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Which is the Best Martial Art for a 10-year-old Girl?

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By Patty Inglish, MS

They Can Do It - What About Me?


Do You Want Exercise, Focus, or to get out of a Wheelchair?

Martial Arts can help with any of those, provide enjoyment, and help adults and children in any number of goals. (Photos this page, public domain)
Martial Arts can help with any of those, provide enjoyment, and help adults and children in any number of goals. (Photos this page, public domain)

Martial Arts Weaponry

Musashi Miyamoto with two Bokken (public domain). A variety of weaponry is avaiable across the martial arts. Care and age limits are wise in choosing these for your child, male or female.
Musashi Miyamoto with two Bokken (public domain). A variety of weaponry is avaiable across the martial arts. Care and age limits are wise in choosing these for your child, male or female.

How About Girls?

© Patty Inglish, 9th Dan Black Belt; 2007, all rights reserved.

Thanks for asking about martial arts study among 10-year-old girls, SunSeven.I can't address all the points here, but will highlight some important apects.

After studying and teaching martial arts for over 25 years, I cannot point to any single martial art and say with certainty that it is better than any other for a 10-year-old girl, or for anyone. At this point, as the US Representative to the Supreme Council for Sports in Africa Zone -3, I have a hand in advising many martial arts, including Japanese Styles, Korean Styles, boxing, and even women's wrestling. Fourth Dan (degree) Black Belt Master Alberta Kekuna is one of my advisees and is not only the head of the women's wrestling team endeavors in Cameroon, but also of the group of women studying our expanding Jidokwan Taekwondo.

I currently have held 9th dan black belt grandmaster ranks in Jidokwan Taekwondo, Hapkido, Yudo, Jujutsu, and Unarmed Combat Defense since 2000-2001. All of this took concentrated effort and hard work, with practices inside and outdoors in all weather and geographic conditions. Further, it requried a lot of writing, music, and fine arts, as well as volutneer service beyond the martial arts school lessons 2-4 times per week 1-3 hours at a shot (20 hrs/week). It was also expensive. I use martial arts to help people rise from wheelchairs permanently and avoid surgeries, and to ease students' conditions such as arthritis, high blood pressure, migraines, chronic pain and many others. The additional benefits are too many to mention here.

My own training began for health reasons as a result of an injured back and a few other physical concerns from overwork (all cured withtin 9 months of first training). I enrolled in a traditional class of JIdokwan Taekwondo and was trained from that foundation with additions of Yudo (Korean Judo), Hapkido, Jujutsu, and Combat Self Defense. My weaponry has included the Korean straight sword, long staff, double middle staffs, short staffs, nunchuku, Korean dart, Asian fan, knives, sharpened throwing stars, traditional scart techniques, kama (similar to hatchets and machetes), whips, practical everyday objects, and others. It is important to find out the curriculum of a class and school before joining. Most schools do not have such an experience instructor as I was fortunate enough to find.

How involved does a child what to become in martial arts? For instance, my 3rd Dan Black Belt examination was performed outdoors in the winter in a state park - 3 days in January and 3 days in February that year, around 30 degrees F. We spent 2-3 hours a ta time outside, 6AM, 10AM, Noon, 3PM. Snow, ice, slush, mud. At one point, for a few hours, I was up to mid-calf in a freezing stream performing technqiues and defense drills, and then was required to fight my way up a steep hill covered with ice and some mud, using minimal hand hand holds. The hard training developed my stamina and I did not become ill.

My 7th Dan Black Belt test was done similarly in the heat of New Orleans - over 100 degrees F. Thus, some styles of martial arts help you to acclimatize to all weather conditions. Others do not. What does the family and child prefer?

Some classes never practice outside at all. One class in California has no building -- all of their classes are outdoors.

There are many things to consider and much variety. A family may need to try several schools in order to find one that is good for their child. It depends upon the qualilty of the instructor and the curriculum. If a school has a very long-term contract, then perhaps they should be avoided. A friend of mine signed his son to a contract year of classes at $2400.00 (10 years ago - think of the price jump now!) and the child attended three times and quit (no refunds). Classes at the local recreation center usually are much less expensive.

