How to get your ex back
72how to get your ex back can be a tricky subject
Lately I had a few people asking me the how to get your ex back question. That's because I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago, and than we got back together after a few weeks.
It seems that many people do have second thought after the break up, and want to give the relationship another chance.
I'd like to share my experiance of getting my ex back. I will tell you what I did, and maybe you can use that in your own quest for reunion. OK?
So, before you really start taking action and arranging the meeting (more on that later), I suggest you do a bit if thinking beforehand.
Here are the things you need to consider:
1. Why did we breakup, and what has changed since? If you broke up because you one or both of you has ran out of love, than ask yourself why do you want to get back together? If a person doesn't love you anymore, the best thing for both of you is to let go.
2. If there is still love, than was is something in your, or your ex's behaviour that caused the break up? Can you identify what it was? Can you change or accept your ex for who they are? This is an important aspect of relationship. You should actually ask yourself if that person "qualifies" to have a relationship with you. Now is a good time to do it, and consider the very idea of you being together. For example, if you are fit and eating health food, and your ex let's his or her body go, gaining weight and going out of shape, is this something you can live with? is fitness is an important part of your life, maybe you and that person don't belong together.
3. After you answer these questions for yourself, sit down and write your resolutions. It's important that SOMETHING will change when you get back together, or you WILL breakup again after a few weeks. There is no poing in getting back together if you will get back to square one in a few week time.
After you did all that, it's time to arrange a meeting.
This is an important part of the how to get your ex back process. Don't do too much phone calls or emails. These are not effective in getting back with your ex. A face to face meeting is.
OK, so you get her or him to meet you. When you do, it's important that you find out the following details:
1. Does he or she still love you? again, if there is no feeling left, I recommend both of you move on. Life is too short. On the other hand, if love is still there you owe it to yourself to make the effort.
2. Are you two willing to make the effort, change your habits, accept each other for who you are? If so than you are on the right path.
After you make a mutual commitment, you can start over, this time with much better chances of knowing how to fix relationship problems.
If you are still confused about how to get your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back than here's a great resource you can use for further help.
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i want my ex back because he says he still loves me.. the only reason we broke up is because he is going to basic training and said that a long distance would be to hard on us. But now since its getting closer to him getting ready to leave he is pushing away all his friends.
My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago because we'd been arguing and she got mad so she kinda snapped and we both still love each otehr but she's worried that if she gives me another chance it won't be the same so she doesn't want to because she doesn't want me to get hurt... I love her and I want her back
well, i broke up with my girlfriend for the second time, well, this was kinda my second chance and i blew it... the fact is that i didn't really listened to her when she told me what should i change, but when i realised the things i should change on my own... it was too late! i dunno what to do cuz it was the best girl in my entire life, and now she said the at the moment i`m not the right guy for her... i really want her back, and i really want to change..
So here is the deal... my ex an i broke up a couple if months before i found out i was pregnant with him. i am only 17 and he is only 18 now i told him and he is kind of there for kalee (my daughter) and he dosnt come around as much as i want him to, see i dont even know why we had broken up in the first place he just stopped talking to me after we went out for 3 years, i have never cheated and never lied to him i just really want him back so we all can be a family again i miss him so much and i only want for one thing and that is for us to be happy... i really want to talk to him and tell him how i feel but i am to scared i feel like i dont even know him any more.. and i dont know what to do. i want to feel that special feeling again like the first time we held hands or kissed. and i want him to be apart of my daughters life.... please tell me what i should do
my ex and i have been together for almost 5 years, about a year and a half ago, i demanded we take a break, and i slept with someone else, he eventually took me back but it was never they same, he was always accusing me of things and would get really possesive and insecure. he broke up with me 2 weeks ago, but i want him back because i know we both love each other deeply, and i want to prove to him that there is no other man in my life besides him...please help !
i had a boyfrend but he didnt love me back so i broke up with him and he was beggin for me back what does this mean
If your ex says he doesn't like you,but you can tell he still does how do you get him to say that he does?
What should I say to him to make it look suspicios? Persuading ideas? thanks
ok..my girlfriend wanted a break from me,during the break she thort to herself that she didnt want to do this anymore,she doesnt feel the same about me and thats the thing that has been worrying me..what do i do,i dont wanna lose her,has any1 expienced this and what was your outcome?
ok my ex and i were going out for about 8 months and i knew her before that, well everything was going great until she had to move away and she told me she doesnt like long distncae realationships, so we broke up, well she got another bf, and broke up with him, and now she is going out with this guy i just meet not to long ago, and doing a long distance realationship, and moving back here what should i do when i hang out with her and how can i get her back, or should i just forget here cause i know she still loves me and cares for me. help help help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
i really need my ex come back cause i love him so much and i cant even study or eat or talk.all the time i cry.i know that he still love me but he told me its better to separate.i told him that i cant be with him anymore cause he hurt me almost of time.and that he dosen't talk to me as i want,then when i told him that he was so happy and he told me thanks cause u understand me and really its better to separate cause i love be free.and you u dont let me.so we just be friends but i refuse.cause i cant be friend with some one i love.please help me
soo i been going out with my wifey for about 3 years on and off.. only because she lives an hour away from me and now shes going outta state for colllegeee
i cheated on her many times.. and i cant get her utta my head, i want her back because shes so gorgeous and i didnt plan to do her wrong like i did.
