The only way to mend a broken heart is with time.

Time is the only one that can help you let go.

There are different approaches though.

I remember the guy I gave my first kiss to...he was my first broken heart...

I didn't think I would ever recover...and of course the first one is always in your heart somehow...bc it was a special moment.

approach #1: Deal with it by confronting the person. Let them know how they hurt you for closure. If you do take this step I do not recommend trying to stay friends with that person. The situation is sensitive to you, hence it won't work.

approach #2: Be the vengeful ex. Yeah it sounds mean, but it's indeed a way some people deal with their broken heart. Going out partying trying to meet new people and flaunting the good time they are having in their exs faces through pictures or the grape vine. Making the ex look like they were wet blankets and weren't able to provide such fun.

approach #3: Be emo about it. I am not trying to make fun, but it is the best way I can describe it. Some people are just real emotional and it's understandable. This approach tends to lead to depression...and it affects your work and social environment..not good. Yes you have every right to cry, but don't over do it. Get some pals, hang out and share your experience. You deserve to be heard in your time of need.

approach #4: Become cold hearted, ignore it. This one is stil no fun. If you decide not to let yourself let it go, then you store it. And it follows you like a rain cloud. That rain cloud eventually is going to turn into storms coming out of your eyes at one point.

approach #5: I call this one the healthy approach. Find some activities, programs, hobbies in order to occupy your time and mind + heart. Learn about yourself. Give yourself healing time. Once you're ready to get back on the dating scene do it, but with no pressure. Of course I am not saying die alone, I am saying relax, chill out, learn about yourself, and then proactively let good things happen.

I took this approach. I focused on my work, I hung out with my friends more, and when I deemed it a good time to let go...I did. I'm not going to lie at first I wanted to be the vengeful ex, but that for me was a no-no...karma is a wench and I believe in it...anyway end result...I am happily in love with a great guy...with obstacle around us nonetheless he is a great guy who is in love with me dearly.

I BET THERE ARE MILLIONS OF APPROACHES TO MENDING A BROKEN HEART...BUT IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO TIME...TIME IS THE ONLY HEALER--of course we are facilitators of our heart...so we work hand in hand....

anyway...I hope that this helps.. :)

<3 Brownie