MY BOYFRIEND BECAME A WOMAN - few days ago
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This story has started last year when my boyfriend and me begun to live together. After few weeks of really great romance, which included trips to the mountains, a lot of laughing, he was even playing guitar and singing me love songs, I gradually woke up from my love-dream and faced the truth - something was rotten in my love-relationship!!! The problem was - my bf used to believe in the traditional gender roles too much... Female work is "kitchen, cooking, cleaning, serving men, having children" plus earning money, men´s duty is to go to work and take rest afterwords. Now I simplify, but this was the main point. I was horrified. I definitely said my historical "NO" for having children (my boyfriend sometimes eats energy like 3 children) and "NO" for "housework is for women only". After that, cold war between us started...
I was feeling as I lead battle for my life and was too angry with him to meditate on improvement of our relationship, what was good, because we had opportunity to face our dark side.
In the middle of our ego-battles I told him very straight if he wanted servant he needed to pay me for all housework done (he did not do anything at all at that time, only mess) and was considering very seriously to rent a flat on my own if he refused to change. I also recommended him to buy dishwasher and take dishwasher to the bed and have sex with it!
As self-employed person, I also need a lot of energy for my job: healing and counselling people is not so simple, plus it requires a lot of learning, regular meditations ...plus I also have to do all the marketing etc. I do not have neither time nor energy to serve grown up man whole my life!
Do not get my wrong: Dean is a great guy, talented, special, has great sense for humour, in his work he is perfect and extremely creative...here I just discuss our male-female relation.
I also crushed his ego-dream about me as perfect woman who would do everything to satisfy his Majesty. He was also very, very disappointed. He used his strongest weapon - he almost completely stopped to communicate with me for almost two months: from his side, there was not more then 10 highly intelligent sentences per day like "Where are my blue socks", "This glass is not polished" and "This meal is nothing special"...
His mighty weapon of silence completely failed: whenever I could, I was going out on my own, for hours walking and meditating on the beaches- actually he did me a big favor, I felt completely free and single again...
Traditional male-female roles...
Little by little our relationship started to improve, we started to tolerate each other much more, our communication developed on the new basis especially since we adopted one cat. She brought new tender energy in the house. Cold war between us was over, we established peace-negotiations and slowly we became friends again.
After some time I corrected many of my mistakes and my bf started to change gradually his ancient beliefs and accepted his part of housework. Hm. This was not easy for him: his mother was just housewife all her life, in his office there is a cleaning lady...In his mind something was not natural if man does that while woman is around.
IT is not fair, men should not wash the dishes. Look at me now!
You see, my love, we can do everything together! Washing the dishes can be soooo romantic!
I used all possible strategy and many various ways of explaining him why is necessary that two people share the housework duties.
I am great cook, but cannot be that if I HAVE TO DO IT EVERY DAY. So I started to cook so bad, that he had to start cooking the meals, every now and on.
I just stopped to be perfect, and began to use sentences as "Really, dear, I just DO NOT KNOW how to do the ironing (or cooking some meal) I did not learn that in the school" . This cunning tactic I learned from MEN: "I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO DO IT" is the best way how to avoid doing something. We women are naive: after Prince of Charming says "I do not know how to do it", we immediately accept that as true, and perform the work instead of him. This is WRONG! "I JUST DO NOT KNOW EITHER" can save every woman from a lot of extra-work.
Doing certain things together, like cooking and cleaning, can be also such fun!
Finally, Dean realized that washing the floor on the balcony, is the same as playing the golf: FUN! His brain made big quantum leap into unknown!
Our relationship finally got completely new dimension: housework can be shared and we can both enjoy doing that!
After work, we can take rest together..you know, you guys are SO HOT and SEXY when you help in the housework!
Few days ago, Dean went to the shopping-center, and when he came home he told me:
"I enjoyed shooping so much. I REALIZED I BECAME A WOMAN. YOU CAN BE HAPPY, TATJANA, YOU HAVE GIRLFRIEND NOW- ME!"
I checked his statement later on, just to make sure what´s going on, and he is still a guy, he, he! But, since he thinks (jokes) he is a woman, I enjoy being with him much more. Since he is my "girlfriend", he is much more human then ever before! And more "real man" in my eyes then ever.
