Keep the virginity is not easiest keep our wallet from thief. Especially with the increasingly in society. Free sex is become society phenomenon. For people who preferred his own desires, discussing the importance of keeping virginity is unimportant anymore and even became ridicule for them, and losing virginity by having sex with a loved one (before marriage) is reasonable. The influence of cultural, social and electronic media, especially television and the Internet, allows people to act like that.

Viewing and reading the vulgar of picture or video which are not balanced with the knowledge of religion and moral values caused the teenagers doing free sex. We all know the effect from this activity like young pregnancy, venereal disease, HIV / AIDS. As a parent and teacher we absolutely don't want this happen to our teenagers. Here are some tips to keep virginity and protect our teenagers from free sex.

Choose a couple who have a precious quality both in terms of religion and the actions. Choosing good community have great effect for us to increasing our spirituality. A good partner will not invite us to obey sin and lust, but he will maintain our honor

I recommend that before a relationship continuing, make a deal that we don't want any dirty deeds that accompany these relationships. The Spices in 'dating' like touching in sensitive "area" should only be done after getting married. Just little kissed not a big problem. We have right to keep it and don't be afraid to ask for it to our couple.

For those who've been together like dating, between love and lust become apparent. That is why many people think that "hot" kissing or hugging is expressing our love and it looks normal, even though such this activity is the entrance to do free sex. Try to give explanation to our couple that we don't want to do this. If you afraid to resist and together slipped due to the desire, the potential for such acts is bigger in the future.

Try to always be in the public places and remain monitored by family members. Avoid activities that could arouse passions like watching a porn movie, reading pornographic magazines and so on. Avoid alone in the house because in the same times gives us the opportunity to do many things beyond our control. Avoid the alcohol drink when you are in the pub or cafe. Because it can make us unconscious and do negative things under the influence of alcohol.

Spoiled attitude should be avoided because it can provoke others to act out of control. Avoid clothes that reveal body shape and open. Dressed in tight and revealing private parts in both  and the same time with your partner could providing us to  the crocodile's mouth.

Religious value could we get from the church (Christian), mosque (Muslim), religion, books. And the moral values we have in school or parents. Beauty for women, good looks for men, like virginity, this is a gift for each woman, and they have to keep it well. Don't give it to someone who is not our legal partners.

Free sex have a big risk of contracting a dangerous disease, such as syphilis, HIV / AIDS and other venereal diseases especially . Not only the couples who get a bad effect from this, but  families can also suffer. When the victims are women, she could had unwanted pregnancies.

Should we wear this stuff to keep our virginity? Sometimes we talk about how to protecting our self (woman) from rape / violence. And automatically keep our virginity for someone who want to stole it. What do you think with the picture below?

I don't think so. We need kind of trust to keep the virginity well. We must apply either in word or acts. Just faith that can prove whether we were virgins or not.

I think after we read this hub, we have different perception about this topic. Maybe in the "west" culture, this is not a big problem. And it allowed with our consequences, we realized to do this for loosing virginity because of love. I also had write a hub about "virginity". I just want to express it as an education for our teenager to keep their attitude. I hope they also keep their virginity. And as a parent and teacher we give a little attention about this case.