Teen anger is often a rebellion against what they see as unfair treatment by the parents. Parents should really listen to their teens' concerns and problems with an open mind, which is often very hard to do. Some teenagers need to seek professional help with their anger problems, especially if it is excessive. Trained professionals can teach them the dangers of anger and techniques they can use to solve their problems.

Researchers found that anger habits in a child tended to remain stable over time. However, average anger control scores increased over time and were higher in children with lower BMIs.

The key to anger control is not control. Trying to control anger in effect means that anger still exists, but that you are trying to hold it down. The word anger control or anger management may sound nice and attractive, but there are two serious offsprings that must be addressed. One is that the holding in of anger can and does cause other problems some more serious than others. Ranging from ulcers, high blood pressure, to heart attacks and strokes, keeping anger "in", is not the ideal soloution.

The single most destructive element in life is anger. Anger destroys relationships between husbands and wives, parents and children, brothers and sisters, kids in school, and adults in the workplace. It leads to depression and violence. Virtually everyone needing psychological or psychiatric help is intensely angry with one or more people in their lives. Prisons are full of individuals who could not control their anger.

When anger control is employed in batterer programs, these techniques are usually preceded by exercises and discussion that alert the batterer to the severity and nature of his abuse. This procedure is intended to reduce the denial and minimization of abuse. Also, integrated into the treatment is exposure to the sex role assumptions that contribute to the unrealistic expectations and appraisals that the batterers hold of their wives or lovers.

Anger control no doubt contributes to the redirection or reduction of anger and of aggression in many individuals. The question is how well suited is it for batterers. Does it help end wife abuse, as opposed to only reduce dysfunctional anger? Two, does it lend itself to misuse by counselors and batterers? In other words, is anger control effective if properly employed, and is it likely to be properly implemented by this particular population?

When angry children first come to a professional’ s attention, there may be a tendency to think that the parents must learn to ignore their children’ s tantrums. But this will not work reliably for children with anger overload. Their angry outbursts will not be extinguished this way. Behavior therapy for these children involves working with the parents as much as, or more than, the children themselves. Parents and teachers can learn strategies to teach their child self-control in a shorter period of time than the therapist can teach the child alone. By coaching the parents, the therapist has an impact on the child throughout the week. In addition, children cannot apply therapeutic strategies themselves at home when the anger is building. They need someone to cue them on what to do — usually a parent or teacher.

The first strategy is for the adult to recognize when the child is about to experience anger. This is sometimes difficult for anyone to predict. However, over time, parents and teachers begin to recognize signs that an angry outburst is impending . The look in the child’ s eyes, the tone of his voice or the tightness in his body tell the adult that the child is beginning to get upset. The time from when the child gets upset to when he shows full-blown anger may only be a few seconds. If it is caught in time, the child is much more likely to achieve self-control than if the adult tries to intervene once the child is overflowing with emotion. It is as if the child’ s brain has reached overload then, and it takes some time to cool off.

Anger control is often misrepresented as a quick-fix solution that may endanger battered women. However it tends to consider the abuse from the psychological point of view rather than accept the more uncomfortable task of confronting the economic, social and political injustices that perpetuate the problem. Anger control is possible once you decide you want to control the anger and not let it control you.