Romance can stay- romance and be hot, sexy and inspirative while people are NOT LIVING TOGETHER. When they start to live together, everything can turn upside down, depending on habits and beliefs two people have from before.
Love can prevail and compromise be found - only if the both sides decide so.
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Thank you very much CW, I will give him your best wishes. He, he, he...it is not easy to adjust...never. The both of us know that...
LOL I feel a great relief - that I am not your bf :P
No question I love you - but I love being a boy, too. One wife already tried to convert me to something that she thought was better, did not pan out though :)
Enjoyed reading your story, and how the shifts evolved in your relationship. For a minute I thought it was about a sex change operation, LOL! My s/o and I have agreed that the reason we get along is because we don't try to change the other; he is a country boy, and I am a city girl, and somehow we both make it work. :) You sound like a wise woman, good for you!
It's aggrivating having to pick up after everybody else in the house! So like you, I finally left everything where it is and let them deal with it! It's decided that they'll split the chores on a Friday night. I'm glad that everything has worked out for you two. Hey, how about going to the salon together? hehe
Ha, ha, ha, Misha, I DID NOT CONVERT HIM: it is normal that two people do share housework, nothing more! Since he converted himself, the both of us do not work more then one half of hour per day,doing housework- together. Before, while he was the messy one, I spent more then 5 hours per day just cleaning AFTER him. Huge difference, huh?
He also jokes that I converted him, but this is not the case. I gave him the option: to employ somebody, who will do cleaning after him, so I can finally have some rest.
I do not care, now I have soooo many time, for myself and my work.
He, he, he....A lots of love.
Love the hub! The picture with the gorillas remind me of my exhusband. He was one of those that had specific roles for men and women in the home, but you are right. Doing certain things together, like cooking and cleaning, can be also such fun!
If all men learned this lesson, we women wouldn't have to work so hard to teach it to them. LOL
Tootles!!
I have a traditional house but only because I work too much and we have no alternative, but I was self sufficient before her and can warm up frozen burritos with the best of them. But in all honesty, I pick up after myself and cook most of my meals too, and I don't think anything of it.
Dear VS, thanks for your comment. He, he, he, he is repeating that every day, but actually he enjoys peace and harmony we have now. I do not have reasons to complain any more, so we can concentrate about planning the future, not wasting energy any more! Cooperation always saves the time. Well, there is only two of us, do not worry, he did not loose anything, he actually gained a lot: and he is very aware of that!
A lots of love.
Hi, Mayhmong, I am also glad that everything has worked out perfect for you as well. He, he, he, my boyfriend DOES NOT LOOK AS WOMAN AT ALL, ha, ha, ha...
LOL Tanechka, I hope you didn't, you are wise enough not to do that kind of thing - I was mostly kidding :)
Yet if we take it to the general level, I do believe that men and women do have different roles in the family and society, and ignoring this does not do us much good. :)
Hi, Nayberry, this is like in school, isn`t it?
Hm, I think I know why your ex is ex one!
Thanks for your comment, wish you all the best.
Well GT, your case is question of circumstances! If you are self sufficient, 100 thumbs up for you. That was exactly my point. Thanks for your comment!
Well, Misha, do not worry, he is OK, he still does what he likes, except since we share part of housework.
Everyone of us has different role. Our souls are without gender.
We do have different roles, but world is changing: since women started to work (and this is a MUST nowadays) , and since the style of living is not the same as before, some differences cannot exist any more. Every case is special. It is just not possible to generalize.
If I have to work 10 times more then my man, I would rather choose surgery to become a man, or live on my own, whithout any man, he, he, he...
An interesting hub, Tanya. Good luck to you! Nice cats too!:)
Hi, QS, many thanks for your comment and nice wishes!
Good luck to you as well!
LOL, I was not talking spiritual part, I meant more biological side of our earthy bodies :) Don't have enough enegry to put it all down right now, will try to do this tomorrow, ok? :)
OK, Misha, have a nice, night and sweet dreams.
thank you :-*
I had a husband, typically this is my job that is yours type of attitude until I went on strike. H e is still much the same but picks up aftr himself and stops moaning. We do work well together now.
wonderful hub, I love it!
Hi Hawkesdream, I am so glad that your strike was succesful and your marriage improved. Very often is just little change needed for harmony!
