.  He may make a mental note to be careful and clear his pockets so that he does not have to hear from you about the incidence.

The relationship has gone wrong unless you accept the other woman and there was an agreement at the beginning of the relationship that the two of you could swing out there with other people.  When a relationship goes wrong and the man chooses to select a replacement for you while the two of you are still together, then it is not much you can do by calling and having a cat fight over the telephone with the other woman.  Women if you find that your man is having an affair with another woman, do not confront the other woman.  More likely, he approached her and she just happened to be there with that which he was interested in.  Instead confront your husband with your detective work and request that he accompany you to see the marriage counselor.