Why You’d Want to Meet a Cougar
58About meeting older women (cougars) to date
So, why would you want to meet a Cougar?
One of the reasons so many younger men seek out older women is because they just don’t connect with women their own age.
There’s also sexual component to it. Many adolescents fantasize about losing their virginity to older, experienced women. Even after men become experienced themselves, some of them continue to have a sexual fantasy involving an older woman.
Older women are experienced. They know what they want in the bedroom. This confidence leads to better sex. Younger women are more likely to be timid.
Aside from sex, there are also emotional reasons to date older women. Cougars don’t play the “head games” that women in their 20’s seem to think are necessary in a relationship. Older women also have more life experience which makes life with them more interesting. She also genuinely understands men and their needs.
A Cougar doesn’t need your money. Not only is she not concerned about the prestige of your job, she also doesn’t care whether you take the “long route” to getting one. For this reason, many men who are pursuing advanced degrees, working on developing a career that doesn’t have immediate potential, or pursuing a passion, find older women to be more understanding about money issues.
She also isn’t going to be concerned about your not being able to pick up the check every time. One of the best things about Cougars is that they have money of their own and they’re not afraid to spend it.
Finally, a Cougar will be more relaxed about commitment. She is not going to be rushing to the alter. More than likely, she’s already been married once, so the “big day” is less important to her.
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An experienced woman is a wonderful teacher. She knows what she wants and will show you how it's done.
But it wouldn't come natural between another virgin and myself?
A Cougar so the no commit thing between a man and a woman...I just wrote a new article on Golddiggers no disrepect at all toward you, as it certainly is an interesting hub. :)
So if you're a poor cougar with no money, then young men with hot bods, muscular arms, six packs and tight buns won't be interested?
young men can't say no to sex
mmmmm might have to go prospecting, but not with the locals here, they are not endowed at all
GT: You have got that right.....No is a bad word...lolo
Cindy but you can show them things, you can be a wonderful teacher.
AE- thats why I have to hurry and lose my virginity
But I can't say NO, ever!
I'm sure Cindy there's a nice tourist spot with willing trainees
Virgins aren't the best at sex, inexperience is there. This article is about men dating older women, keep on topic please.
Hey, I'm old and GT is a young virgin, we are on topic
what about the romance? do we just light a candle and go at it when I'm with a cougar?
Uh, I never did it with a cougar, are we talking about Pest?
Seriously RP, you need to read my first hub my man. i can tell anyone about older women, now I'm an older man. i hate it. toad, do you know what you are doing? it's a lopppng way to china, and I saw her first.
No 2C's, I don't know what I'm doin, Cindy said she'd be a teacher to virgins like myself, then I'll learn the ways
Just all hold on... I haven't read your profiles so I'm in the dark... who's dating whom?
We do the menage thing here on Hubpages!
Well I'm a virgin and Cindy is a cougar and 2C's he's an ol gigolo
Well, live and learn, so learn son, learn and have your self a ball. this will certainly get him fans and a higher rank to boot. Good job RP real smart hooked me in haha
All I know is I am all those things and I am young...I guess an old soul at heart. Not all cougars are this way....But there are some kittens who carry these more mature traits..Myself included...PRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Woo-hoo JJ, bring it on sis
But are cougars cute cats? Why do they call us old geriatric farts cougars? Excuse my ignorance here
I could share more here, but then I'd have nothing to write about later... it's a matter of age balance, not looks... sorry cindyvine... but you're a hottie anyways, right?
share....share....share....Sorry, Cougars nag instead of purr
I smell a hubjack in the making, is that waht you are cindy?
when I lose my virginity I hope the person cares about my feelings, it will be a special moment in my life
LOLOLOL....RP...you've been here a long time and you don't know these characters.. THEY LOVE TO HAVE FUN AND TEASE EACH OTHER!! So sit back and enjoy...you really should come around more often....your hub traffic should be looking good. I look at hubtivity and see what has attracted their attention, as i know they have an eye for good material, and I go to check it out..thats how I got here. If you get them chatting back and forth it drives up your comment count and makes your hub look more appealing to others.....as BP would say G'day
Excellent advice, thanks for sharing....