Thank you very much Londongirl for your comment and for your support!
great hub! I got a lot of pleasure while reading it... thanks!!
Thank you, Gin, I appreciate your comment very much!
Now that your bf has become a woman, he might use it as an excuse for having more "girlfriends"! LOL thanks for sharing this amusing experience of yours. :D
Good evening Tanechka :)
Well, I finally found time to come here and put something more serious down.
Yes, life has changed and nowadays women have to work for family to have enough income. I won't go into why it happened, but I think it is not beneficial to humanity and have to change back eventually.
I think you would agree that man and woman are different both biologically and psychologically. It comes as a result of countless years of evolution, and I strongly believe we have to take it into consideration if we want to be happy. Males hunt or otherwise procure food and goods for the family, females take care of kids and home. This is how we evolved to be, and this is what allowed for our survival.
Don't get me wrong, if you like to work and bring income to the family I never say to you you shouldn't. What I am saying I think it is easier to be happy if you do what you are wired to do. Taking care of kids and home requires serious multitasking abilities, and women shine at it and men really suck - I know, I was babysitting my kids for several months, it was soooooo exhausting exactly because of the lack of multitasking on my side. Income generating activities often require good concentration, and here the picture is the opposite - men usually are good at that, and women just can't.
Of course it is on average, and you can find examples of both successful househusbands and businesswomen - yet I strongly believe on average we are much happier when we play roles we were created for :)
Great hub. I think things are changing and women shouldn't have to do it all. Men can help too they aren't helpless, well not all of them anyway.
Ha, ha, ha, Chris, I do not mind for that. Fortunately he is too clever to complicate his life on that way!
Thanks for your comment"
Thank you Misha, I understand all the differences.
I started to work very early, and in all my jobs, my female colleagues and me were able to perform multitasks jobs much better then any of our male colleagues. Actually in addition to our duties, we did big parts of their work as well because big majority of men were able to keep focus on one thing only and usually they were completely excauhsted after their working time, for the difference, we were able to perform extra work afterwords (another job, or family duties) almost without any appropriate rest.
If any of us did not need to cover our male colleagues and work for them as well, we would be able to enjoy much more our work.
The same with the duties in the home: every adult person should be able to do everything: to cook, clean, (feed the children & do babysitting - if people have children), or use screwdriver or hammer. If the things are well organized, and everybody helps, actualy there is much less work then it looks like.
My boyfriend told me that it is obvious that actualy I do not need men to live with, and on the contrary, he needs women, because he cannot perform all jobs in the home. But this is wrong: everyone can do everything what somebody WANTS. If there is reluctant of wish, nothing can be done. He also told me that he realized that he would be self sufficient after 1 year more passes by, what he was not before. He was depended of "any female working certain things INSTEAD of him". Now he is grateful to me.
My father was not provider - my Mum was: if she did not work, I would not be who I am now, maybe I would not be alive at all. If I did not work and earn money, while waiting for any man to "bring me the food", I would already starve. Well, Misha, it is a fact that in my country many men do not want to be providers even when they need to be.
Tradition you mention would be great in ideal world. But many men were/are not good providers for many centuries, if they were/are this world would be paradise already. For many of them is easier to go in the war, or get drunk, or go to casino and be driven by hormones playing Casanovas, then to do their family duties, like make the family happy.
In such chaos, women needed to become providers, otherwise, their children would starve! Even in ideal traditional families, if father of family dies, what will happen to his wife and children???
When my Grandma was in the hospital, my Grandpa did not know how to cook the most simple meal to his children and himself, because this duty was not tratidional. But - he did have energy for adultery! Hm.....
In some families tradition works well, this is great, in some - not at all.
I will also write a Hub about hormonal and brain differences between sexes, and I am very aware that they exist. New generations are different...in my country there is a lot of men who let their wifes to be providers, they stay at home taking care about children...with big pleasure!
World is changing....there is no steps back. But we cannot generalize, every family and every human being is uniqe.
Hi, Gwendymom: I cannot agree more with you: men are too great to be helpless!
Thanks for your comment!
Dobro sam kako si Tatjana!
Wow, very interesting story I love it. The title was very deceiving and the start of story was full of suspense, I thought I was reading one of “Alfred Hitchcock” stories. I thought your Bf really changed his sex & is now a young lady like you. Wow, now is a good chance for “Manage a trios” but the climax was disappointing………….but very funny.
