1. Accept that your relationship is over and your life will be more peaceful.

2. Don't compare your past and present life.

3. Don't hold yourself or your former spouse responsible for the break-up.

4. Talk about your feelings with one of your non-judgemental friends.

5. Devlop a positive mindset.

6. Take the help of a professional counsellor if depression and frustration lingers for a very long time.

If you have decided to seprate, then, it's important that you try to respect your decision. Having faith in the future will be a very determining factor in how well you deal with these post-divorce realities. Just up your chin and move ahead in life without carrying this baggage from past.