i was dead wrong, i went astray.
im not living a true life snce she just left meeee and never talked to me since.. whattttttts that about?
i know i scerwed up, and iknow im weak about letting her go.. but being single is soo hard yet im pestimistic about it, its really not as bad as i make it seem
thats the problem
i like get back with my ex at least she treat me an the kids good, my gf thinks she so hot that i going be her slave - hahaha no ways was much better b4 with the wife
I have a boyfriend but I still love my ex but i love my current boyfriend what do i do ???
i trying 4 get my ex wf back b4 i dump my gf
Hiya me and my gf broke up on wednesday, cas she was saying i was lieing to her all the time. She is going out with my best mate and i tried to ask her back but she dont answer the texts or she keeps saying " i will fink about it" i need help ... Thanks
before i was free, but my bf always monitoring what i doing. He drive me nuts, ha, ha, ha and i tink i going jump of one building like everybody else here in Hawaii...no beeeeg deal, ha, ha, haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
Getting your ex back doesn't have to be difficult. You just need to know what to do and it isn't what you would think you should do, like begging and being extra nice.
You people need to go to school and work on your grammar before you try getting your ex's back. For real.
You people need to go to school and work on your grammar before you try getting your ex's back. For real.
Sez i feel for u man i had exactly the same thing with my ex g/f. we split because she sed she wasnt happy because of arguin but i tried since november to get her back send in flowers everyday bein nice to her doin things that noone wud do for their g/f coz they probs cudnt be bother i tried everythin i tried movin on everything. but i still love her even know im tryin to get her back. i wudnt count on gettin her back and its the worst feelin ulle ever have but the only consolation is that im goin through it with u. i dont know her so i cudnt say but my experience is she dusnt care she has slept with sum1 else whilst i tried to get her bak shes played with my head its messed up do what your heart tells u be sure to write bak to see if this helps!
I broke up with my ex a while ago (for the second time). I ended it bc i felt like he was drifting away from me. I later found out that he was distancing himself a little bc he knew i had been regularly texting a guy who everyone knew liked me. even though i didnt like the guy in that way, he felt it was disrespectful. he later admitted, after we broke up, that he was ready to work it out. i had a rebound boyfriend, but i broke up w/ him to work things out w/ my ex. we never got back together. we're still friends but i cant stand to be around him knowing he's not mine. i know he still loves me but i think he likes the single life too. we still have sex, and i wanna know if this is a bad idea if i wanna get him back....PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!
Im in love with a marry guy.We been together 4 almost 2yrs. He has 2 kids but he said he was getting divorce.But in the begining he lie 2 me.I didnt know he was marry.He only told me he had a daughter.After that we whent out. Few months later his wife call talking smack.She told me they were together and that she was pregnant.After all that drama we didnt care we kept on talking and seeing each other.We used 2 meet in our spot every other week .but we never got 2 homebase.And he care 4 me alote i really trusted him with my eyes close.And he ask me so many times 2 move in together n have kids.Just one day he didnt answer his phone n my text messages. And when i ask him what happen he said that the time came 4 him 2 leave his wife.and i ask him if he still loved me he said yes and said we need 2 talk thats it since then i havent heard 4 him.pleas tell or help me what really happen. Did he only play with me or what he did so many favors he never ask anything in exchange. he used 2 tell me that i was the right women 4 him .
i broke up with my ex a couple of weeks ago. He wouldnt talk to me. What do i do to get him to talk to me. I really like him. its like i cant stop thinking of him. I reallt want to talk to him. I think he still likes me because he is always looking at me. But how do i get him back and get him to talk to me. And he is into soccer. Its ok for me but he loves it. Do i change
Ok my boyfriend broke-up with a week before our year and I have no clue what to do? I still love him and he still loves me im just so cofuzed. I really can't consontrate without him like I can't eat, sleep, work or any of those stuff I really need him in my life. I'm nothing without him it's been three months without seeing him or talking to him. He calls me once in awhile but I always answer his calls but I have nothing to say to him its too hard to talk to him he says we should just be friends but I can't handle being friends with the guy I really love with my life what should I do?