~Boyz Are Great, Every Girl Should Have One.~
~ The woman wants to live her own life; and the man wants to live his; and each tries to drag the other on to the wrong track. One wants to go north and the other south; and the result is that both have to go east.~ Higgins, Act II
~ To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.~
Helen Rowland
~ The perfect love affair is one which is conducted entirely by post.~
George Bernard Shaw
~ There are three kinds of men who do not understand women: Young, old, and middle-aged.~
I still love you bigger than the whole universe........
LOL At Mr. Nice :)
Tanechka, then this one would be the thing that we agree to disagree :) I won't say that all what you wrote I disagree with, but I don't see any benefit in picking several points and replying to them, knowing all well that you won't change your mind, at least not now :)
Love and light :)
Ha, ha, ha, Tony, I just adore you! You always make me laugh.
Well, tittle of my Hub is the sentence my boyfriend repeats every second day. We laugh together.
You can imagine MY REACTION when he first time told me that? Believe, me I was not sure what is going on, ha, ha, ha. Good thing is that surgery cannot be performed in 2 hours only.
I also love you a lot!!!!!!!
BTW, do you know how to wash dishes??? he, he, he...
Thanks for your comment and for me laugh.....
He, he, he, Misha, like I told you, in ideal world, everything would be different. Maybe in ideal world I would be man. Who knows?
Lots of love...
Great article, and I agree with so much of what you say, but also with various comments made. My Husband is great at doing housework and being a provider. We want to have children, but need IVF to stand a chance. I do not work right now due to health issues, and he still works full time and does much of our housework. At the same time he does not expect me to be a conventional housewife, and whilst I do cook etc, he washes up afterwards (most times), plus he puts laundery on, hangs it out to dry etc.
As it was pointed out to me some time back. Women spent many many years fighting for the right to work, and when they got it, it became a case where women who didn't work were frowned upon as being lazy, and nowadays, women are expected to work, even if they have children in day care.
The world has got confused along the way, and my own opinion is that a women should not be condemned whether she chooses to stay at home or to work, as long as she doesn't produce numerous children without visible fathers, and then expect the state to support her.
Hi, Cindy so glad to see you here and read your wise comment. You have made the right points. I completely agree with you.
Can you please send me your husband for few days, if he does not mind to teach my boyfriend how to do the laundry? He still has no idea how to turn on washing machine...he, he, he. I have seen him with vacuum-cleaner in the hands only ones, and after less then 5 minutes he said that was too much for him. Ha!
Well, in our country is not case like you mentioned in your last chapter of your comment. State does not support mentioned cases almost at all: women (without visible fathers of children) recieve money for children, only if they are not able to work because of illness, and this money is not sufficient for life. So they cannot even get idea to have children just to be financialy supported from the state. Because state does not support them. If single Mum is not able to work or does not have enough money for her children, from any other possible resource ,state takes away children from her.
I used to live in Britain, and was very shocked when I saw what you just mentioned.
I wish you a lot of luck with your plan to have a baby, from all my heart. I read your Hub about your challenges. Just be patient, heal yourself at first, very ofthen the problem comes due to the lack of some minerals in the body (says healer),,,,it is very commone case. F.E. If women does not have enough Calcium Sulphate, female is sterile, because her eggs are not of good quality. If you do not have enough of Iron, endometriosis can happen, etc.
Love and Light
Tatjiana You enlightened me and made me laugh, I adored the pictures as they were comical and I am so glad that you finally got your girlfriend, men need to learn from this. Lolololol :) Love the kitty pics. :)
I think men should help with the house cleaning, and I personally love to cook, which lately I have done all the cooking. I only have one complaint about your hub: Washing the balcony floor is a fun as golf? Ha,ha! Now, you have HIM brainwashed!
Great hub, Tatjiana!
Hi, AEvans, thank you very much for your kind words. My girlfriend is realy great! While being a bf he was cute buy nightmare to leave with!
Christoph - I`ve just started to adore you! YOU are great!
In normal circumstances I do sing and have fun while working, so....let´s play while doing housework or anything else.
Enjoyed reading your story and its good to see how yor relationship had changed from ego to compromises
Thank you, Gracy.
