What I am going to say about getting a guy to marry you may sound a little bit uncontroversial, or you probably will say I have a cold heart and don't really care about what the guy's will say about what I am going to reveal here.

But let me assure you, I have my reasons. First of all, I am a male. I've seen a lot of girls, and it seems that most of them are trying too hard. My love, right now is not someone who's trying to get me. She is different. What different of her is not she has some perversions or something but she got certain gift to charm people. Maybe because she is friendly (some people said she loves popularity), and still retains her individuality (another way of saying: she doesn't really follow people, except when she got nothing to do at all).

Second reason why this will work is that it is proven times and times again you don't need to be wanting to get a guy, but you need to have confidence to follow through what I am going to say to you here.

If you're okay with two reasons I have above, let's roll with my first tip - act as if you don't need him.

Warning: you should not overdo this part or run risk of him being disappointed and him leaving you.

The problem is not really on being disappointed, but the problem is on being extremely disappointed he leaves you and won't turn back.

This technique plays a part of a guy's emotion on wanting to be superior in front of a gal. You see, every man wants his gal to subdue to him. But what if he can't get it? He'll try his best to get you. And when he's trying hard (and you act as if you don't need him), he starts to be a little nervous. He wants you to want him... but you're not giving up.

What I am trying to say here is sell yourself expensively. I know, you need him, but don't sell yourself short. Make him really, really, reeealllly want you.

And after you did that for a while, you can do the...

After he passed the previous "test" and showed how much he needs you, it's time for you to shower him with love. Don't pet him. Just date him once in a while. Let him do whatever he wants with you (if all he wants is sex, you got a problem there. You don't need a how to get a guy to marry you. You need a guide on how to know if he is being honest with you).

Accept by accepting his invitation to dinner. Do it smoothly from the first step. You don't want him to neglect you. Make him think about you.

Don't be a cheap. But don't force him too much. Don't be a gold digger (no men love that - I repeat, no men love that!)

Give a signal that you want him to propose. Say to him, you wish you get (pointing to a ring). Make it clear, you want him. Do this ONLY you confirmed, and he said to you, "I love you."

Or else, DON'T!

You probably will make him caught off guard and he will think: "Emm... actually, I only go out with you because I want to go out with you. I don't think... you know... that far."

You don't want that to happen. You must not make that happen. Your chance will lessen, and your and his confidence will drop a lot. Do this if you are sure.

You can see more advice on getting a man of your desire at Woman Men Desire.

Last but not least, even if he somehow, don't want you, it's not the end of the world. There are other guys out there who want you. But you have not discovered them yet. Maybe they are waiting for you to be available but whatever happened, don't kill yourself. Seriously! So many gals in my country tried to kill themselves because some jerk left them. Don't do that.

Learn what men desire, and you will have the power in your hand. Get Woman Men Desire (written by Bob Grant, L.P.C "The Relationship Doctor") and you'll learn what make men tick and want you.