my fiance finnished with me in june as she says she loves me but not enough to be with mewe live in same house she says she wants to find the love she feltwot do i do to help her and me
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I WOULD LIKE TO ADD A COMMET ABOUT SHEYLA IN REGARDS TO HER SITUATION. I WANT TO SAY THAT I REALLY WANT YOU TO REALIZE WHAT YOU ARE ASKING... FIRST THING YOU ARE A WOMEN THAT IS DEALING WITH A MARRIED MAN. FIRST NO NO...ARE YOU STUPID!!!! HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF THAT WAS YOU AND YES I UNDERSTAND THAT AT FIRST YOU DID NOT KNOW ...BUT THE FACT IS THE POINT THAT HE DID NOT TELL YOU AND LIED TO YOU WOULD BE YOUR FIRST CLUE WHAT WAS GOING TO EVENTUALLY HAPPEND SO... YES I WOULD SAY HE PLAYED YOU BIG TIME..YES HE MIGHT OF FELT AN ATTRACTION TO YOU AND ENJOYED YOUR COMPANY BUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP STARTED ON A LIE BECUASE THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS WIFE...SO YOU WERE.....AN INTERTAINMENT DISTRACTION HOBBIE HABIT...ECT THATS ABOUT IT...THE FACT THAT HE WANTED TO END HIS MARRIAGE AND PROMISE YOU A BUNCH OF LIES IS BECUASE HE WANTED TO KEEP YOU ON THE BACK BURNER...THAT YOU AND HIM DECIDED TO KEEP RELATIONSHIP GOING ON EVEN THOUGH YOU FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS A CHEAT WAS YOUR SECOND CLUE ...WHAT MAKES YOU THINK IF HE LEFT HIS WIFE LIED CHEATED AND CONTINUED TO DO IT WITH OF COURSE YOU COPERTION THAT HE WOULD NOT DO IT TO YOU OR DECIDED TO COMMIT TO YOU HAHHAHA YOU ARE NOT THAT SPECIAL....SO NOW HE SAID HE NEEDED TO TALK TO YOU BUT HE NEVER HAD THE CONVERSATION WITH YOU AND DISAPPEARED AND YOU HAVE'NT HEARD FROM HIM SINCE HOW MANY SIGNES DO YOU NEED CHICK....WAKE UP AND FORGET ABOUT IT KEEP MOVING WITH YOUR LOVE AND GIVE IT TO SOMEONE ELSE WHO DESERVE IT AND IF YOU ARE MEANT TO BE WITH HIM TRUST AND BELIEVE IT WILL BE
Don't rush in blindly without a plan... I think that's the key to figuring out how to get your ex boyfriend back. Thanks for the solid tips!
This works trust me
The techniques work trust me
thnks
I did all the wrong things before I read this is there anyway to recover from it. I can't even get him to talk to me.
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wow some of u people r so rude other peole have relationship problems and ur saying some harsh crap so u need 2 shut ur fat mouth ok
i just got my ex back and im so happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i broke up with him last year and never talked to him until monday . my friends asked him back out for me and he said yes so we re going out again but a lot of people have a problem with that because hes kinda a dork but who cares , hes really nice and sweet and cute and he is a really great person once you meet him . i hope whoever is having problems with their boyfriend/girlfriend that every thing works out. love you!!!
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Good Hub archer.
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Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up not too long ago and i think that he went back to his ex. The story begins like this: We met in college and started dating. About a month later I found emails from a girl who he was saying how much she loved him etc so i sent her a facebook friend request but she denied me and he said that they were dating before but they broke up and that shes not his girl. Anyway a million lies later and after I found out the truth maybe another month or two later i find out that he was dating us both. In fact he had been dating her for 2 years since high school and they were in love and me for 3 months in college and he claimed to love me. He ended up dumping her and I dumped him briefly but took him back to give him another chance because he said that he didnt want to be with her but didnt know how to break up with her and that was the only reason they were still together at the time. Then he said he really wanted to be with me so I decided to give him another chance. Nevertheless, they remained in contact, which I hated so much but me and him became inseprable (or so i thought). When he got sick and was in the hospital I took care of him everyday and i did everything for him, cleaned him, washed his clothes, fed him, helped him walk, helped him with contacting his teachers about work, etc i was basically like a wife for him and he seemed to appreciate me so much but then he went home early because his mom wanted to take care of him and then i found out through other sources that his ex was visiting him very often and that upset me. Then an incident occurred in which my sister figured out the password to her facebook, and talked to him through it and she said that he was saying how he wanted to be with the ex instead of me, but when he realized he wasnt talking to the ex he changed the story and talked about how he wanted to be with me so badly. When he asked me if i knew who figured out her password i said i didnt know but i did. And two days later i told him the truth. And he dumped me becuase I "lied" (mind u he lied to me for over 3 months). Then he still wanted to be friends but i dont know why. I think he is dating his ex again because the whole time me and him were dating she kept asking him to dump me and telling him how much she loved him. she was waiting for him to come back to her even tho he cheated on her and now that hes single i think she's made her move. right after we broke up she changed her facebook relationship status to in a relationship and i think they're back together. but i want him back. i know i shouldnt because he dumped me after all i did for him but i do want him back. my friends say he just wants to be my friend so that he can come crawling back when school starts again and that he wants to keep his options open, but i dont even know if he loves me anymore. he calls sometimes, but i dont know if he wants me back after i lied or if its even worth trying to get him back....please help what should i do, how can i get him back!?!?
He is in a relationship now...is all hope lost?
alaina says:
2 years ago
how do i get my ex boyfriend back in my life for good