Now, that is really oxymoron -women you love. Firstly, you would only give gifts to ladies whom you loved, would you give to women you hate or even stranger (I think that is even a crime).

Anyway, it is not easy to come out with gift ideas for women, it is tough. For guys that have been married for some years, it is even tougher, you simply ran out of ideas.

The thing is this, if you get her the things she really want, you might just end out breaking a large hole in your pocket (what is this thing about women and diamond anyway?). But, if you get her things she do not fancy, you would break a hole in your mind, with the constant nagging or cold war etc...

You get the picture, we all wanted the best birthday gift ideas for women we love, but it is not easy. So, here I am writing this article -would I be able to help?

We guys have probably got it very wrong. When the ladies told us that it is never about the gift, they meant it. They are looking for care and concern, so even if your gift is megre but the experience is good -they would love it.

Key ingredients here are care and concern, and you can achieve it with very little money, it would take some of your time though...

The reason why expensive stuff are so dear to the ladies is because they equate it with care and concern. To them, you care enough for them to buy expensive gift and part with your money to pamper them.

Now, if you do not want to spend half your pay on some nice looking crystals, you might want to consider making the gift yourself.

Yes, handmade some presents. Then, you would not have to worry about birthday gift ideas for her, you can handmade something anytime right?

Moreover, when you handmade it, no matter how it look like, the sincerity and the effort that you have put it into it would melt her heart.

Trust me, she would display it in the most prominent places and show off to all her friends "my darling, make it for me"...

People spend thousands on it to get a smile from their lady and all these was spend on one element -surprise. Yes, it is this surprise if you can incorporate into whatever gift ideas for her, it is really deliver the punch.


It can be as simple as a treasure hunt where she has to get the clues from her friends and ultimately lead to you and the prize (check out this article for details of this game).

Or, even a surprise trip for her to a place where she has not been before. Remember, it is not the place that matters, it is the effort that has gone into the arrangement that would touch her....

It was never my intention to give you a step by step guide to surprising your women or delivering the best gift. In fact, I would never be able to do it.

The person that has this capability is YOU. You know her best and can do the arrangement that would let her break into that beautiful smile.

All you need to do is put in some thoughts and follow it through. I can assure you that regardless of your gift, she would definitely be thrilled.

How many ladies have man that would go all out to surprise them?