My class training began at a rate of 3-hours in length. Many classes today are only 45 minutes or even 30 minutes long. In my opinion, mine were too long and the modern classes are too short. Currently, I teach hour long classes offered 4 times per week. 2-3 hours a week is a good length of time to practice.

Does the child need exercise or self defense? Some classes teach self defense that works and others teach exercise drills with martial arts foundations, but less practical knoweldge. It is important to find out which is which.

Eclectic Martial Arts that combine elements of many styles is big in business in America today. It depends on the quality of the instructor as to how much the child will learn in these, and any martial arts classes. Some classes are very good and some are run by people that have never had a lesson in their lives - they went to the martial arts supply store or online and bought a uniform and a belt. Martial Arts is not regulated in America. However, it is supported by the government in West Africa and is growing by leaps and bounds, so to speak.

I can say with certainty, however, that traditional Muy Thai in which broken and ground-up glass is stuck onto one's arm wrappings for sparring is not the martial art to choose for a 10-year-old-girl, and not for many adults.

 

100s of Styles, 1000s of Federations

There are hundreds of martial arts around the world and in some countries, each family line has its own style that is passed from generation to generation. Many of these styles come under the umbrella of any of 1000s of martial arts federation/organization or a government ministry. Not all of them do so.

In truth, each country has had its own initiation into the martial arts with primitive hand-to-hand combat when the human race was young and developing onward from there. Often, there has been the influence of one culture upon another in martial arts, just as there has been in language and culture.

We have found that on the innermost walls of certain of the Egyptian pyramids, are painted drill patterns for martial arts styles as done by the Pharoah's military people over 5,000 - 6,000 years ago.

A millennia-old, truly ancient, martial art practiced in the Siberian regions specializes in neck breaking (Sambo) (That would not do for a 10-year-old, I think.) This is the same region in which, in the 1990s, a soviet psychiatrist began to study the shamanistic background in her culture and discovered certain medical procedures and customs in Siberia that she could not explain. Siberia is certainly a different world.

This brings me to another point - influence from and upon religions related to martial arts. Some martial arts incorporate philosophies and a more religious sort of belief(s) into their practice and others do not. It would be important to the 10-year-old's family and to herself that this be examined before joining any such school in order to ensure that the teachings overall do not contradict the family's and child's upbringing beliefs and values in a negative way.

The stance on tournament participation should also be examined. Some schools (dojo, dojang, kwoon or other) encourage tournament partcipation - some require it and it can be very expensive - others do not participate in this at all. What is the preference of the family and the child? That is important.

Considerations for Your Child

There are many things to consider when choosing a martial arts class for a child, but if an instructor is well trained and a person of integrity, then it matters less what style he is teaching because he/she has so much useful to share.

In some parts of Korea in the mid-to-late 20th century, one needed to be 35 years old, have practiced for at least 15 years, and have attained the rank of 4th Dan Black Belt (there are 10 levels in my tradition) to teach independently. Those rules in Korea have gone away and America has no such rulings at all, so families need to research the instructor and the school in which they are interested. Check the Better Business Bureau for complaints and ask the school for references. Don't be impressed by a window that is full of trophies - you can buy them online for less than $5.00 each.

In my tradition, one must attain the rank of 4th Dan Black Belt and be certified in CPR and First Aid in order to teach independently or run a martial arts school. Our instructors also have college degrees that range from Associates Degrees to the PhD. Our 4th and 5th Dan rank of Black Belt themselves are equivalent to a Masters Degree and above. Above that is equivalent to the PhD.

There are dozens and dozens of martial arts federations around,sme good, soem bad, some existing only on paper, so membership of the instructor in some of them is not a gaurantee of success for one's child in the martial arts as well. Parents must spend some substantial time in checking out the possibilities.

I will say this for our training - we have been able to help some people leave their wheelchairs permanently. We saved one young man from spedning tens of thousands of dollars in leg surgery and he went on to play football, graduate from college and have a healthy life. These are just two of many similar cases. Any well trained martial artist with integrity from a respected style of martial arts can achieve good things.

