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By takeyou

He Got her back


Actually about 90% of the break ups end up bringing the lovers closer to each other after the gap of loneliness and the heart break. Loneliness is the hardest feeling I could ever imagine, it combine Pain, Confusion, Sorrow, Disappointment. It’s a hard time I know 

I know that there is a problem with somebody as well. Either with you or your mate. Other way why did the break up happen?

You may have missed something that caused this drama and you will miss a lot of things again and have big social disaster if you don't work it out the right way.

But believe me there are magic tricks that nobody resist and those can bring your love and comfort again.

It starts with learning about the real problem. 

Understand why you broke up in the first place: I bet it is 99% definitely not what you think.Your ex may say you’re not the right type for her, or something like that what you can understand from this is that you have a timeless problem that you have to work on. Figure it out by looking deeper and deeper. It maybe you don't get her or she doesn’t see you do value your self as a confident intelligent beautiful person. It may not because you didn't call her last week. 

  • And here are some common situations:
  • The relationship has lost its spice
  • Your ex just didn't call for a long period and then She broke up with you 
  • You cheated on her
  • You haven't done anything wrong but she broke up with you though
  • She says you’re not the right one for her

Understand some psychology: psychology changes everything, you have to understand your ex and how he feels if you do certain things so you choose to avoid them or to keep on doing them. and by time you will think in reverse, you will think about what a certain thing make your mate think and feel and start thinking big about a series of event you will produce to have what you want from him. This is how manipulative people do. Psychology will give you total control.

Add some style to your life: Get renewed: get some new clothes, change you hair cut: your ex will feel you've changed or at least trying, so he will be giving you another chance.


Generally there are two approaches:

1- you can be nice and confess your love beg for the return and express deep interest and love for your ex and he may forgive you since he still loves you and want to be with you. So he changes his mind and gives you a second chance

But this can create serious problem. Your ex can think that you don't understand where the real problem is. he may also just like the fact that you are the one who is asking and keep delaying it to feel in control and And also he may see you as a needy person and your love will have no value for him so he may loose interest in you

Some like you desperately tried apologizing but nothing seem to work. All you will be is a simple friend and that's not what you want to be.


2- And you can get him to beg you back by pushing his psychological button

Go out with your friends, don't call him. Show him you have a life without him. And have that «I don't need you but it will be nice if I had you..." this will get him to value you as an independent person and make him jealous.

But some may say; you didn't even care about me when we broke up, I knew you don't love me. Or get him to very disperate point so he start thinking about moving on.

This way you will loose him forever. And maybe you'll stay lonely a long time.


So both approaches have their limits. But what about mixing them together

I’m talking about sending mixed messages that will drive your ex crazy about you. He will know you love him but not be sure about it so will want top have you and do something about it. And with some jealousy some proven to work psychological tricks, you will have to deal with him begging you and calling you everyday the morning to tell you how much he loves you.


Here are some general relation ships tricks that work every where

  • Don’t over stick to your partner to the point he get fed up of you.
  • Smile one time and don't an other.
  • Send mixed signals: like if he said call me so you say: you want me so you call me. And then call him.
  • Don’t be negative and complain about everything .
  • use the " curiosity Factor " to get her to respond : you can use this in your SMS don't say: "call me i need to talk to you". And say: "I have something to tell you".
  • Learn more about him what he likes, how he feel, what kind of person he is.

Getting your ex back is and keeping him with you is not easy to the point where you listen to everybody's blurb about it you need something strong to relate on. A mix of psychology , relationship tricks, human nature, style fashion, what you already know about your ex.... and only experts can guide you through this

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The writer has a master degree in psychology, and has a long personal experience with this issue.

This book will teach you

  • All the possible problems that are the cause of your unwanted breakups and how to avoid each one.
  • How to be the Guy that every girl dream about.
  • How to define whether to use the “attraction and jealousy” technique.  Or the “honest confession” one. 
  • How to perfect the approach you choose.
  • Learn how to send mixed messages to make your ex go crazy about you.
  • How to get your ex to beg you for coming back
  • Show  you when exactly to say "I love you".
  • How to spice up the relationship again and keep it that way .
  • How to be in control of the relationship and make you mate do what ever you want.

This is your chance to get your loved one back and keep him yours forever

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Frank  says:
4 months ago

Great Hub, Great Guide.

i'm starting to get this whole thing

thanks

jojo  says:
4 months ago

i think i'll go for the jealousy aproach

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tnvrstar  says:
4 months ago

nice hub...;)

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c.cohen12  says:
4 months ago

This is a really good hub....finally some advice that has both a negative and a positive outlook, something i can deal with. I like both of the approaches...i will use both of them. Thanks so much!

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robertsloan2  says:
3 months ago

This has a manipulative approach. The problem with manipulation like that is that you're going to wind up in a bad relationship.

Sometimes if your girlfriend breaks up with you, you're better off afterward because she would not make a good partner on account of real differences. But there is one method that works better than anything else to patch up a shaky relationship.

Listen to her.

Listen without defending your thoughts and actions. It's very difficult but this will impress a woman more than anything else. Pay attention to what she says. Try to think about it in her terms, they may be foreign to you or completely incomprehensible but they do make sense to her. Take her feelings seriously.

Apologies don't mean anything if you lied in giving them. If you apologized but still don't agree on the issue, then you're going to do the same thing again and that leads her to not trust you. Build trust by being honest and not just agreeing to things to get her to shut up. If you disagree on something, then disagree and don't pretend to agree.

If you disagree on too many things, then look for another girlfriend who's closer to your way of thinking.

You can find out more about what she wants by listening to her than anything else. She will tell you, she may have been trying to tell you for years what she wants. If it's not possible then the relationship is built on a lie and you're letting this person run your life.

The problem with lying is that you have to keep it up, sometimes for years, then you can't trust her either because if she ever knew she would ditch you. It's better to find someone you trust in the first place.

Even though it's lonely being jilted, it's sometimes easier to find a new love than it is to try to rebuild a relationship where she broke up with you. Sending mixed messages and jerking her around with manipulation only sets up a set of rules that make it Okay for her to manipulate you.

Warning: women are better at that. They are raised to be manipulative and know all those games inside and out. If you open that door at all you will wind up facing much worse than you've done coming back at you.

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takeyou  says:
3 months ago

thanks robertsloan2 ; thats so true

guess i'll copy your comment and post it as a new hub lol.

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