GT- when you lose your virginity? Yeah right! LOL
RB knws the score. toad, ther's probly one thing, no, two about you that are virgin territory. but then, how would I know? hmmm
I know JJ, I'm not good lookin and all but I still have hopes of losing it
That's not what I meant toad..LOL you are silly!!!
Excellent advice, thanks for sharing....
your hub has officially been hijacked!!! =)
you are excellent at giving advice R pseudomen, but should I listen to my heart or my body parts?
I knew a Cougar named Topic. I always stayed on her.
RP is almost speechless. haha he is repeating him self. hahaha
Oh that's good Cap'n
She must have been real good, do you have any pictures of her captain?
I say listen to your head!
Grrrowwl, I a am the cougar, and I do not like younger men. (Sorry, but I bet you would not want me either)!
Yeah, K@ri and I eat younger men for breakfast, so beware!
I agree that cougars don't mind picking up the check as long as they 'get some' later. There's an ad at the top of your hub that says, "MILF Cougar," do you know anything about those too?
goldentoad, listen to your body parts. ;)
Captain, I told you not to say my code name in public!
Golden Toad doesn't have body parts, they dropped off from not being used. Wasted away I'm afraid.
PAM!!!!! I'm shocked! :-))
Oh no , we can't have that but he said he was still a virgin....lololololo :D
That's because GT has nothing left to use, AE, it dropped off already, I'm telling ya
Nothing left to use my goodness I guess he lost it then , I hope he will find it and get it back...lolololol :)
Keep it up... yres, cougars should pay the bill... poor young men... LOL
Actually, I've decided I want a sugar daddy rather
Yes, much harder to catch unfortunately. Although you can always try... remember the key "20 years degree of separation"... LOL
oh God, 20 years woul make him wayyyyyy too old!
Oh Cindy has a good idea. Someone needs to do a sugar daddy hub.
Laughing Mom...LOL! :D I couldn't resist. ;)
LM!!! I'm shocked that you're shocked! what do you know about MILF's?
Hey CC, you can do a Sugar Daddy Hub!
Can I? Oh boy! sugar, sugar. is that a request? or demand?
Demand, my legs are sore so I'm in dominatrix mode
Oh no. the whipo again? my bum can't take no more, only if you kick me too.
Sorry, legs can't move today so no kicking
I have several comments to make....where to start? I hope I don't leave anything out I wanted to say....LOL
jjrubio....hun...if you're that sizzlin' now....just wait. Hun, it gets hotter. For me, 37 was that magical year of OMG....look out!
GT.....LMAO @ virginity......
BTW, hub owner (your name is too hard to type when I have a lot to say) you ain't been 'jacked' until you're hub's been 'jacked' by GT, CC, LM, Pam, jjrubio, AEvans, cindyvine, etc. These guys will do wonders for your hubscore. You should go ahead and kiss their feet now.
Regarding being a cougar....I agree that we know what we want, we know how to get it, we don't care if anyone likes how and when we get it, we don't mind picking up the tab, we don't care if you have money, just hang on for the ride if you're lucky enough.
Can't wait to read the Sugar Daddy hub!
Wow, you just hit 10,000 pageviews......see how good they are! LOL Congrats hub-owner with the long name I don't want to type or spell! LOL
thank you. I did soooo need to laugh today.
The Captain, mildly irritated at being overlooked by KCC, drew his sabre to it's full lenth. 'My dear," he said to the frightened KCC, "they don't call what you do 'being a cougar,' they call it kid-napping!" Arrrrgggghhhhh!