The Little Gym - ages 4 thu 12

One corporation that specializes in providing trained professionals in the field of early childhood development and movement arts/therapy/training is a well respected firm known as The Little Gym, a child developmental gymnasium that has locations around the world.

In many of their locations, specialized martial arts classes are taught for children anywhere from 4 years old to age 12. The instructors are certified in movement areas such as phsyisiology and they can be trusted with children in all ways to teach them and prevent them from becoming injured or traumatized. See their website for futher details: The Little Gym

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Mark Knowles profile image

Mark Knowles  says:
2 years ago

What a great, informative hub. I never realised there were so many martial arts to choose from.

Patty Inglish, MS  says:
2 years ago

Thanks for the comments! It is a wide and vast category of activty, for certain.

SunSeven profile image

SunSeven  says:
2 years ago

Thank you so much for this hub. Very very good one. I practiced 'Kalarippayattu' when I was a kid. Kalarippayattu is an ancient form of martial arts practiced even today, where I live. I hope you have heard of it.

Best Regards

Kenny Wordsmith profile image

Kenny Wordsmith  says:
2 years ago

Great article. Kalaripayattu is supposed to be our family's pratice, SunSeven, but I am totally useless.

SunSeven profile image

SunSeven  says:
2 years ago

You can still learn it Kenny.

Kenny Wordsmith profile image

Kenny Wordsmith  says:
2 years ago

Ah, but I am now a man of peace.

gamergirl profile image

gamergirl  says:
2 years ago

Great article!

Patty Inglish, MS profile image

Patty Inglish, MS  says:
2 years ago

SunSeven, Yes, I have seen some demonstrations of Kalarippayattu at our local university campuses in their sporting facilties during certain gatherings, and also in some large Asian Festivals around the region. Fascinating.

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Patty Inglish, MS  says:
2 years ago

Kenny, thank you for your comment. Although many martial arts tend to elssen aggressive feelings and behaviors over time, I think this does not always occur. But, I have found it tru for myself. Whatever you do in a peaceful life, keep doing it!

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Patty Inglish, MS  says:
2 years ago

Thanks gamergirl - glad you liked it!

Kenny Wordsmith profile image

Kenny Wordsmith  says:
2 years ago

Yes, Patty,right! I was a kungfu enthusiast once, in my college days. Though each martial art says things like 'Only when all options fail should you fight,' followers tend to forget that.But I'm all for teaching children how to defend themselves.

MA lover  says:
2 years ago

Also it's not such a barbaric sport as you think,muay thai schools focus on development of one's body..not hitting brick walls with glass points in your wraps,please check your resources,im a 2nd Dan in Muay Thai so im open for argument

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gamergirl  says:
2 years ago

"MA Lover," first, let me welcome you to Hubpages and invite you, as you say you are a 2nd Dan in a martial art steeped in old tradition, to register as a member and begin writing hubs about Muay Thai. :)

Here's some links I found, just in case you've not seen them MA Lover:

http://www.discoverychannel.com.au/martial_arts/so

Though, to be honest, the best way to go about attempting to correct any Hubber is to press the button which says CONTACT. Thanks!

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Patty Inglish, MS  says:
2 years ago

From the article "Any well trained martial artist with integrity from a respected style of martial arts can achieve good things."

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Patty Inglish, MS  says:
2 years ago

(Spam links to sales and ticket sites have been deleted) Thank you!

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danieltetreault  says:
17 months ago

Wow. I had no idea you were so versed in Taekwon-do. 7th Dan. That is amazing! My two instructors currently hold a 4th and 3rd Dan respectively. Great Hub on Taekwondo.

Why on earth would this Hub be rated at a 72 score? This Hub was so original, filled with terrific content - obviously from an expert. Sometimes Hubpages baffles me. Sincerely,

Daniel Tetreault (white belt)

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Patty Inglish, MS  says:
17 months ago

Well, I'm a 9th dan in 5 styles; and will likely not pursue another long test for many years, if ever again. There is so much written about martial arts on the Internet, everything is old news, so to speak. We'll see what happens. 

Plus, I use martial arts to get out of wheel chairs - that's not exiting enough for some, especially with MMA matches hauling in a lot of money.

