There are many young people so excited to enter marriage life without knowing the real meaning of a marriage. Many people think that marriage is the happy ending of the story.Yes,in fairy tale, but not in real life.In real life,the night after your wedding is where your life start.You have many things need to learn and need to adjust.You need to think and considerate not only your needs but also your husband's needs.That's why divorced are so rampant especially here in USA because of the misunderstanding of a word "marriage".

Marriage is a holy sacrament.Two couples do their vows and promises to love each other,respect,trust and be with each other all the time inspite of happiness,sadness, in richer or poorer,in sickness or in health.All these promises are witnessed by God and people.

Who are the main involved?

There are two main involved in marriage-the husband and wife.If each one of them meant and understand the vows that they made,their marriaged should last forever.You promised to stay forever inspite for the difficulties come in your life,for poorer and richer,for sickness and health.

What to do?

Husband and wife should do their responsibility.Husband as provider for his wife and family needs which the basic needs are food,shelter,clothing and education.He should have work and means to provide all these things.And wife as a helper of your husband should assist,encourage and give hope to your husband.You are the strength of your husband the time when he is so weak.You are the light in your home during darkness.If the storms come in your way,this is not the time to leave your partner but it's the time to hold each other tightly in order to survived.

Respectis very important in your marriage life.If you respect you partner,you don't do anything that can hurt and embarrass him/her such as cheating or betraying,breaking trust and any form of unpleasant behavior in purpose.Inspite,you do any thing that makes your partner happy and proud.

Open-mindedness is also important.The discusion will be pleasant if both of you are open-minded.It's important to open your mind and listen your partner to explain who,what,when,where and how the problems occur.With that,you can come up the solution of your problems and solve it together.

Forgiveness is very important in order to accept your partner as a human and has their limitations.Your partner is not perfect so he can do some mistakes and do something that makes you not happy sort of you,welcome to the world of human! Just think of all the good things that your partner done to you.I'm sure it's more than the mistakes that he made.

Appreciation is important especially to the women.Women are very romantic and self esteem is very important to them.When their husband give them attention by giving flowers and gifts or bringing them to watch movie or concert will really make them happy and forgot the stress for a while from your house.They did most chores in your house that can irritate them.Just imagine taking good care of the kids are already hard plus cleaning their mess, cooking their food and teaching them for what is right and wrong.And many more.So giving flowers and gifts on a special occasion will not be so much for your hardworking wife.

Of all the above,the most important is to know who is God and Love Him.He is the greatest love of all,so you will understand better what is love if you just ask guidance from Him.It's important to have God in your life and pray Him,it's 100% effective for everybody.

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