if your best friends wife was known to be cheating on him would it be right to tell him...bearing in mind that the...
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Yes it would be best because even though you may be shot down first you will be helping them in the end to realize that their wife has been cheating on them and they should beleive you because you are someone close to them as well. You also have to make sure you have evidence to prove your story as well so that way you can show him without getting shot right away before he has a chance to beleive you in the first place. Knowing that you have evidence will also make him less likely to shoot you in the face right up front because it sounds more plausible.
On the otherhand you have to consider how long they've been together and what they know as cheating before saying that it is cheating because they may have already arranged limits and though it may be cheating to you it might not be cheating to them because of the limits they have set.
So all in all making sure that you have evidence is the best way to make sure you don't get shot at right up front. I hope this has helped and thanks for the request. I've been needing them. Anyone else who has a request for me please send me one and I'd be glad to answer it asap.
Espian~
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yes it is, but I don't have any money to do anything fun. I don't have time to think about spring break. Sad but true.
be creative, imagine a trip. I never any money or got to go anywhere either. It would probably make you feel better though to write something like that.
No, you should approach the wife and let her know that you know what's going on and let her deal with it. Marriages are much to fragile without outside interference as it is.
I agree with writer rider, but me personally, I would mind my own business unless it was outright embarrassing my friend, then I would approach her and tell you she has to tell him.
interesting hub,well done.The other incentive to tell them would be the sexual well being aspect.A cheating spouse does not have the right to decide for their partner wether to put them at risk or not.Basically what if no protection is used?That was the cheat choice not the loyal partner.Well done.
As someone whose wife cheated on him for a while before I found out, yes you should say something. (Gently) It is painful, but not nearly as much as your friend finding out that you knew and said nothing. I find out at the doctors office. Enough said.
goldentoad says:
11 months ago
Can you write about what your plans for spring break, or an adventure you would like to go on if you could. This is your last spring break of your high school year, isn't it?