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Patty Inglish, MS  says:
14 months ago

Taekwondo attracts far fewer girls in my 9-county market area than do the Japanese and Okinawan martial arts, the dojos of which seem to be half filled with girls here. As yet, I have no explanation other than these other arts came to this region two decades before TKD and became quite popular very quickly and sustained momentum.

liquidice profile image

liquidice  says:
11 months ago

I am all for kickboxing... Its more efficient for self defence + its full body workout.

But thats just me. :).

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BP9  says:
6 months ago

I have to say that I like judo for a child of that age.

While it isn't my own discipline of choice, I think that it offers a good overall experience (depending on the school/instructor chosen) in balance, body mechanics and coordination (while utilizing a good balance of gross and fine motor skills), as well as discipline and focus, without immediately instilling too much of the adversarial or competition oriented mindset one might find in your more outwardly linear disciplines.

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Patty Inglish, MS  says:
6 months ago

Judo can be very good for children - I teach Yudo, Korean Judo but its very much the same as the Japanese style. For Judo and Aikido, I have great respect and Aikido in my city is not focused on competition.

NOTE - With literally 1000s of martial arts federations in the world (unregulated in USA) , a tournament leadership or school that allows beginners - including children - to compete, win an inexpensive trophy, and believe that they are the first, second or third in the whole world in their division out of millions of beginners is reprehensible. It is usually also rather expensive to compete, but not always.  

About kickboxing - A long-time martial arts club in our city taught one style of competitive kickboxing to 5-year- olds with some pretty bad results - injuries and increased agression, accidents at home  - But that was just the OWNER'S  own style of kickboxing, not all kickboxing. When the Korean Tigers demo team began to tour the USA, the only woman on the team was Korean National Champion in women's section of kickboxing, so thats evidence kickboxing is a good style and the original from Thailand is the best imo. My Thai friends have proved that many times.

The style of Tae Kwon Do I teach is highly efficient with economy of movement in self-defense, using full-body workouts in classes. We've helped several people leave their wheelchairs behind permanently. My classes include TKD, Yudo, Jujutsu, Hapkido, military self-defense; energy exercises and elements for other benefits.

Wushu/Kung Fu can be very good for children and need not incorporate Eastern religions, for those that do not wish this exposure. I have seen Shaloin monks work very well with children in America, the monks not even speaking English. They were very kind and taught with dramatization and hand signals - and always a smile and praise for the children.  I met Willy Long (Wushu Champion) briefy at a Jhoon Rhee Washington DC tournament and found him wonderful with children in his direction.

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gramon1  says:
3 weeks ago

First, let me say that this is a great blog!

I teach Shotokan Karatedo in a friend's dojo. I love to teach karate and get very involved with the children I teach. I am not the main instructor, since I just teach karate as my hobby. Therefore, I have the advantage to work only with very selected students I choose. Consequently, I spend a lot of time with my students. We also stay overtime very often. I think that ideally, karate classes should be about 90 minutes for children 10 years or older. Small children are very variable. some can take 2 hours, others can handle less than 30 minutes.

The main problem I tend to find training very young girls is that they do not like sparring. They tend to like better the technical training and the combinations of movements (katas). I think that the best thing is to enlist them in a school that they seem to like, but continue asking them what they like better. Actually, this applies to boys too. Some instructions are not as broad minded as othrs and may turn some children to dislike the martial arts.

Patty Inglish, MS profile image

Patty Inglish, MS  says:
3 weeks ago

gramon1! - I'm glad you visited and left your comments. You sound like a dedicated and knowledgeable instructor. The kids are fortunate to have you.

gramon1 profile image

gramon1  says:
2 weeks ago

Thank you Patty Inglish

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tksensei  says:
18 hours ago

It's always disappointing to be reminded that there are people who think there is some 'thing' that a 10 year old child can learn that will make the differences between that child and an angry, aggressive adult go away. The 12 year old black belt is always depressing to see. Of course, the same holds for most adults, truth be told. The many years of sweat, dedication, time, and (I assume)painful reality it cost you to get where you are, do not come from a book, seminar, or inspirational speech. And at the end of the day, reality still offers few easy comforts.

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