YOU KNOW A RELATIONSHIP IS ONE-SIDED WHEN....
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For All the Women Out There Who Have GoneThrough Some or More of the Listed Items Below!
I wrote this not to long ago while going through a one-sided relationship just to be able to make myself see all the bad things that were going on. In reality, this is a compilation of 3 relationships I went through over the past year. Some of my friends and people I known have gone through the same thing, so I hope this helps any gals (or guys too) that are living the same reality...WAKE UP! loll!
You Know A Relationship is One-Sided WHEN....
- You are the only one giving out compliments all the time.
- You are the only one telling him how adorable his is and it seems to bother him after a while.
- Goes out with friends, but never asks you out for a drink, dinner or movie!
- He says he's coming over and doesn't show up at all.
- Doesn't call unless you call first and initiate the call, THEN he calls you back.
- Dosen't give you any news for a few days, and only because you called asking for news! (Probably forgot about you...)
- when you try to reach him doens't answer his phone. then, the same excuses: (that you always hear: "oops, sorry, forgot my phone at home, in the car, at work, battery is dead, etc, etc.)
- You still end up spending your Friday and Saturday evenings alone.
- Sleeps over, doesn't offer to go out for breakfast (or make you some..loll!), and leaves early saying he has things to do on a beautiful day.
- When you ask him if he wants to do something or go somewheres, the answers are never spontaneous, but long in coming, you know right away he doesn't want to be with you for anything else. he has a life AND you are not in it...
- He tells you constantly (to remind you and make sure you DON'T forget), he likes being single, doesn't believe in love, was hurt so many times in the past, his ex's really screwed him up, he's not in a hurry, yet you find out a whiles later he's met someone new and is totally in love!!
- Then you realize that it was all bulls--t he was telling you! (Damn..makes us feel like a total nerd)
- He rather spend his outings with his friends than you.
- He doesn't have you meet his family.
- Doesn't say goodby when he leaves...
- You still end up passing special occasions alone, Valentine's day, Easter, Christmas, your birthday...
THANK GOD FOR MY FRIENDS!!
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thanks Nicole, it comes from the heart and what I went through, and for sure, many out there are going through the same thing, men and women too! Thanks!
Great hub! So true and such good info. hopefully lots of people see and learn through this hub.
I hope so Izettl!! Thanks so much 4 the comment!!
All of the above. matter of fact i am spending xmass and new year alone, cause he kept saying he will get back with me about the plans i suggested. came to find out he will be with his family. same thing happenned on thanksgiving, and i don't know how many times he said he was coming over and never show up. when he is sick he wants me to pamper him, be there all the time, and when i get sick he would tell me i am looking for attention, he actually told me why was i telling him i was sick, can't i just call the doctor. SO, I HAD ENOUGH OF IT, AND I AM STEPPING OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP. for everybody out there, RUN when a relationship is one-sided, it will never change, and it will kill you!
true true true Jenny, I agree 100%% all the way with u!!! Good luck, I wish you the best in the new year!!
Why are all these things wording like the guy/male is the bad guy and always doing these things? Girls do this shit all the time too. I just finally came to grips and got out of a relationship with a girl that was one-sided. I was the only one making an effort and putting myself out there for her emotionally, and she treated me like I was just one of her handbags. She only used me to be her shrink
Jason, yes, these things happen to guys too, I agree! However, it's on a smaller scale. If it was just as much as with women, wouldn't there be just as many articles, books, etc out there for men as there is with women? Take a look on the net, you'll find a much greater number (5:1) for literature dealing with this subject! :)
Excellent, universal observations! This is why I am now a hermit!
ROFL!
Nicole Winter says:
17 months ago
Wow, what an eye-opener for men and women everywhere, kmartel. Your list is "right on" and I'm so happy you had the gumption to sit down and type this all out while you were going through this. It's certainly an eye opener!