love is a four letter word, but it is only one that actually means something positive. thinking your in love is not exactly what it is. feeling your in love is good. being in love and knowing it for as long as my husband and i have is real. 32 years we have been together. it has not all been good, but it has all been worth the wait. we are better lovers now than ever. beleive me. know your in love before you make any steps to make it forever.