Love! It is one of my most favorite and used words in the world. But when two people from different background, family value and sometimes ethnics and religion come together to start an affair, there is bound to be challenges. An affair with your spouse, even though its everything you ever want, it still needs a lot of hard work, patients, understanding, trust, love... the list goes on. All this and more is what goes into building your relationship.

Relationship it self is an agreement binding two or more people together. Relationships sometimes are sweet and sometimes sour, some times relationships are hot and some times cold, relationships at times is painful and sometimes times sweeter. Which ever way or side a woman is faced in relationship women should learn to endure, tolerate, and succumb, Life is a coin and at times it changes. When faced with an unbearable situation, try as much as possible to cope with the situation although it is not easy. Make the situation to come under you not the other way round, when faced with situations try as much as possible to have an upper hand. For example:-

1.       Two lovers or intending couples who were fond of each other, one day had a ghastly car accident. Both survived but the man lost his two hands in the cause of the accident. This makes it impossible for the man to provide all that the lady needs like he normally does. In situations like this, the woman should try as much as possible to show more love to the man knowing that he is now helpless, bathing him, cook for him, chatting with him, making him happy so he can try to forget the incident. Taking him to interesting places in his wheel chair to prove to him you are not ashamed of him and to make him feel wanted and loved.

2.      When you have a sex mania man i.e.  A sex addict. In a situation where a woman does all she can to show love to her man , The lady finances the man, supplies all his needs, yet the man goes out to have multiple affairs, this alone could be heart breaking for the lady.

Some men if you like give them the whole world or if you like cut your head, your hand, your leg, even plug out your eyes and give it to them, they can never be satisfy because most men are pig or animals, When you see a pig in a pit and you decide to help the pig out of the pit, the pig will still go back to the pit because the pig belongs to the pit. This implies to some of our young men when a lady in a relationship throws more love money and care the man as a sex addict will never be satisfied even if the lady is very good in sex super good in sex, the man will still go back to his vomits.

My advise in such relationship is that  ladies if you are truly in love with the  man find a suitable day , sit you man down make him realize that aids is real and if the man refuses to deceit from being a sex addict the lady should quit the relationship because life has no duplicate.

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A smooth, sweet going relationship can suddenly go sour. This happens most of the time when a spouse starts cheating or starts behaving in an obscene manner. The eventuality of this act is sometimes managed well by both couples or sometimes it is irreconcilable and they both part ways.

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Haven studied psychology at college and presently running my masters in Public Administration, I will say that love is a thing of the heart and so when the relationship starts showing signs of sinking, call your lover and try having an indebt heart to heart discussion with him. With this, I know if he really loves you, he will try not to cheat or do anything that he knows will cause you pains.

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In the case where the cheating and lies and late nights continues, there, I will advise for a break up because the guy/girl in question, does not love you, does not respect you and does not love your( both) life’s. This is because his/her act could cause you a health disaster. If you go to the hospital today, you will find cases of a cheating spouse infecting the other spouse with all sorts/ types of STD's. So for safety and long life and for future happiness, it is better to end an unfulfilling, unfruitful and an unrewarding relationship. Thanks.