Lost Love: Change and Get Her Back

When you feel you can't do something do you focus on the future or the past?

If you're looking at the future are you feeling it won't work, lost the love, respect ... of the love of your life, your friends, family ...?

If you are stuck in the past, are you looking at areas that didn't work or felt cheated, ripped off?

What do you say to yourself when you can't do something. What language do you use? What language do you use to keep yourself pumped up? Constructive or destructive?

What images do you use. Do you see images of the relationship not working out or working out with images of laughter and joy?

What do your feel? Are you afraid, apprehensive, paralysis of analysis, lack of confidence ... or are you looking forward for another chance to strut your stuff?

What are you believing you are not good enough, handsome enough, smart enough, strong enough, talented enough ... or are you doing something like grooming yourself tt believe you're handsome enough, going to the gym so to believe your are strong and attractive enough, reading books to be expert enough ...? What are you believing?

If you are focusing on the wrong things you set yourself up for failure.

For you to advance your position, whatever it may be, ask yourself what should you focus on? What images should you use? What positive language to fuel your direction? Feelings you should be feeling to move forward? What is the focus you should have that will have great imact?

Your reality is based on what your perception is; what beliefs, feelings, language, images and focus you conjure in your mind.

You need to align all 5 areas for things to materialize in your life. If even one of them is out of alignment it can bring all the others down. For instance, if the one thing out of alignment is FOCUS, how is that going to impact the others areas of your psychology?

If the LANGUGE is negatively out of alignment, how is that going to impact the other areas you are focusing on, believing in, imaging and developing feelings for?

All of these areas impact each other and it's important to work on one of them; it will impact all the others. But work on the others also. What you have today is a direct result of what you did or didn't do yesterday. And tomorrow rests on what you do or don't do today. Perception is reality.

If you're focus, feelings, language, images and beliefs is on victories and images of victory, feelings of victory, language of victory and belief of victory .... Guess what?