LOL @ The Captain....can you ever forgive me? *bats eyelashes*
*smile*
Besides, you're weren't supposed to tell them that part, Captain. *hides rope and gag*
GO KCC GO! Wow! You're good! But look out for that full-length sabre behind you that's being held by a rather dapper and snappy looking pirate guy. ;)
RP, how's that? I'd smile too. You did agreat job with this. more more! You even pulled in the prfessor for a good laugh. haha KCC, watch it now, don't get hurt
*squeals with delight* I just love it when a man whoops out his big saber! *wink*
That probably explains why there are now a lot of MILF and desperate housewives nowadays.
"Oh Captain, " she murmurs seductively, won't you lance me with your sabre?"
Where the hell have I been???
We all thought the same thing!
Here's the saying I heard about why it's good to have sex with cougars: They don't tell, they don't swell, and they're grateful as hell...
Cindy: tell more about the men where you live not being well endowed! Have you done extensive field research on this? I want proof!!! LOL
We heard some animal noises coming from the direction of the Forums and just assumed you were pleasuring a cougar, Pest!
Pest, you furry little ball you!
Cindy i told you to never tell of my newd pics! :(
MM, thankfully no, have not had first hand experience. I am not that desperate. But, have this friend here who shall we say, he enjoys the pleasures of the men here. he says that size wise they are very disappointing, are uncircumsized and he makes them shower the minute they set foot in his apartment. Then I have another friend, she tried a couple and said that western size condoms don't fit. But you know, if you judge their appendage by the size of their feet or size of their hands...you need a free magnifying glass with the pack of condoms. But I am generalising here. Am sure that there are some like Yao Min with big ones
The cougar is a wiley beast, Ive been attemting for one for a while with no success, which is a surprise beacuse I have quite a lure Is there a significant difference between a sugar mama and a cougar?
Yeah, a sugar mama gives you pocket money in exchange for you cutting her toe nails and pouring her whisky. A cougar is an older wild woman that will give you pleasures most men only dream about.
I hadn't given it much thought, but I tend to agree with Cindy. I think the sugar mama is more about throwing money around to get what she wants, where even though the cougar will, she's more about seduction. Maybe a tad classier. I doubt that either would get offended if you used the names interchangeably though.
Aw man! How come nobody told me there was a hubjacking in progress!? I always miss these things! Hey R Pseudomen, I'm 43 years old. Does that mean my cougar is at the retirement home? Would that be a GILF?
Hey I'm 47, I can be your Cougar Evilpants!
I'm not sure you're old enough. 4 years does not a cougar make. Beside, my world domination tour doesn't make it to China until 2010!
Yes, B.T. Evilpants, it's GILF, might just be wheeling herself around this very secnd, looking out the window in search of you... and here you sit, at your computer, shame, shame....
Funny stuff... I didn't even know that a cougar was anything other than an animal that I wanted to avoid when hiking outside of Boulder with my sister.
Hey - I'm 51 and was asked out by a 44 year old man the other day. I was gobsmacked, flattered (he's v.v. fine) and totally thrown into a state of giddyness in which I was unable to respond properly. He gave me his phone number ... and I need to summon up some courage to call.
CC-are you really now?
KCC--Pam's right. You're asking for trouble with the full length sabre. I'm surprised Chi Chi hasn't been here since it's brandishing.
Go with the flow... enjoy life... date younger men... Go COUGARS Go!
And good luck Iphigenia!!!!!!!
Ha Ha, may!!!
Love and sex is special, no one should fornicate without emotional involvement
...or $50 bucks on the nightstand.
$10.00 is emotional!!!
Well, yeah Pest, but I was thinking they should at least be alive.
and unrelated
are we still on this hub?? LOL PRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
For 10 bucks, you're lucky if they're the same species. I think 20 is really the minimum.
Hmm, I always thought I really wouldn't want a virgin. I mean really I'm not sure I want someone who has training wheels attached to their scrotum, but I'm rethinking this earlier notion.
you guys are rich! how's a broke virgin supposed to come up with 20 bucks?
OK how much younger does a guy have to be before I'm a cougar? And if he has money is he a sugar baby?
hey Randy, thats a good question? How old do you have to be to be considered a cougar?
