LOVE TRIANGLE CAN BE THE BEST - my experience
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When something becomes rotten in the relationship of two, people usually need some change.
Some of them take the holidays together, some of them make children, so often at least one partner finds new lover, or platonic relationship.
Triangles are very interesting human game, which very rarely solve relationship problems, usually this condition doubles them, but people are very stubborn creatures, and use that exiting method for many centuries, so it might be some secret magic in cheating, for good or bad.
Who am I to judge the others?
Sometimes relationship seeks for refreshment, it really does, my own recent experience says so.
When my boyfriend and me were successfully fighting about almost everything, the third person appeared in our life to balance us. Without her and her positive energy and her soft influence, there would be no improvement between us.
In our life entered the lady, elegant, tender, charming, polite, obedient to my boyfriend who was desperately needed that from any female on this world (I was reluctant to obey him. Very!)
Finally she started to live with us, and saved our relationship! Voila! Things can work on this way as well.
Was I jealous? No way. I am to wise to be jealous - my boyfriend needed refreshing. As a compassionate healer, I am able to understand that.
Our new roommate was incarnation of true womanhood in his eyes: gentle, quiet, good-behaved, never complained, cuddly, waiting his orders and listening him with wide open shinning green eyes.
What a change for him, comparing to my stuborn behaviour! He enjoyed every second while communicating with her, she was perfect.
After few months, we discovered she was pregnant, and our joy started to be even bigger.
When she gave birth to 5 gorgeous kittens, our life definitely changed for better and even more improved.
These creative little creatures made further miracles, and made us laugh so many times with their tricks and games.
This is Hub of gratitude to our cat and her great children!
He, he, he, I hope you enjoyed my true story how our relationship improved, after we adopted our Princess and her amazing kittens!
When people do not know how to cope among themselves, they so often need non-humans to teach them how to be tender, compassionate and well behaved.
Non-humans are so often much wiser then human can ever be, and can teach us so many highly intelligent ways how to behave in community.
BTW, Princess is not so quiet and too obedient any more - although she is the best cat in the world - in our eyes!
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He, he, he, Mary, good tittle weaks up, always.... But story is very, very true, each part of it.
Good night to you, good day to me, thanks for the visit.
She and her family are beautiful T.-M. The lady in my life is sitting behind me (in front of the heater,) waiting for me to go to bed, so she can share the company, and the warmth. She too has fur, and purrs.
Love, Peter.
Wow, Peter, you also have choosen the best lady, better than any woman in the world, he, he, he.... Give my cuddle to your cat... Thanks for the visit.
Love to the both of you, as well.
I was amazed when I saw the tri-angle thing from you, left everything and saw your cats... Hhehe. You are funny
He, he, he....he, he, he....he, he, he....
Thanks for the visit, MAD!!!
No T-M, she chose me, as all cats do of their humans.
Not necessarily better than any woman in the world, certainly not a surrogate. Just as demanding, has her moods and tempers, more honest than most of the women that I've been with, less devious, and as dependant, AND independent.
BTW, She's high on stroking and low on cuddling, which is as well; I'm much the same whenit comes to animals.
Cheers, TOF
You are so lucky she has chosen you, Peter.
You are right, cats always choose their human pets, Princess also has chosen us, testing us little by little.
She is also independant, and teaching her children to be the same. Now they sleep somewhere in the garden...and one little one is next to my PC, sleeping as angel, how cute!
Thanks for your return.
Hey you got me too, wondered how a love triangle could possibly work, and moving her in with you! thought you must be barmey and then the twist...haha..brilliant. Hope you are all doing well.
He, he, he, what one tittle and little imagination can do. Thanks for concern, we are all well.
Thank you for your comment, HD.
Thanks! You have renewed me. And that first photo is incredibly beautiful!
Thanks for the nice words and for your visit, Nancy.
Tatjana-Mihaela: Those have to be the most adorable kittens I've ever seen! Fantastic that you and your love took them in, I always appreciate those who allow themselves to be chosen by their cats. (Because it's true, cat's choose you, not the other way around.) Good luck to you, your love and ya'all's babies. Give 'em a scratch behind the ear for me!
Beautiful cats, Tatjana-Mihaela - they must keep you very busy! I could not imagine living in a house without cats - we are up to six, now :)
Thanks, Nicole, for so nice words and support. Cats are great, cute and very intelligent. He, he, he, and realy good teachers of compassion.
Many regards from Dean and me....
Thanks Suffidreamer, let me share you the secret: Princess and cats have garden as well, and with a little effort, kittens become reasonably well behaved.
Well done, with six kittens, many regards to you, your wife and to them...from warm Croatia to warm Greece.
Great title!!! I too was thinking, "I know she didn't let another women move into her home" Although I have known people to do so!! Glad it was a cat!!
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He, he, he...thanks for reading. Well, this is deffinately female cat, and no, I would not let women to live with us...no way!
Thanks for commenting me and for visit.
Thanks, and regards to you and your growing family. A garden really does help, and we rarely see them at this time of the year - only at food time!
Thanks SD, summer is nice - for people and cats....
LOL You got me too Tanechka! You really don't sound as a girl who would so calmly react to a triangle, so I got really puzzled - until I got to the answer LOL. Thanks for an excellent reading :)
You are wrong Misha, believe me, I would very calmly react if third part of triangle is a guy, he, he, he.....for me, of course.
Ah, these cruel rules of society press us to choose only one partner at the time. So we need to obey that, he, he.
I enjoy creating Hubs like this one, all of readers were confused.
Love and hugs
Aha! Hold on, I am coming ;)
Warmest and tightest hugs you ever had :)
Thanks Misha, the same to you!!!
Does you bf approve of it? ;)
Ha, ha, you can imagine!
Only cats would not mind, but they do not have right to vote.
He-he, well, than I don't want to disappoint him and would have to postpone my visit a bit, until he adopts the idea ;)
He, he, he, this sounds very wise, but not too perspecitve in the material reality, ahhhh....
What bright eyes they have. Nice job Tat, you had them going but I sorta figured you for not a third human.... Seems that would go against your grain....pretty funny approach to this hub just the same. They are beauties.
Thank you C:S.A. Cats are blessing, but ve had to give to our friends 3 of them.
Hope you are better?
Thanks for the visit and comment.
Oh Tat,
I am much better now. Thanks to a little help from the cosmic forces and friends like you.
Very, very happy to hear that...
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VioletSun says:
7 months ago
I just finished meditating and getting ready to go to sleep, but saw your hub and was tempted to read it. You got me! hehe. I was caught off guard and didn't realize it was going to be about your cats. LOL! The cats are indeed beautiful.
Goodnight, much light, and have a great day or evening in your time zone. :)