May I first start by talking to men for a second, that is no reason for you ladies to leave but here is the thing. Women have always craved for compliments, actually they live for it. Think of this, why else should they be dressing up for hours, buy all the sexy clothing? And please ladies do not give me that old “I want to look good” crap. You can actually see their faces light up when you make them laugh or when they are really having fun. But, how many times have you seen that special girl smile at you and kiss you like there's no tomorrow when you tell her she's the most incredible person in the universe and that she's so beautiful you just can't stop loving her? Most of the time, NEVER! And that is why the big question here is COMPLIMENT OR NOT COMPLIMENT?

Idea #1

Let us address some issues here first:-

• The fact that women love compliments
• The notion that women spent a lot of time, money and energy just dressing up because they want compliments.
• The difference between complimenting just ANY girl and a SPECIAL girl.

There are a couple of things that you should keep in mind as you read this article:-

1. Human (both men and women) do not KNOW what we really WANT.

2. We do not like to admit what we are actually feeling inside of us since we think it might be irrational or even illogical.

3. It’s paramount to know that there is a “special” girl for you and a “girl you just met” or dated a few times.

That being said, I think on individual basis women LOVE to be complimented. I actually believe that the most ATTRACTIVE women FEED of these compliments and the more they get it, the more powerful and energetic they actually get. It’s an ego booster!

BUT….and a big one for that matter. It does not mean that women will feel attracted to a man if he gives her compliments.

Here’s my theory, attractive women get a lot of compliments in very many forms that they actually expects them. As a matter of fact if you start talking to an attractive woman and saying something like “Wow, you are really beautiful, I mean like a Goddess” most likely you will get a cold shoulder.

Why?

Because she got what she needed from you and you just proved to her that you are just like any other worshipper of her beauty.

As a rule; every man should stand out of the crowd for his special girl, away from the normal average dudes. The whole lot at all COST.

Complimenting a woman is a very good way to start a conversation but making it part of the real conversation is not going to work since you are just saying how you are intimidated and how powerful she is.

Idea #2

This is stunning, and most women will agree that, they do not actually dress up for men, but for each other.

If you pay little attention in public places, and watch how especially attractive women interact with each other you will be amazed. If you can put them in a group may be in a club or a bar, something interesting will start to happen. They will start acting up all “catty”, looking at each other from head to toe, making fun of each others dressing and looks and the best one, trying to intimidate each other with their eyes. Most men would never notice this subtle behavior.

Since women can’t compete in a soccer pitch, they do have an alternative of who is more attractive “competition”.

A normal man would care less how a woman is dressed for the most part. Sure, it is nice to see a woman well dressed but it’s not that important. But for women it is a whole matter altogether.

A woman does not like the fact that another woman is getting more attention that she is and believe me they are so quick to know that another woman is more attractive which will lead to amazing displays we looked at earlier.

Lastly, women do not dress up to get compliments but to impress and compete with other women.

Idea #3 – Women and Dating

It’s not like you are in a relationship with women, but you have been going out for sometime with a “special girl” and you have made a decision to make here your special one and from that point things are bound to change. You can now be nicer, compliment and do all those thoughtful things. At this time things will be having different meaning. But do not turn out to be a loser.

There’s a huge opportunity when it comes to first meeting and most guys do not consider it since it is not what comes naturally. Teasing and busting is the trick you should use rather than giving her compliments.

The whole thing will make her loose composure, takes her off guard and out of her world and now you can how a real conversation. Something like “Your fly is open”, and walk away. The woman will always find you and say “You are such a JERK!” and then he laughs at her…the rest is history.

Ask yourself if, it would work the same way as walking to her and saying “you are amazingly beautiful”, and then walk away.

I suppose not.

So to wind up, women LOOOVE compliments. But if you want a woman to feel the magic of attraction toward you then you must be careful giving them out too early.