Yeah..no virgins for me..no sabe nada...I like a man who takes over in the bedroom. Experience is a must!!! They need to take their lady in there arms and ravage her. Show her that he's a man... LOL
What I miss? had to make beer run. Gwendy!! rally on their scrotum? hwere'd you see that? oh gawd!
Hell Yeah! Cougrs know wassup and how to do it good!
Man this dudes score went to 85 now
thats good! How are you my dear CC?
Although opinions vary, the general consensus is that a woman needs to be 35 or older and dating at least 8 years younger than she.
I;m just saying CC. I like the idea of a man knowing what to do with his stuff. I don't need high school flashbacks.
CC is horny now!
Isn't that the typical mood for you CC?
I'm goin ta play with pussy may in caht room
Where should one shop for these thirty somethings?
cruise hunny
Just like that. dead flacid, where is all
Must be me CC. I post and everyone runs away!
We're in Mays chat
Everyone should believe in romance before sex, get to know a person, and see what they are about and if they are spiritual
Oh ok, well have fun then.
You think os toad. Pest needs help on his hub internet woes too
Haha - so this is where all of you have been hiding out - cougaring, of all things!!! :D
Hi Sahlini!
Don't say no to anything until you walk into it... or something...
Using Christoph's algorithm, here are the age differentials I have calculated.
If she is 35 he is 28
If she is 40 he is 33
If she is 45 he is 38
If she is 50 he is 43
If she is 55 he is 48
If she is 60 he is really, really desperate
Where is everybody at???!
We are having a hub chat as of now!!!
AEvans, GT, C.C Riter, Jibrio are all there?!!!
Hi Mighty Mom,
I like the ratios, but I think that it's more like:
If she is 35 he is 22 If she is 40 he is 28 If she is 45 he is 26 If she is 50 he is 29 If she is 55 he is 33 If she is 60 he is really working for an inheritance!!
OMG....Did nobody see THAT???? BT said he is beginning a world domination tour in 2010 starting in CHINA!! I knew it!!! Give me those phoney antlers you Giant Grey Rabbit North Vietnamese agent!!!
*launches a flying tackle across the room at BT Evilpants*
I feel old today, but I guess I'm not old enough to be a cougar. Can I still date younger men? I don't mind if they are 8 years younger than me! LOL!!
Just a note, I am very, very close to 30, so he would only be 22!
22 they have the stamina
Twenty is good too...and you can use all the pick up lines that were ever used on you. Works like a charm ;) My favorite one is to give them a small kiss and then say, "I just wanted to see what you tasted like..."
Uh....wait no, that was somebody else that did that...and I heard about it...
Busted, Spryte!! Strange, I was watching tv, and they were talking about pick-up lines, and some study done. It said that men prefer very blunt, straightforward pick-up lines rather than more subtle ones. I could have told them that without all the expenses, time, research and all that. Men do not understand subtle hints!! I nearly have to smack my boyfriend upside the head with a hint in order to get him to follow.
Someone offer cross-species cougaring here? I'm a 3 year old virgin and rarin to go.
And I already know what Spryte tastes like. Yum. Buuuurp.
lol, yeah, men can be so thick!
I'm not sure about other cougars...but I'm not really interested in virgins. Who has time for all that training?
Refinement...yes. But having to deal with an over-eager puppy type that has no control whatsoever? Nope.
I agree, who has the time to make all those diagrams, illustrated handouts, step-by-step instructions. Then, they usually fail the first few tests, anyway. All that hard work...
Indeed..... skip the training, go straight to the "practicum".
Exactly Anna...it would be like trying to give a college education to a kindergartner or....or....promoting a McDonald's hamburger flipper to sous chef at a fancy restaurant. Simply not done.
He should have some prior experience so he can genuinely appreciate what a cougar offers.
Prior experience, that's what the cougar is supposed to share to her boy-toy.
goldentoad says:
7 months ago
I'm ready to lose my virginity would you recommend a cougar or another virgin?