You have lost your peace of mind and your sleep because of tension and anxiety since your ex left you. The only one thought that constantly haunts you day and night is how to get your ex back.

You called him/her up. There was silence. You coaxed, you cajoled. There was no call back. You sobbed, almost cried, pleaded, you begged.

The words that could be music to your ears never came.

You are utterly lost. You have been talking to a stone wall.

The one big question for you has been: How to get your darling to return your phone call, text or IM?

But do you know you have made a grave mistake in dealing with your ex?

The oft-repeated, tired and traditional approach of begging and whining for love NEVER works. Such pleadings never move the estranged and piqued lovers. They are likely to further spur their egos and harden their hearts. "Serves you right," probably might be the response from your ex.

In fact this approach may create awful psychological tension leading you to more confusion and abject predicament.

Special situations call for special remedies, language and techniques.

You should use a different and an unconventional approach to win back your love.

In the present case, for example, you could call up your ex-lover and tell what wonderful time you had with him/her and how appreciative you are of what he/she did for you when you were together. Could he/she call you back, whenever convenient, so you could express your feelings?

This gesture alone can set your ex wondering what exactly he/she had done to elicit the appreciation and gratitude. Your ex feels really good after receiving such positive message and is sure to call you up.

A word of warning

Come out with something concrete that your ex might actually have said or done to you even if it was a small gesture, a small act or a kind remark. Any thing faked may prove counterproductive and give you away. Your tone has to be friendly, confident and not that of a jilted and plaintive lover.

This is just one of the several more powerful and unconventional strategies that can be applied successfully to get your ex come running into your arms. For more information please visit the Magic of Making Up.

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