Hey Misha you be good!
Kako si Tatjana, I believe two woman all alone not a good idea. I guess you need a girlfriend at the first place but you prefer a Bf. Now since you Bf gender changed to a Gf you are very happy.
BTW, do you know how to wash dishes???
You know men are not good dish washer but I am very cooperative & will share the chores. All the shopping, nice massage at night & lots of pure love......hahaha not kidding. Where else you can get a complete pakage deal like this???
Enjoy rest of your life with your new found Gf.....
Even Freud was confused & he said.......
~ The great question... which I have not been able to answer... is, "What... does a woman want? ~ Freud
~ There is no remedy for love than to love more. ~
~ Success makes life easier. It doesn't make living easier. ~ Bruce Springsteen
Forever pure love.........
Tatjana-Mihaela-Enjoyed reading your story and How yor relationship had changed
Hi, Tony, well, my "poor" gf is out, while I am sitting at home. Ha, ha, ha, he is not so surpressed like Misha thinks, actually he is not at all. Misha and my bf would understand each other very well, but I think, my bf would spoil Misha, and Misha`s wife would be very disappointed.
About washing the dishes: I used to know how to do it but suddenly I got amnesia, he, he, he!
A lots of love to you as well....
Thank you very much Lgali, I am glad you liked it.
@Tatjana: This is not only your's and Dean's story. This is the story of all men and women on earth. Women ask for equal status as men. Someday they will ask men to give birth to babies. Some of the men around the globe have already started doing that. To me, this seems more like a problem of respect. Most Women on earth think thay do not get the respect they deserve. This is not always true specially with working women. most men respect working and hard working women. They all love and care for their ladies, which, sometimes, you ladies don't understand at all. Men are Men and Women are Women by Nature. if a women needs and deserves love, care and respect, so do Men. There is lot and lots to write here but I will take my time and get back to this after you respond to whatever I have expressed here.
Hi, Guidebaba: you reached the point, the problem is in mutual respect, as well as in self-respect. But the main point is that the story is for men who does not respect the housework of their wifes or girlfriends and behave like spoiled children and expect slaves instead of cooperation.
I am expected to work and earn money and I needed to work at this period much harder then my bf. When we had this problem, he was not working more then 4 hours per day, I was working for 12 or 16 hours, sometimes even 20 in the row (I slept every second night) plus I needed emotional support instead of which I got only - a lot of nessessary (!) housework in addition and not help at all. Sitation needed to change, otherwise I would burn our completely.
I also said in my comments, then before I needed at least 5 hours per day for housework, when we do it together (and he takes care not to create nessessary mess everwhere around the flat) there is no more then 1/2 of hour or hour houeswork per day.
Well, many men in my country say: "Wow, is so good to be born as men, we do not need to work as hard as women." There are many positive examples as well.
In my country - women are expected to work and earn money, even when they have children and usually they work much harder on their jobs then men. As a result of that, they develope many chronical deseases around 40-ties, even earlier, because of too hard work and too high level of stress... As a healer, I know that. New generations of men are better and more cooperative, and do not expect more then they can give from their wifes and girlfriends.
Like I said in few comments, I would not want to generalize: sometimes tradition works great, sometimes not at all, because every situation is specific, as well as every part of world.
Thank you for your wise comment, I appreciate it very much.
Hi Tatjana : Here we go:
1. "But the main point is that the story is for men who does not respect the housework of their wifes or girlfriends and behave like spoiled children and expect slaves instead of cooperation. " - This is waht MOST of the women of earth think, not just you. How do you know that men do not respect their wives or GFs hardwork? Did you ever ask your BF if he truely respect you and your work or not? Just ASK HIM NOW and you will get the answer.
2. "When we had this problem, he was not working more then 4 hours per day" - Are you sure? He must be having his own problems. Did you ever tried to find out what what his actual problem. Every man on Earth wants to earn as much money as he can and give the most precious gifts to his lady. I am sure he must be having his own dreams and plans. Try to get inside your Man and see what is there inside.
