If you are a push over then it is very possible no one respects you. They tend to take you for granted and sometime abuse you either physically or mentally. I know it sucks to be treated that way and you find it difficult to fight back. But its time now to get on with your life as a person who deserves love & respect. Its time to learn how to get the confidence to stick up for yourself and how to get back at those that do you wrong. This doesn't always require a physical altercation. Often time a few words can make them all get in line. Once you have started to stick up for yourself you will find that it is easier to make money because you new found confidence will help you in other areas of you life. You may even get the confidence to start a new online business or something that will earn you money and status that will make people take you more serious. So now its time to get up get going and get some help.

Below are ways to get you respect from those that bully and take advantage of you.

-tell bullies that you will no longer stand for their assaults on you
-dont be affraid to get the cops involved if you believe you will be harmed or have been harmed
-tell family members that you will not loan money any longer
-be firm in your decisions
-tell your girlfriend to respect your decision more
-notify human resources if you have a co-worker that constantly harrasses you
-notify human resources if you have a supervisor that abuses their authority
-tell your parents you are not a child any longer
-dont be afraid to go after that hot girl you saw at the bar
-if you are turned down for a date then keep your head high
-if there is something you want make a plan to acquire it
-never give up unless its your very last option
-dont worry about how other perceive you
-love yourself and others will love you too
-seek advice from therapist to deal with what troubles you
-take self defense class to learn to protect yourself
-work out at the gym and bulk up a little so others will think twice about messing with you

There are more ways to get respect for yourself but ultimately its up to you what the outcome will be.  You have to continually stick to your decision to not let people run over you or they will continue to do it.  Once you say no for the first time then others will start to see you differently.  A lot if time people will pick on you just because the can.  So if you decide that they cant then they wont.