One of life's constants: There's always a first for everything.

In this case however, first dates are very crucial when it comes to relationships. Whether it be a blind date, or asking a girl out you just met at the bar, party or wherever. If you noticed I included courtship in this article. This is because, most of the ladies still believe in the process of courtship. Corny and old fashioned yes, but it's still very rewarding. In this fast paced world we live in, the process of falling in love and entering or destroying a relationship is also affected. I'm not saying that this is a bad thing but people who go into a relationship this quickly are missing out on a good thing. Sometimes, slow and steady wins the race.

Anyway, back to the topic. So you finally got to ask the girl out. Are you nervous? Worried? Don't be. It's all normal. We all worry that we might slip up or end up embarrassing ourselves, but hey, the more you think about it, the more likely you're dates are bound to screw up. getting to know her is very crucial at this point in time, because this is the only chance you'll get to open up to her and for her to open up to you. In this case, first impressions definitely last. You want to ask her out for an nth time? Then you've definitely got to make sure that she enjoys her first date with you. That way, she'll stay interested in you. Are you unsure of what to do during your first date?

Here is some advice that might be able to help you.

[Take note: im saying this out of pure opinion.]

1.) Be yourself - don't ever try to pretend. She has to be able to know the real you. So what if you're a little awkward or shy when it comes to girls? Take note girls dig shy guys. They find it cute.

2.) Eye contact - maintain eye contact when she's talking or when talking to her. This means that you're really interested in her and not in her boobs, legs or lips. Eye contact when talking to her also means sincerity. Meaning that during that time, you're an open book. If she asks anything about your past, you can choose to answer or not, but know that if you do decline, say it nicely "I'm really not comfortable talking about that right now. Maybe some other time?" harsh you think? It's sincerity and girls will definitely appreciate this. The second line means that you will tell her soon, thus opening a slight entrance to the possibility of a second date.

3.) Compliments - girls love compliments. Tell her that she looks lovely in her dress or outfit. Saying a compliment in a middle of a conversation is definitely a plus. Like if she's laughing at your jokes, you could say "I just love the way you laugh" or "you got a very cute laugh". Just don't overdo it because they will think you're crazy.

4.) Thank her - for a lot of reasons like spending a few hours with you. For the company. This is definitely a major door opener for second dates. You may or may not give her a phone call after but hey, it's worth a try. Just don't go over the line. Or let a good date turn to waste after a few minutes of phone call.

That's about it. Do it right, and you're off to a wonderful adventure. Do it wrong.. Well, there are a lot of fishes in the sea. and also quick reminders: be confident, not cocky. Be a good listener and speaker. She has to know you're somebody worth having a conversation with...