3. Well, many men in my country say: "Wow, is so good to be born as men, we do not need to work as hard as women." - This is surely your misconseption. Human are Human. Be it CROATIA, India or the US. All human beings have the same feelings. I never heard any Man saying that ! I never said that. Everyday I meet atleast 1000 people and never heard anyone of them saying that. That is your own mind-set and misconception and THIS is the cause of your depression and as you know dipression is the cause behind all sickness and this is why more and more women fall sick more that women. Most of the women think the negative way and go into depression and fall sick.
Bottomline: If you want to be happy and have a happy family for ever, change your mind-set. Not doing that will lead you to depression and and finally you will fall sick and once again you will blame your man for your sickness. Yes, I agree that some men actually have no respect for women. If your man is in this catagory, DUMP him. He will have no option than to change himself.
* I have no intentions to hurt you by any means. Keep working and keep smiling. You look like a beautiful hardworking women. Use your intelligence to make your own life happy.
Now say CHEEEEESSSSS !!!
Kako si Tatjana!
Guidebaba you are amazing, you said it all I told "Tatjana" long time ago everything you said here. Tatjana is very responsible but very sensitive young lady. She needs to get in-depth analysis of her relationship; otherwise, as you said she will be depressed. She is already under great stress & very depressed, you can tell from her writing & the type of topics. Guidebaba my advice is the same as yours.
Relationships should be base on mutual understanding & respect not expectations & if it’s not working then your advice is mine too.
Actually, I wanted Tatjana to know that I published a new hub about my Tokyo visit but I saw your comment & I was also encouraged to leave a feedback on your comment.
Last night I published a hub about my visit to Tokyo. I also added a link to your hub, visit the link & have a look.
~ When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.~ John Gray
~ We look at each other wondering what the other is thinking but we never say a thing.~ Ants Marching
~ This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life. ~
http://hubpages.com/hub/Take-A-Virtual-Tour-Of-Tok
Forever Love because love is life.........
this hub is very good i like the pictures!!!!!
He, he, he, Guidebaba, actually I am so happy now, because the both of us changed.
Hm... my temper does not allow depression I have too active mind and meditate too often that depression can occur.
The point of this article is also- that all problems can be solved - with humour. My bf is amazing guy - he understood what was not OK from his side, and changed - with humour. "I became woman" - is a joke. His joke.
Do not worry, I also changed - my mistakes. Now we live in harmony. I became more "man" (as he said), he became more "woman". And we are happy !
All of this is funny, because OUR SOULS DO NOT HAVE GENDER! Actually I remembered in meditations my several past lives and in ALL OF THEM; I WAS MAN. So, very possible this is my first incarnation as a woman, so I do not know what are women supposed to do, because I do not have ANY EXPERIENCE! And have no time to gain it, because my job of healing the others - is the reason why I was born.
A lots of Love and Peace.
Ha, ha, ha, Tony, how can I ever become depressed when I have so many (male) friends and Hubber colleagues to cheer me up? I will check your new Hub immediatly.
Love & Light
Kako si Tatjana!
You are very smart, now you changed your story to reincarnation.......well it's your life. I have a reincarnation quote for you........Good night & sleep tight.
~ Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation... The other eight are unimportant. ~Henry Miller
Well, Tony, this is true: in all past lives I remember I was a man. No memory of washing dishes, just meditating (I was in monastery), healing, studying, taking care about goats in the mountains (in one my life I was shepard in Greece), I was soldier in one my life.....I really do not know how to serve any spoiled man, and do not see any reason to do it, only if we serve each other. My mind is still more man-like in this life plus I gained a lot since I am in female body, I am now able to use man-intelligence with female intuition, female intelligence and female ability to do multitasks duties.
A lots of love and light .....
P.S. My bf and me just tested this quote.It is true, ha, ha ha....
Thanks Mikayla for your nice comment.
Great Hub!! I am sure there are a lot of people that can relate to this story. I have recently returned to work, and it has been a bit of a struggle to sort out the housework, and still allow for both of us to have time for ourselves and each other. Thank you for this!!!
Thanks Anne Marie, for your support. I wish you all the best in your marriage.
P.S.Up till now, only two our colleagues complained about my Hub: what is all together good score. World is really changing...on better.
Kako si Tatjana!
AVevans published a very interesting hub please visit, here is the link.
http://hubpages.com/hub/What-Is-Did
Love is life...
