Here I'm going to present you with a quick quiz.

Please answer each questions honestly how it relates to your current or even your past relationship. All depends on which relationship you want to gauge.

The answers listed will show a "points weighting" after each one. Don't cheat, and choose the answer that best describes your relationship.

Good luck and may the force be with you.

1) Do you consider your partner to be your best friend?
    a) Yes, absolutely! (4)
    b) My partner is one of my best friends. (3)
    c) My partner is good, but doesn’t understand me like my friends. (2)
    d) Not really. (1)

2) When you get good (or bad) news, who do you call?
    a) My partner, then my best friends. (4)
    b) My best friends, then my partner. (3)
    c) I go down my speed dial list in order. (2)
    d) Whoever picks up, I hate voicemail. (1)

3) How well do you know your partner?
    a) Inside and out, we’re best friends. (4)
    b) Really well, though sometimes s/he surprises me. (3)
    c) I think their friends might know them better. (2)
    d) Come to think of it, not well at all. There’s a lot I don’t know. (1)

4) Do you get anxious if you don’t hear from your partner frequently?
    a) I'm in constant contact and get very upset if I don’t get replies. (1)
    b) I’ve been a little concerned before. (2)
    c) It’s in the back of my mind, but I figure they’re probably busy. (3)
    d) I know my partner loves me. We’ll talk when we talk. (4)

5) How often do you fight with your partner?
    a) Daily. It seems there’s always something going wrong. (1)
    b) Once or twice a week. (2)
    c) Maybe once a month. (3)
    d) Fight? We don’t fight. We argue sometimes, but we always come to an agreement or compromise. (4)

6) Who wins arguments more often?
    a) Me. I’m always right. (1)
    b) My partner. It’s easier to give in. (1)
    c) We never finish arguments because one of us storms off. (2)
    d) We usually come to a compromise. (4)

7) How is your sex life?
    a) Amazing! We really know how to make each other satisfied. (4)
    b) Pretty good. We’re learning how to please each other. (3)
    c) Okay. It could be better. (2)
    d) I have a sex life? (1)

8) How do you manage money in your relationship?
    a) We’ve discussed finances and have an agreement that works for us. (4)
    b) Since my partner makes more money, I let them pay for things. (2)
    c) Since I make more money, I pay for things. (2)
    d) We don’t manage money so much as fight about it. (1)

9) How often are you critical of your partner?
    a) All the time. My partner does stupid stuff, even in public. (1)
    b) Sometimes. I save it for at home when we’re alone. (2)
    c) Rarely. I know my partner appreciates my honesty. (3)
    d) Never critical. I give constructive feedback when my partner asks for help. (4)

10) How often is your partner critical of you?
    a) All the time, even when we’re out with friends. (1)
    b) Sometimes, but usually at home when we’re alone. (2)
    c) Rarely. I appreciate my partner’s honesty. (3)
    d) My partner gives constructive feedback when I ask but is never critical. (4)

11) Describe your social circle.
    a) We have a wide circle of common friends and also friends that we hang out with separately for girls / guy’s night out. (4)
    b) We usually socialize together but occasionally apart. (3)
    c) We only socialize together. (2)
    d) We don’t really have friends. (1)

12) How sure are you that your partner is faithful?
    a) 100%, no doubt. (4)
    b) 80%, you can never be sure. (3)
    c) 50%, I’m doubtful. (2)
    d) 0%, once a cheater, always a cheater. (1)

13) Has your partner ever hit you or been physically violent?
    a) Often. (1)
    b) Occasionally. (2)
    c) Only once and they regretted it ever since. (3)
    d) Never. (4)

14) Do you feel safe in your relationship?
    a) Absolutely! (4)
    b) Yes. (3)
    c) Usually. (2)
    d) No. (1)

15) Do you have someone who you can talk to about your relationship?
    a) Yes, many close friends and trusted confidants. (4)
    b) Yes, a few people. (3)
    c) Maybe one person. (2)
    d) Not really. (1)

How did you go?

Now it's time to tally your score and face the truth. :-)

50-60: You have a healthy relationship that has all the vitamins and minerals it needs to grow up big and strong like a Flintstones kid!

There may be a few areas where things aren’t ideal, but for the most part you love and respect each other and have all the good qualities that make a relationship last.

40-49: Your relationship is doing pretty well despite a few sinful indulgences. You have a lot of great qualities that are signs of a healthy relationship.

Keep working at the areas where you feel you are lacking and you will do well! Remember, the occasional sinful indulgence is fine, but if it becomes a habit, you’ll start wearing it on your thighs like too much carrot cake.

30-39: Your relationship is okay, but it’s not great. Sure, you can get all your nutrition from a microwave meal, but it’s really not what you want to eat for the rest of your life now, is it?

There are many areas that are red flags for disaster and if you don’t take care of them now, they’re just going to get worse.

Under 30: Your relationship is about as healthy as a vat of French fries covered in mayonnaise.

Seriously, you have some major work to do to get it to be even remotely healthy. Is it you? Is it your partner? It’s time to do some major detective work to get to the bottom of things and decide if your relationship is worth saving.