How to flirt with women

Every guy wants to know how to flirt with a woman. If you want to get her phone number and have a date with her you need to know the real secrets of flirting. Here's how it works...

You see a beautiful woman that you want to meet and date right? The first question you want to ask me is "so...what do I say to her?

Okay...How do you make sure you say the right things? What are the best lines you can use? The golden rule of flirting is NOT to use mainstream pick up lines. Yeah, you heard me right the first time. Don't ever let me catch you using some cheap line you picked up from a forwarded email, a magazine or a website.They don't work.

Everyone knows what they sound like and they are very, very lame! You know, chat up lines like "hey, can I have your number, I seem to have lost mine" or "wow I didn't know angels were flying so low these days".You see, women don't like those lines because they make you look cheap. If you use a fabricated pick up line from a magazine for instance, then you will not make her feel that magical gut level emotion called attraction.

Attraction can be TRIGGERED in any womanif you know how...and let me tell you it is not by using lame chat up lines.It is possible to make a woman feelattracted to you if you know the structure behind it, and every single pick up line out there doesn't do that. That's why women think they are boring and cheap.If you want to be able to flirt with women,then you will have to create YOUR OWN pickup lines. But it's not the line itself that makes a woman attracted to you, it's the structurebehind it.

So here's the deal.

If you said to a woman "Was your daddy a thief? Because I think he stole diamonds and put them in your eyes" ... it just sounds very needy, desperate and wimpy. A woman will NEVER flirt back or get attracted to you that way.

But if you understand the secrets of attracting women, all sorts of new doors open up for you. Here's what you shouldhave said:

"So ... why do women like shiny and sparkly things so much? Oh I know, because they put them in pink cereal boxes when you were little"

Or "How many hours you go shopping a week? I think you're a little shopping addict that loved to borrow credit cards. You are sooo bad you know that? I think we're gonna get along just great"

If you want to flirt with women and get them attracted to you, be CHEEKY!

There is NOTHING more powerful than being a cocky but cheeky when you want to attract women. They will tell you that you are mean, bad, have a big ego and hit you on the arm.But guess what? They LOVE it! So keep dong what works!

Everyone must have had an experience like this:

There is a girl that you really like.But she isn't interested in you or there's

something stopping you from seeing her.There also happens to be another girl who isn't very attractive but has a good job,earns good money and is a nice person. You are having a chat with a buddy about it and they say:

"Listen, you'll meet the girl of your dreams someday, there's loads of women who like you. What about x, she's smart, wealthy a nice girl"

Perhaps you have said this to a friend.Or maybe you have said this to a girlfriend.In the many times you have seen this conversation,in its many forms, did your buddy or girlfriend every jump to their feet and say:

"Wow, that's right they meet all the correct criteria for my ideal man/girl.

I think I will ask them out next time I see them!"

Of course that doesn't happen.You cant really list the things you like about someone, you just like them.Some women say they want to meet their

ideal man who will have such and such color hair, be x tall, have such and such a job but then they fall head over heels for someone who isn't anything they say they're attracted to.

Attracting women goes much deeper than looks and your career.In the 19th century and maybe in the highest society, girls would have want to have married a man who was a judge or a doctor,but any girl that would choose a man by his career rather than sex appeal is lying, Tester.

This is why proving your exciting,unpredictable, funny and cheeky is so important.Women find that VERY attractive.They may not realize just what it is that attracts them to you, but that is why the attraction is so strong.

So don't focus on things like your bank balance, sports car or job to get a woman,work on being a real man...a ladies-man!