@Tatjana-Mihaela : A person should always be what He or She is and be happy. If you are happy with yourself and your thinking, be that way and be HAPPY !
wow this is really great hub...i have enjoyed it lot and the haapy ending at the end was really great....thanx for sharing it...
your hub probably has the best use of pictures I've seen so far! please check out my lastest hub: http://hubpages.com/hub/Free-Wordpress-eBay-Plugin
Thanks Tony, I did that yesterday....and learned a lot. Have my own theory. Lots of love.
Thanks Britney for your kind and nice comment. A lots of love...
Thank you Guidebaba! Love and light!
Thank you JTP, I will do it.
I am so very sorry dear TM for posting my comment so late. Actually I was busy like hell (I am busy even now). Had to meet deadline. But you being one of my favorite Hubber so I made it a point to comment here no matter what. Will comment on your other latest Hub soon.
It was a good reading I must say. I was actually smiling while reading it. But hope you BF has not read it or else your trick will be exposed "Really, dear, I just DO NOT KNOW how to do the ironing (or cooking some meal) I did not learn that in the school" :).
And hey you said that a man looks more sexy when he helps in household work? O wow, that's great because being a bachelor and living alone I have to do all household work on my own and so hopefully it will help me in future!
And here is a piece of advice for you, I have seen in a number of Hub of your that you write almost all your Hub in bold font. Please don't do that; search engines treat bold words as important but if you make all your words bold then it will be taken as a big spam and it will hurt you like anything. It is just because that Hupages is a strong platform and so you are not feeling the pain. Had it been your own managed Hub then your Hub might even have had got banned (that is an extreme case). But continued excessive use of such bold font will certainly harm you sooner or later. So please edit all your Hubs right away. It is for your good only, please don't take me wrong. Wait for my forthcoming Hub where you will get whole lot of info on the same topic.
Take care dear!
He, he, he, he, PP. I am glad you giggled. Like I told you - I have learned all tricks from -men.
Bravo for you that you do all housework on your own. Your future girlfliend will be very happy!
I will listen your advice, I like bold letters but I did not know this is so serious.
Thank you very much, for comment and acvice!
Lots of nicest regards, enjoy yourself!
Kako si Tatjana! My Croatian hub is dead, no visitors. I believe your picture will bring some traffic. Do you have a nice full figure picture? I want to put on display on my hub........hahaha. What do you think? Good night
Love & peace.......
Ha, ha, ha, Tony, you know very well that there is no such things as free marketing even between the colleagues and good friends ha, ha, ha!
You can use my picture only if you promote my healing "brand", he,he.
A lots of love..
Hi Tatjana!
I love you because you have similar humor like me. After all both of us belong to same horror scope.
I will promote your healing brand & will also help you heal for free...........hahaha only if you send me a rare picture of your's........hahaha deal?
I will always love you bigger than the whole universe.....
Kako si Tatjana!
Where are you? I spiced up the Croatian hub, come visit.
He, he, he...Tony, what else to say?
I was out during the weekend....it is springtime, have you noticed? Time to go out and enjoy beauties of nature.
A lots of love...
Wow....I absolutely, totally, completely enjoyed that!!!! Can you tell I liked it????? So fresh; you have a way with words!!!! You really made me stop and contemplate the relationship I have with my honey!!!! :-)
Hi, MFG, I am glad you liked it...and I am especially glad that this Hub inspired you for contemplation about yr relationship.
Thanks for your visit!
It sound interesting topic. Maybe she's becomes your sister now...hahaha. lend him your beautiful dress.Is he more beautiful than yours?
He, he, he, Prasetio, it is more practical to do housework in trousers then in dress.
Thanks for your comment.
I also thought this hub about a sex change...but now reading it I found myself laughing. Well, I guess in the end relationships are about communicating and sharing...including who is doing what! Thumbs up Tatjana! :-)
Great hub, you had me going with the title. LOL!
He, he, he, thanks for visit, Michelle.
Thanks WW for your visit. Ha, ha - good title is the key of marketing.
That tittle really shocked me but the you have the happy ending there!
He, he, he Metaphysician, I can imagine! Thanks for the visit and comment.
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countrywomen says:
8 months ago
WOW!! That was such a relief in the end. I agree it takes two to tango. You are very wise and I am sure you have the ability to deal with any situation in life. Convey my best wishes to your "girl"friend...LOL
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