There are several signs that you may observe that will tell you if you have a cheating husband or not. Here are some common reasons and signs on why a husband would cheat on his wife.

Reasons your husband will cheat on you

None or not enough sex. First and most obvious is the lack of sex you have with your husband. Men, especially younger men, need a lot of sex. If for some reason your husband is not bugging you about sex, you should feel suspicious. They might be getting it from someone else, be it in real life, or having an affair online.

He may not be physically attracted to you anymore. Another common sign, after a long time of being together as a couple you may have gained a few pounds, etc. A husband will cheat if he doesn't find you sexually attractive or arousing. If your husband does not find you attractive, it may lead to lack of sexual intercourse and we all know that men can't live like that for very long.

Husband lost all feelings for you. This may happen after years of being with your husband. He may get bored, and just lose all his feelings for you. Falling out of love will lead to him seeking another mate.

Signs you need to watch out for

1. You notice whenever you want to have intercourse he gives reasons to avoid or put off.
2. When you have intercourse, he's not into it, and usually acts like it's a burden.
3. A cheating husband is very secretive. If you have never kept secrets from each other, and he starts doing so, you might have a cheating husband.
4. He never asks you for sex. He used to as much as beg you for it, but not anymore. If he doesn't need you for that, he may be having intercourse with someone else.
5. A cheating husband suddenly will work overtime a lot more, or will have more nights out with "the guys"
6. When you try to cuddle, or be intimate with your husband, he is aloof. He doesn't cuddle back, or is sweet to you like he once was.
7. He has a new cellphone. There have been "wrong number"s recently, and he is being very secretive around the phone, putting it down whenever you get home or go in the same room
8. A cheating husband will hide what he is doing on his computer. He may use a new email address if you know his password.

These signs are just a guideline to help you in determining whether or not you have a cheating husband. This may be present and you may observe them with your husband but he could not be cheating on you. Then again these signs might NOT be there, but he could be cheating on you.

If you have a strong feeling that your husband is cheating on you, you should make a list, and start spying on him. Learn everything you can on how to catch a cheating husband. There are several things you can do, such as spy on his computer and cellphone.

Keyloggers

What is a keylogger? Simply put it is a small (one to two inches long) hardware placed at the back of your computer, in your keyboard socket, which you will attach you keyboard to.

This piece of hardware will record and store every keystroke that is done on your computer. So if you suspect your husband is cheating on you, you will find out whatever he types in to the keyboard. This is very important, as you will also be able to find out his password, and secret emails if he has any.

This is what I would recommend to people as technically inept as I am. No configuring required, just plug it in at the back and you're done! You do need to know what a USB and PS/2 socket is. Pictures attached on the right.

Remember, there are two choices, both of which are difficult. One choice would be to leave your husband (how you do that is entirely up to you) either by having a divorce and suing him for everything you can possibly take or just cutting him out of your life right when you find out he was a cheating husband.

Another choice, which is harder and more painful, is to work it out with your (hopefully) ex cheating husband and try to save your relationship. There are numerous motivations for this, the most important one is children. If you have children, you should do your best to work things out, if not for your sakes, do it for your children. They deserve a happy family and loving parents. The effects of divorce on children can be dramatic and traumatizing enough to ruin their future, outlook on relationships, and social life.

On the other hand if you plan on divorcing your cheating husband and you know for a fact that your husband will not change, this is also a strong motivator to get as much evidence as possible. Maybe even hire a private investigator to get the most evidence you can. You will want to fight for full custody of your children.Here you can find more ways on how to cope with a cheating husband. Also please check out my other hub on how to cope with infidelity. 

Lastly, do not blame this all on yourself. You may have been the perfect wife/girlfriend, but some men just really can not help themselves from cheating and having an affair. I hope when you learned something on how to catch a cheating husband. I pray your suspicions are wrong, and all your doubts on your husband are dismissed when you find out he isn't cheating on you.

Good luck,

Kris Z.