Foreplay - women crave it men aren’t sure if it’s really necessary (yes it is) there’s a time a place for quickie’s ;) but if you really want to spice it up in the bedroom foreplay and sex games

• will give you increased intimacy

• Help you achieve more satisfaction and less frustration before, during and after your love making
  
  
• Plus playing sex games will help you focus on pleasing each other instead of just yourself (whole other article) which in turn will make the end result more satisfying and stimulating for you

The first part of foreplay is trust, many folks will say that relaxation is the first ingredient but think about this if your partner doesn’t trust they will never relax.

It’s natural to have a little nervousness and anticipation about something you’ve never tried before (remember riding a bike for the first time). Have a rule that at anytime something doesn’t feel right to either one of you, you will stop and go back to something you do enjoy so you don’t kill the whole mood. Maybe you can introduce that move another time, don’t get mad say stuff you’ll regret unless you want to sleep on the couch.

Keeping things fresh in the bedroom can be a challenge you need ideas, tips, clues! I know you don’t have time to search the Internet until you are blue the face looking for information me either. - I admit I have a secret weapon it’s called "100 Great Sex Games for Couples"

This treasure book is especially wonderful for those you that have date nights either because you are married with children, (nothing is sexy about wondering if your children are going to walk in on you). Or you have conflicting schedules and don’t get to spend lots of time together.

Honestly it’s an excellent resource for anyone who wants to create more excitement and intimacy in the bedroom or kick up their good sex life a notch to great sex. It’s downloadable which means you can be reading it in a couple minutes.

I’ll show you a simple way to introduce it to your partner (it's so innocent they won’t know you bought the book for youself) PS I’ll never tell!

Simple everyday occurrences can be turned into foreplay, for many women sex starts in the mind getting them thinking about lovemaking and building up from there. Since we know you have a computer you can print simple coupons in a word processor with hot little sayings like…

This coupon entitles you to a 10 minutes massage or 5 minutes of oral favors, by putting a time limit on it, you can move on to something else, or make them beg for more. Hey, for some folks 5 minutes of foreplay is enough!!

Note to self, if your partner is not into oral flavors don’t make that into a coupon, start with something you know they'll enjoy first. By the way knowing your partner better than I do feel free to customize that note with either a little more romance or kinkiness depending on your situation!

Then just place it in a spot they will see it for example if you leave the house before your partner stick it on the bathroom mirror, if you partner takes a lunch box or briefcase stick it in there.

Call or text your partner during the day and tell them you love and miss them, you could also mention that you have a surprise for them later, then do something surprising like the dishes or cooking a meal if your partner normally handles that task.

Now that you have them thinking wow, that was really sweet slowly start initiating some moves don’t just drop your drawers although if you are a women you could probably get away with it.

Dim the lights, fire up some candles, play some music in the background. If you used the coupon method above and they seem ready have them give you the coupon, if not have a conversation that is all about them, just listen with your mouth closed. After a bit bring up the "100 Great Sex Games for Couples" book and here’s how you do it.

Tell your partner that you love them and you would love to learn how to please them more, mention the book you found today or print out the Table of Contents ask them if any of the games looks like something they would feel comfortable trying. The key here is no pressure, if you are really sincere about pleasing them and not yourself they will be willing to give it a try.

And here’s where the intimacy and trust play their part. You may have a tiger on your hands and never would have known it because they were too embarrassed to tell you they did or didn’t like something you were doing.

Let's face it sex is a touchy subject and no one wants to feel they do it badly or wrong, and when I say badly don't you take it the wrong way either. What may have pleased your former partner may not work for your mate now. So what's it going to be... pleasing yourself or learning to please your partner in a fun and non threatening way that will ultimately lead to more pleasure for you. <--pick this one.

With the right atmosphere foreplay can lead to a greater sex life, a deeper commitment to pleasing each other, and all around happiness.

For foreplay tips and games that will keep a fire burning in your pants click there --> "100 Great Sex Games for Couples"