Have just gone through a nasty break-up. Are you trying to find ways to get back your ex love - boyfriend or girlfriend? Then don't give up, most relationships can be saved and you can even get back with an ex. You just need to know what to o to get what you want. If you want the relationship bad enough, read on for some great tricks and tips on what you can do right now.

1. Say nice things about him or her to his friends, colleagues, family etc.

This idea is very powerful and can work wonders. Just think about it for a moment. Imagine if someone was saying nice things about you? We all love compliments - especially those made to other people about us. It's the best way to show you still think highly of them and you still care. No ex lover would feel angry if they heard that you said something really nice about them. Many people would be really touched and flattered.

2. Stay in touch with your ex family and friends

Your ex family is the best way to recruit an army of family members campaigning for you every day without even asking. You don't have to ask anyone to do it for you. Just keep in touch and remember the important dates such as brother/sisters birthday, anniversaries etc. The family will love you for that and they will constantly be asking your ex to reconsider and to call you for a date. The family usually has the most influence on a person's life when they make important choices. By friends I'm referring to those people whose advice your ex usually treats as important. Of course, if the family was the reason for the break-up then this may not be applicable to you.

3. Don't make your ex think you desperately need them

If you behave as though you are nothing without your ex, you effectively giving your ex all the power and control. Desperation is not an attractive thing in broken relationships. Put yourself together and enjoy your life. Move on like you have no care in the world but don't do it to make him or her jealous, do it for yourself. Think about the little things that made you attractive to him in the first place and focus on that. In time, you'll see them trying to get back in touch. This trick has worked for a lot of people.

There's a lot more you can do to get you ex back and deal with a break-up. Some ticks are more powerful than others. Find out which ones can work best for you from the link below.

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