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By Miss Match


8 WAYS HOW NOT TO DUMP SOMEBODY

When it comes to breakups there is no easy way to let someone go, especially if the breakup is not mutual.

It's just one of those things that every one of us goes through at some point in our lives. People change and circumstances change but the world still keeps turning. Remember it is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all.

As difficult as breakups are the best way to do it is FACE TO FACE, that is what got you together in the first place. Even if you can't find the right words to say give the person the dignity they deserve and the dignity that you deserve. Whether they deserve it or not just be the bigger person.

However you choose to breakup, make sure it's not any of these 8 tactics;



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#1 TEXT CONTROL

Text messages are great to confirm meeting your friends at the bar,but it's not a breakup tool.You may get away with it if you're 12, but you're an adult so behave like one.As tempting as a nasty message may seem at the time, it may not have the same impact when you're less emotional.In the end you could end up looking the fool.

# 2 DON'T BE AN ANTI-SOCIAL TWIT

Social networking is a great tool,but it is best as just as it is- social networking, not anti social networking.Twittering about your ex doesn't give you the justice you deserve, it just makes you appear desperate.The world deserves to know your talents not your weakness.

#3 DO IT YOURSELF

Don't get your best friend to do your dirty work.When you were having fun, your best friend wasn't anywhere to be seen, so don't expect them to clean up after you.

#4 WITHOUT A TRACE

Don't pull a disappearing act by changing mobile numbers or moving house.Be the bigger person and tell it like it is before you choose to pull a disappearing act.

#5 JUNK MAIL

Emails like text messages are great for quick communication but not break ups.They're cold and emotionless no matter how many smileys you may add.

#6 DON'T POST IT

As personal as a handwritten letter may seem,its just as cold and empty as an email.

#7 COLD CALL

Don't call at an unreasonable time when you know that the only one awake is the answering machine.Breaking up in a telephone call isn't acceptable break up either.

#8 DON'T GET CREATIVE

'I get so emotional when your not around.. I think the emotion is called happiness'.

Expressing your creativity is something I'd encourage on every other occasion besides a breakup.No creativity needed here, don't go writing any poems about it.Just be clear and concise but do give the person the dignity they deserve.

DO SAY IT RIGHT

Poor communication accounts for almost 98% of failed relationships including marriages.Saying it right may just avoid the break up in the first place.Don't let a simple miscommunication or misunderstanding ruin your happiness.

From The Man That Has Secretly Helped 6,100 People In 67 Countries...

Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection...Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!



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Drew Breezzy profile image

Drew Breezzy  says:
6 months ago

all good points!

Miss Match profile image

Miss Match  says:
6 months ago

Thanks for stopping by Drew Breezzy.

christianesk profile image

christianesk  says:
6 months ago

Bring it on!

magnolia flynn  says:
6 months ago

oh, but come on miss match, u gotta admit, screaming at ur asswipe soon-to-be-ex-boyfriend over the phone is great for relieving stress!

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Miss Match  says:
6 months ago

Screaming matched never solve anything Ms Magnolia Flynn, relationhsips are an emotional experience, and when things donn't go the way we want them to go, then we become raging bulls,we say things that we don't mean, things we would'nt say under normal circumstances.What we really need to do, is keep calm, we're not monkeys, we are human beings -we need to rediscover the art of commuincating...i.e to talk not scream.

Ultimate Hubber profile image

Ultimate Hubber  says:
6 months ago

Now I am looking forward to an artile named "8 ways to dump somebody". Would you write that for me and for many other hubbers? One can't just keep on compromising and drag the relationship.

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Miss Match  says:
6 months ago

Thanks for stopping by Ultimate Hubber. I'm afraid the 8 ways how to dump someone ' isnt going to come from me, since I believe that there is only one way to do this...i.e face to face. I could however come up with 8 things to say to someone when it's over:)

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Ultimate Hubber  says:
6 months ago

Yup, in fact it has to be face to face.

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