Getting a haircut or having your hair restyled is a serious business. You may not know it, but your hair is your crowning glory. Okay, so it's probably not the newest adage you have heard in your neighbourhood but the fact that it's still used as a style mantra in salons everywhere and as an advertising lure line by the manufacturers of the shampoo you use, makes it a universal truth. So what are you going to do about it? But before you say goodbye to the man who has been facing you in the mirror for a long time now, here are several tips to consider before you march to the nearest barber shop or salon humming "time for, a cool change" (Cool Change, Little River Band).

Going to the barber shop or salon with no idea on what you want them to do with your hair is a disaster waiting to happen. So before you rush into a potential landmine, grab a GQ or any style mag and look for the look you want. If you don't want to bring the mag with you, limit your selection to pictures of hairstyles worn by celebrities - chances are, the barber or stylist would know the cut or style. Another thing, be realistic.

If you have no idea which barbershop or salon to go to, ask your friends for recommendations. But if most of your friends have the same hair problems as you do, casually ask any man you think has a great haircut and ask him where he got it from. If you have finally decided on one, make sure to make an appointment to avoid waiting time or rushing the barber/stylist.

Once you're there, discuss thoroughly with the barber/stylist. Make him analyse if the look you settled for will suit you physically, or is doable, or if your hair type is the right type for that particular cut. If it's a no go, ask for recommendations. They usually have catalogues of the latest trends in hairstyles from which you could choose from. After you have made your choice, again, discuss the pros and cons. And remember to be kind for kindness begets kindness and it's your hair that's going to go under HIS scissors. And what better way to show it than by tipping well? A happy barber/stylist is an honest barber/stylist. A good, healthy interpersonal relationship equals good results. Moreover, you'll know where to run to if you need a new do.

After the cut/style is achieved asked your barber/stylist for possible styles that can be done with your new do (this only works for styles that are neither a crewcut nor a buzz). And while you're at it, ask for tips on grooming and haircare. Hair care and grooming is their business so they would probably know the right shampoo/conditioner/gel/wax to use for your hair type and new hairstyle.

So now you're all set. A word to the wise though, you can either go for the extreme change or stay on the safe side. It all boils down on how ready you are and how much you want it. A haircut could totally alter people's perception of you, for better or worse, but it could also enhance the way you look in a way that you thought was not totally possible. But personally, I say go for it.

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There are several differences between hairgel and wax (or gum, or putty, or paste) other than the obvious. While hairgels create a sleeker glossy (or wet) look, wax and the others in its family tree provide a matted, more natural-looking finish. Although both can work in any length of hair, wax is more ideal for longish hair because it allows stonger hold while the hairgel loses its strength at a certain length (longer than 4in).

For a better result, use your gel or wax after you shower applying from the nape up then blowdry (if you have one) in place. For a more textured look, use your fingers for teasing and styling. You may also use a comb for permed hair - with bigger gaps between each tooth.

When buying gel or wax, choose those that do not leave flakes when your hair dries and can easily be washed off with water alone. And if you use perfume or cologne, go for the unscented variant.