This I must admit has just happened between a good friend of mine and myself. You have not stated whether this is a women to women friendship or a man to man or a women to man friendship so will have to use a few examples. I have a male friend who only yesterday had a little hissy at something that I wanted to do. The only way we managed to save the day was not to walk away when we both knew that there was a huge issue between us. So instead of me getting in my car and returning home we went to the nearest coffee shop and sat down and tried to reason things out. I must admit however that we where slightly successful in reaching some sort of understanding before i left to return home. however it took 50min or more of phone time later to actually get down to the nitty gritty of what actually was the issue and for each of us to see the other persons side of things. We don't always have the same perspective on things and unless you can get a fairly good communication going and keep it going between you issues are going to remain a problem. I must admit that years ago I was the first one to keep issues to myself and moan and groan about the other person when they where not around. I had a women friend who only really came to visit when she wanted something and although i knew it to be true i still wanted that friendship. Then one day it all blew up and that was the end of the friendship. Neither one of us was prepared to give in and sit down and sort out the issues so we both lost something that might have been a lifetime of friendship.

Stop and firstly evaluate if this is a good friendship - does it bring you joy and are the issues between you so bad that you cannot bear them. If your friend is not a positive person and does good for you maybe its time to break that friendship and start a new one. Remember people that we surround ourselves with should be there for us no matter what and although i don'tknow what your issues are there is only one way to resolve it if it really means something to you and that is put your pride in your pocket and go and say I FEEL when you do .................... whatever is the issue if they do not want to listen then what type of friend are they in any case. Move on and find another friend who does not have an issue with communicating with you. However with modern communication there are many ways to also try and use emails or sms, or how about the old fashion way of sending flowers with a note!

All I can say is way up if its a good friendship or not the put away your pride and go and sort it out!